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DairyFarmer
October 3rd, 2015, 02:00 PM
Hey guys, so I just started college this fall, as I am being paid by my company to study as a machinist. So, I am only there two days a week. My problem is the girl to guy ratio is 4:1, so I should have no problems talking to any girl right? Wrong. I can't seem to catch any looking at me, I can't seem to talk to them either. If I pass them walking on campus, I don't bother to say hi because we're not even making eye contact. WTF do I do? :what:
StoppingTom
October 3rd, 2015, 02:22 PM
Are you a part of any clubs or groups? That's always a good way to meet people.
DairyFarmer
October 3rd, 2015, 05:23 PM
Are you a part of any clubs or groups? That's always a good way to meet people.

Nope. Like I said, I'm only there two days a week and I work the other three from 5 am to 3:30 pm
SillyShyGuy
October 4th, 2015, 03:51 AM
Make yourself known. Be the one to start the conversation. Ask them if you have seen them before, then say hey we have the same class, do you like the class so far, and all the good stuff. Eventually you make some friends and from there narrow down which ones you want to date.
DairyFarmer
October 4th, 2015, 05:23 PM
Make yourself known. Be the one to start the conversation. Ask them if you have seen them before, then say hey we have the same class, do you like the class so far, and all the good stuff. Eventually you make some friends and from there narrow down which ones you want to date.

Well you see, it's not that easy. I don't have any classes with any other girls, because I only have classes with the other guys in the same program as me.
SethfromMI
October 4th, 2015, 06:40 PM
Well you see, it's not that easy. I don't have any classes with any other girls, because I only have classes with the other guys in the same program as me.

so basically what your saying is you are not going to make any effort to initiate a conversation with a girl? how in the world are we supposed to help you then?