Attracted

[Gerald1700]

Greetings to all
I have been going to church on Sunday's and while going I have been seeing this Drummer at the musical church band, I find myself always trying to get at this person's sight and get to know him. What I have just thought of now is I try to get close to people but no one ever does that to me. How can I make people want to get to know me even if they don't know me?
Please help
(If this is on the wrong section please direct my ways)

[Vermilion]

Have you ever considered that people are trying to get your attention but your not seeing it as your looking at someone else ?

[Gerald1700]

I haven't considered it lol

[Gerald1700]

So you are trying to say that someone is busy trying to get my attention while am busy looking at someone doing something twin

[Gerald1700]

Have you ever considered that people are trying to get your attention but your not seeing it as your looking at someone else ?
So you are trying to say that someone is busy trying to get my attention while am busy looking at someone doing something ?

[Vermilion]

So you are trying to say that someone is busy trying to get my attention while am busy looking at someone doing something twin

It could be possible otherwise juSt be yourself and someone will find you

[Gerald1700]

Lol am impressed

[Gerald1700]

It could be possible otherwise juSt be yourself and someone will find you
Will someone want to be involved in my life and want to get to kniw me

[Vermilion]

Will someone want to be involved in my life and want to get to kniw me

can you think why they wouldn't ?

[Gerald1700]

can you think why they wouldn't ?
Maybe thet dont care

[Vermilion]

Maybe thet dont care

What do they do that you find attractive ? Can you do the same ?

[Gerald1700]

What do they do that you find attractive ? Can you do the same ?
Driving a car at a young age, being In a musical crew, being a celebrity at a young age etc
Which makes and attracts me to wanting to be involved in their life, it makes me want to know them and get them to know me better to

Most of the things i can't do and some of them I don't have access to them, I just truly wish I can do the same to the people and make them want to know and get involved in my life too

[Vermilion]

Driving a car at a young age, being In a musical crew, being a celebrity at a young age etc
Which makes and attracts me to wanting to be involved in their life, it makes me want to know them and get them to know me better to

Most of the things i can't do and some of them I don't have access to them, I just truly wish I can do the same to the people and make them want to know and get involved in my life too

Someone will want you for you

[SethfromMI]

try talking to him? saying hi? most people will say hi at church

now I do have to bring this up, since you said it is at church, what type of attracted to him are you? I'd just be very careful about getting physically attracted to another guy at church as most of them are going to probably be straight. not always, I know I am bi and go to church, but just so your hopes don't get too high

if you just want to talk to him as a friend, then go for it. say hi and introduce yourself