need some help from other girls please

[sarrah16]

well i'm 16 years old and i have a 11 and half year old brother and we are wicked close but lately he is becoming extremely curious starting to peek and always wanting to wrestle I'm NOT bothered by it at all just no idea whats going through his head or if this is a common thing or what options there are to handle it ?

[Nightfall_]

I know I'm not a girl but I would like to try and help you because i think i know whats going through your brother's head.
When you say peeking, what do you mean exactly.do you mean we looks into your room or when your on the toilets? we looks down at our chest frequently or is it worse or better then them?
Also, puberty does start at around 11-12 in boys so he's probably either trying to learn about this kinda stuff or he thinks you haven't noticed yet. If you tell him you see him peeking maybe he'll stop? As for the wrestling, i dont think thats a big deal but it still depends on how he wrestles.... Does that make sense?

Any way, hope this helped a bit.

[Taryn98]

Tell your parents and have them talk to him directly. You shouldn't have to deal with anything if it bothers you.

[BlackParadePixie]

he's 11...he's probably starting puberty and is becoming curious about girls and their bodies. I think what he's doing is pretty normal...but yeah, you should tell your parents and have them talk to him about what is appropriate and what isn't.

[sweettayla]

lt's pretty normal, l've got a 12yo brother to deal with. He's ''accidently'' walked in on me getting changed or in the shower a couple of times and got yelled at. l'll accept his apologies for the moment, as for wrestling and groping me, l do it just as much he does, but he knows if he grabs my boobs l'll hurt him.

[lacey02]

well i'm 16 years old and i have a 11 and half year old brother and we are wicked close but lately he is becoming extremely curious starting to peek and always wanting to wrestle I'm NOT bothered by it at all just no idea whats going through his head or if this is a common thing or what options there are to handle it ?

That is great you are close with him and older too! I think having an older brother is more difficult than younger. You can win the wrestle! My brother is 15 and I am 13. when we wrestle sometimes he gets turned on or touches me on my chest.

Tell your parents and have them talk to him directly. You shouldn't have to deal with anything if it bothers you.

I would just be careful telling on him because some parents are really harsh and can make him feel like a perv when maybe he is just curious. If you are close, maybe you can try talking with him first. I get the impression he listens to you because you are older than him. Maybe just hormones kicking in.

lt's pretty normal, l've got a 12yo brother to deal with. He's ''accidently'' walked in on me getting changed or in the shower a couple of times and got yelled at. l'll accept his apologies for the moment, as for wrestling and groping me, l do it just as much he does, but he knows if he grabs my boobs l'll hurt him.

I am glad I am not the only one with this stuff!

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[Jordan99]

he's 11...he's probably starting puberty and is becoming curious about girls and their bodies. I think what he's doing is pretty normal...but yeah, you should tell your parents and have them talk to him about what is appropriate and what isn't.

This.

My little brother is only five and likes to sleep with me especially if he wakes in the middle of the night or has a bad dream. He will often hold one of my boobs as he drifts back off to sleep because he finds them comforting. I tolerate this behavior for now but once he is older (especially once he is into puberty) this will stop because it won't be appropriate. If your brother is making you feel uncomfortable I'd talk to him. If that doesn't curb his behavior, ask your parents to address this with him.

[Jinglebottom]

I don't know how to help, but the mere thought of grabbing my sister's tits nauseates me.

[AutumnWinds]

well i'm 16 years old and i have a 11 and half year old brother and we are wicked close but lately he is becoming extremely curious starting to peek and always wanting to wrestle I'm NOT bothered by it at all just no idea whats going through his head or if this is a common thing or what options there are to handle it ?

any update on your situation?