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Exparagus
September 28th, 2015, 03:52 PM
I'm 13 and if I see a picture of a "hot" guy, especially nude, I get aroused. Is this because I'm bi (I like girls)? Or is it a normal part of puberty? I don't want to date guys, I'm not emotionally attracted to them, so does this make me bi?

Flying apple
September 28th, 2015, 03:58 PM
Nope, it's probably curiousness (every guy has this eventually). We just like to see how other guys measure up compared to ourselves...:)

Bluebyrd
September 28th, 2015, 04:33 PM
You're just curious if you don't have any feelings towards boys

Guycurious
September 28th, 2015, 10:59 PM
I think your curious

Guycurious
September 28th, 2015, 11:00 PM
I think I have the same thing as you. I get aroused and turned on by guys only on a sexual level, I can never ever think of myself being emotionally attached or marrying them, etc.

I want a girlfriend but then I want to do something with a guy... It's confusing but that's how it is for me. :what:

I think your curious

SethfromMI
September 28th, 2015, 11:01 PM
your at least curious, but it is possible you are also bi if you are indeed sexually attracted to guys. but your 13, don't rush to put a label on yourself (not that you ever need to label yourself because you don't)

Zack2
September 28th, 2015, 11:54 PM
I'm 13 and if I see a picture of a "hot" guy, especially nude, I get aroused. Is this because I'm bi (I like girls)? Or is it a normal part of puberty? I don't want to date guys, I'm not emotionally attracted to them, so does this make me bi?

I'm 13 too. I'd probably get aroused if I saw nude pictures of anyone because I get aroused over just about anything. I don't think I'm bi, I think I'm just horny. At least you saw nude people. My internet is barely PG

Canadian Dream
September 29th, 2015, 07:33 PM
Because you don't feel any emotional attraction, I would have the tendency to say you're curious, which is totally normal during puberty. It passes after a while.

will0c
September 29th, 2015, 07:59 PM
Good chance it's just curiosity. Everyone has it, whether gay or straight or in between. It's all good.

pconnor2001
September 29th, 2015, 08:10 PM
You might be curious. Thats all kewl!!

Lost in the Echo
September 30th, 2015, 08:45 AM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender
This is best suited here :)

Just JT
September 30th, 2015, 09:27 AM
It's pretty normal to get arroused by anyone being nude around you, whether your straight bi or gay, doesn't matter. It's all a part of puberty, and might change, might not, only time will tell.
So like Seth said, I wouldn't go label yourself, cause you may come to a different conclusion later.
But follow your desires, but also be careful to

pjones
October 2nd, 2015, 05:50 PM
I'm 13 and if I see a picture of a "hot" guy, especially nude, I get aroused. Is this because I'm bi (I like girls)? Or is it a normal part of puberty? I don't want to date guys, I'm not emotionally attracted to them, so does this make me bi?

you are 13 and going through puberty, that's all. when i was 13 i think i was constantly hard, over everything. don't worry, it will all work out

Legoboy
October 3rd, 2015, 05:34 AM
Mostly likely hormones but lots of studies have been done saying people can be a little bit gay and mostly straight or combinations of all that. Whether you act on it is totally up to you.

The only time you need to make a choice is if a guy you like as a person also turns you on.

I bet there are lots of girls who turn you on who would probably annoy the hell out of you as people which might change whether you'd realistically ever get with them.

Just do you and don't worry about it.

DoodleSnap
October 3rd, 2015, 12:51 PM
Sexuality is a super confusing thing, especially when you have the change of puberty affecting how you feel.
A lot of people are somewhere in between on the sexuality spectrum, more people than would like to admit. Many people end up finding out certain parts about themselves later in lives, or make a decision and stick with it.
My best advice is to just feel comfortable being attracted to whoever you are attracted to, instead of worrying about a label.
I was in the same position as you, a while ago, and now, I actually prefer boys, both emotionally and sexually. These things change.
Just let time and experience work out who you are, rather than confining yourself to one description.

Cadanance00
October 5th, 2015, 02:00 PM
You're normal, dude. Just roll with it.

Pat the Bunny
October 5th, 2015, 03:13 PM
That's a question you can really only ask yourself. Though getting aroused by pictures of males doesn't necessarily make you bi, you're probably just curious.

hesaidhesaid
October 5th, 2015, 09:42 PM
While we cannot entirely answer for you (as you know yourself best), I would say these are the ROOTS of bisexuality but may not necessarily develop to something more.
Give it time?

fandom_king
October 6th, 2015, 04:39 PM
It's a normal part of puberty, but you could still be bisexual. You could also be heteroromantic

TrampCore
October 8th, 2015, 09:19 AM
Sexuality is a spectrum, rather than two opposites (Heterosexuality and homosexuality).
Many people are in between these two (e.g. 89% hetero 11% gay) and there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

MeliWelli
October 15th, 2015, 01:19 AM
Whatever you are, you don't need to label or worry about it. Other people will, but we are all attracted to different things, and like TrampCore said very well, sexuality is fluid. What my boyfriend and I like sexually now, is very different than two years ago, and a lot different even compared to six months ago. We're still discovering what we like, and I don't think that stops at any age. I have to take more of my own advice sometimes, but relax, be happy and have some fun along the way : )

Cadanance00
October 15th, 2015, 02:37 PM
you are 13 and going through puberty, that's all. when i was 13 i think i was constantly hard, over everything. don't worry, it will all work out

Yeh, this^ You're 13.

Just a Guy
October 18th, 2015, 02:52 PM
No this is totally normal and you're probably straight just puberty makes you curious lol

Brieftime
October 18th, 2015, 02:58 PM
I get hard just thinking about anything.