My mom said I am ruining her marriage

[PreInfinity]

This just came out of her mouth randomly in an argument, and I don't know what to do now. I don't know if I should talk to her about it, avoid her, or leave the house for a while.

When I say leave the house, I mean go to my grandparent's house for a few days, because my grandma said I was always welcome if I needed to come over.


For the last hour I have been thinking about these three choices, not know what to do, and now I am asking you guys, because I know many of you have had family problems before, and I think you can help me.


I am not depressed and I am not thinking about self harm or any of that, so don't worry, I am just sad, and tired and stressed.

[SethfromMI]

maybe go to your grandma's even for a day. but at some point, you will have to talk to her (your mom) about what she said

[StoppingTom]

Sometimes, people say awful things out of frustration that they don't really mean. I don't know your mother, so I don't know what kind of person she is, but yeah, I'd bunk with your grandparents for the time being.

[Just JT]

This. Sounds like a pretty nasty a arguement and some good advice to, personally I agree with all of it.
If yiu need to talk more about it, we're here to listen.
Unfortunatly we really can't help you resolve this without knowing more
But leaving for a few days, cooling off, talking, and trying to accept that it was probably something said in a fit of emotions, will make it easier for the short term

[PreInfinity]

Right after posting this, I went downstairs and talked to her about it, we had a long discussion, and we made up, I think I just needed to get it off my chest.


Thank you, everyone.

[Just JT]

Good job!!
Glad to hear it, good work!!
Dad it all worked out as easy as it did :)

[hesaidhesaid]

Phew! Good you made up...I could never make up with my parents if they said that...and it's not just because I don't really forgive people in general.