Don't know what to do

[Sailor Mars]

Basically my friend is being really depressing and saying scary shit like she wants to kill herself. She's cut and shit before, and I have no idea what to tell her. I don't want to force any opinion on her or anything but idk what to do??

[Desuetude]

Just be there for her. Try not to freak out or pull always because if she's telling you then it means she trusts you and probably needs you to be there for her. Ask her how she is and listen to her, ask if there's anything you can do. I'd suggest that if she's talking about self harming then distract her, tell her that if she feels like harming herself to text you/call you instead. Give her the support that she sounds like she needs but don't push her to quit. I know its difficult, I've been on both ends but having someone there that you know cares can be more beneficial than anything.

[Just JT]

Keep her busy, pre occupied, I heard physical activity can really help a lot and relieve some of the pressure people are feeling to self harm
Don't be judgemental, or appear shocked or afraid, she's trusting you, and she need you to be there for her

[SethfromMI]

in addition to the things said, if she tells you an actual plan for suicide or you get to the point you are really worried for her you need to tell someone. in fact, I am not saying tell someone immediately, but honestly suicide is nothing to miss around with

[Just JT]

Yes, this to, very important, that needs to happen
There are actually a lot of accidental suicides every year
I agree with seth, if it gets to that point you need to tell someone before its to late

[CupcakeLuv101]

She needs to get professional help. Try to see why she is depressed. Maybe it's something going on at home, or maybe even at school or just something you don't know about. You're being a good friend for wanting to help her out. Tell her that you're always there for her and that she shouldnt do anything harmful to herself. I know it may be hard but tell her that she will make it through this :)