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shibuyaku
October 2nd, 2015, 12:29 PM
Errr, hello!
I've been eating myself out for weeks (months actually, to be honest). I started to like this guy, like, 7 months ago and I've been trying really hard to befriend him because he's kind of cold... I've successed at the beginning of the summer and we have become close friends but he was always kind of angry and he swore a lot. So we started fighting almost everyday through text messages. Sometimes, our fight would be big and we wouldn't talk for max 3 days and then he would text me.
Whenever I told him that someone (it would always be a mutual friend) asked me out he would say "he's probably just joking." "nah, he's trolling you". So when that happened again he said "well, go out with me." and after minutes of questioning, i accepted and then he said this:
"Did you really buy it? lol"
So err yeah. Though the story doesnt end here...
I introduced my best friend of 6 years to my crush and she went to the movies with him and they made out... on my birthday... Though for him it was kind of like one-time thing so she was kinda used but she always happened to be that kind of person so they stopped talking. She also told me that my crush knew that I liked him because two people from our school told him. (btw she's not my best friend anymore :/)
I've been talking to a guy through whatsapp (who is also a mutual friend) he asked me out 2 months ago and i never really gave him a proper answer and i still feel bad about it. after my beist friend betrayed me i stopped talking to my crush and kept talking with this guy and i think i'm about to forget my crush. Though the guy i'm talking to got a gf of his own...
So to make my ex-crush stop believing that I like him, I told him that I liked the other guy and he's been teasing me about him for weeks. When I told him he snapped and told me that I was stupid and too late because he got a girlfriend and he told me to duck off.
So the school began and i went to talk to him on the first day but he told me to duck off again (20 times in 3 minutes) after that I stopped talking to him and I avoided him like a plague. Now he keeps looking at me and I think he's stalking me (I have my reasons) and he's best friend keeps staring at me. Whenever me and my friend walk around they always ask "why does he keep looking at you?"
His best friend asked me about the location of a classroom today and I swear there were at least 10 more people next to me which he could also ask. And they always appear behind me which resulted in a few silent frightened screams. My friend told me that this situation happened to him a lot of times and it was called "liking someone after they stop liking you"
I'm really confused about this whole stuff... I'd be glad if you told me your opinion.
Thank you! :lol:

Zachary G
October 2nd, 2015, 01:17 PM
sounds like dude has some kind of issues and likes to play games. my best advice for you would be to move on and leave him behind, youve had too many opportunities to go out with people who must genuinely like and you let them pass because of the crazy dude. youre only cheating yourself and making yourself suffer by dealing with him, so if you want to get on with your life, forget about him and seek happiness somewhere else.

shibuyaku
October 2nd, 2015, 04:41 PM
sounds like dude has some kind of issues and likes to play games. my best advice for you would be to move on and leave him behind, youve had too many opportunities to go out with people who must genuinely like and you let them pass because of the crazy dude. youre only cheating yourself and making yourself suffer by dealing with him, so if you want to get on with your life, forget about him and seek happiness somewhere else.
thank you for your advice!