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KidWithTheHeadband
October 1st, 2015, 08:07 PM
Today I went over to a friends house and had a pretty nice time. We talked, played video games, etc. I booted up Osu while my friend was in the bathroom, and all the sudden he got a plethora of messages from an old friend of mine (I'll call him J) and all of them were essentially talking smack about the game being "Weaboo" and junk.

This on it's own, I don't really care about.

But lately, I noticed that the friend I was with was sort of avoiding me in some classes preferring to sit by J and his friends who really are just a giant group of dicks to him. I've seen some of the junk they've said to him over steam because he sent some messages to me about it.

But after I saw the messages today I pretty much asked if J and crew talked any trash about me.

I feel like my friend really tried to downplay what they said. I honestly feel like there's more than "Oh this one kid said you're probably not going to get a girlfriend." We both sort of laughed it off because it honestly doesn't matter. But lately I feel kind of like a third wheel. If J & Crew aren't really around, he'll sit by me and chat but even then, its small talk really, and he just goes off on his phone afterwards. But as soon as someone else comes along it's poof. No invitation to come along or anything. It's really kind of disappointing to me, and I honestly feel like he just doesn't want to be around me sometimes.

I feel like there's more then just some quiet smack talk going behind my back.

Am I just being paranoid, or has anyone else had to deal with this?

SethfromMI
October 1st, 2015, 08:19 PM
I can understand how you are feeling. I would try to get him alone again some time, not at school or anything. if it gets to a point man and that is the game he is going to play, tell him you don't need his shit and walk away

pjones
October 2nd, 2015, 06:14 PM
that's tough to deal with and happens a lot in my school. no easy way to deal with it without being upfront with your friend, not accusing, but questioning why he/she is acting that way. as seth says, you don't deserve to be treated like that.

KidWithTheHeadband
October 4th, 2015, 01:39 PM
Thanks guys, will discuss it with him sometime soon.

KidWithTheHeadband
October 8th, 2015, 03:45 PM
Pardon the double post if it comes out like one. But I managed to sort out the situation and we both came to an understanding about it.

Everything's all clear now! Thanks! :D