I did this when he was asleep

[JasonChoo99]

When he was asleep, he also had a boner so i decided to pull his pants. I gave him a blowjob and abit of handjob. I also measured his penis and his penis is 5 inches and he girth is very small. Is this okay ?

[Tyson S]

Probably not the best move. Next time just ask

[ValentinClarke]

When he was asleep, he also had a boner so i decided to pull his pants. I gave him a blowjob and abit of handjob. I also measured his penis and his penis is 5 inches and he girth is very small. Is this okay ?

If you are not romantically involved with him, then this is rape/molesting. Just make sure to ask next time.

[Ratman1234]

What connection do u have with him?

[Bluebyrd]

Who?

[JasonChoo99]

We are best friend...he told me that he is willing to let me do it

[Andre 99]

Next time, ask him and do it while he is awake.

[pjones]

never a good idea do something when the other person hasn't agreed. you don't want someone doing that to you.

[Sandybeaches]

This just seems wrong, it's not fair to assume someone wants you to do that or do it without their knowledge

[Zachary G]

I have a rule, even if the person is willing to do something with me, if they are not awake or sober then I will not do anything with them no matter how much they might want it because i dont want it coming back on me that I took advantage of them or something.

[Just JT]

That's considered rape, sexual assault, or something really bad like that
You don't have the right to do that to someone when they did not or can not say ok
Depending on your ages, there could be other criminal offenses to

[Ollie2000]

that is just wrong in so many ways!

[CuteGuy889]

Yeah..it;ll piss him off...I know how pissed I used to feel when my own mom used to take my pants off when I fell asleep ..even whn I was 10 or so....she used to do this in front of many other too...just take my jeans off whn I fell alseep and pull my tee down to "cover" my briefs...It was horrible to wake up in my briefs and tee shirt...

[Pat the Bunny]

I also measured his penis and his penis is 5 inches and he girth is very small. Is this okay ?

I have a feeling this is just someone wanting to know if their penis size is "normal" but is embarrassed to admit his size. If I'm wrong he just raped someone

[will0c]

Probably best not to do that again. I'd come clean to him. Hopefully he's cool with it, and next time will do it with you! It's more fun doing it together anyway

[Hermes]

I have a feeling this is just someone wanting to know if their penis size is "normal" but is embarrassed to admit his size....

If this is the case there is too little information to make any kind of informed comment. We don't know the age or state of development of the owner of the 5" penis, though I believe 5" is within the normal range for an adult.

We are best friend...he told me that he is willing to let me do it

Before you did it? Has he said clearly that any time he is sleeping and you want to masturbate or suck him to just go ahead?

The thing about someone being asleep is they can't object. Normally, if you are doing something sexual with someone, they get the chance to decide how far it goes which obvious can't happen when they are asleep so you do need to be really clear about what is agreed or else this could easily count as rape.

[Uranus]

Yea that's really awkward. And probably illegal....

[pconnor2001]

Regardless of age this is a very wrong thing to do to someone else.

[SethfromMI]

yea..next time do it when he is awake and you had the chance to ask him

[GoGoDiego]

It is really wrong. Next time ask him out if he is awake.

[hesaidhesaid]

I would call this 'experimentation' (if you can even call it that) to a whole new level. It's a bit too much... *growls in annoyance*

Man up and tell him what you did. Then see if you're even still friends with him. This is not just a bad move- it's possibly a criminal offence and it's most certainly not something I condone (or I don't think many people on this forum would at all).

[david_2k]

My friend that's 3 years younger than me grabbed my cock in a swimming pool and tried jacking me off so we went to the jacuzzi tried it there and then every time we've been at each other's house together we've just experimented with each other

[northy]

If he was asleep, this was rape. Best keep it to yourself.

[iChrisbtv96]

Who was it? And yeah, I would have just asked when he was awake. How did he not wake up though?

[Jaseblader]

When he was asleep, he also had a boner so i decided to pull his pants. I gave him a blowjob and abit of handjob. I also measured his penis and his penis is 5 inches and he girth is very small. Is this okay ?

Who is he? And by ok I believe you mean his size, yeah it's fine.

[Just JT]

Who is he? And by ok I believe you mean his size, yeah it's fine.

No, think you misunderstand, he's asking if it was ok to give his friend a BJ while he may sleepin'

[Jaseblader]

No, think you misunderstand, he's asking if it was ok to give his friend a BJ while he may sleepin'

Oh ok thanks mate and that's not ok

[lkc413]

Umm, well I'd say that he had to be awake at some point for that. But still, you should definitely ask.

[Short Circuit]

When he was asleep, he also had a boner so i decided to pull his pants. I gave him a blowjob and abit of handjob. I also measured his penis and his penis is 5 inches and he girth is very small. Is this okay ?


If he had a boner, then the chances are he was not asleep. What you did is technically rape/abuse, depending on both your ages

[Cloud_Strife]

When he was asleep, he also had a boner so i decided to pull his pants. I gave him a blowjob and abit of handjob. I also measured his penis and his penis is 5 inches and he girth is very small. Is this okay ?

We are best friend...he told me that he is willing to let me do it

If he had said that it was fine to do it, at one particular time, it doesn't mean that it is right for you to do it at another instant. Decisions change under different circumstances and times.

In addition, if he really would have been okay with it, why would you have done done this when he would have been unaware, nor been able to give you consent at the time? Following on from that, if it was really okay, then why would you then have had any need to ask us if we thought it was okay to do so?

It sounds like a case of sexual assault, with you the asking for reassurance, so as to justify your actions?

There is a video on Youtube, which uses the analogy of tea to explain the concept of consent quite well. I think that it applies here very well. I'd encourage you to watch it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fGoWLWS4-kU

So if what you said really is what has happened, then the right thing would probably be to admit that you did what you did. If he is then fine with it, that's a different matter. What was done has to be assumed to be wrong otherwise.

I hope that helps and that you do the right thing. All the best.

If he had a boner, then the chances are he was not asleep. What you did is technically rape/abuse, depending on both your ages

I agree that it is probably rape/sexual abuse/assault, etc, but the age would then probably not matter. It is still sexual assault. In addition, just because he had an erection, doesn't mean that he wasn't asleep. A male can have natural erections during a sleep cycle - nocturnal penile tumescence. They would still be fully asleep and without any physical stimulation; let alone with being physically stimulated here. So I'd still say he could have been asleep when all this happened.

[Harrier]

Not cool. I doubt just because he said he was open to it that he meant like whenever. He's a sound sleeper too lol.

[Anomaly]

Depends on how well you know him?

[Patri6k]

I have a feeling this is just someone wanting to know if their penis size is "normal" but is embarrassed to admit his size. If I'm wrong he just raped someone


Same

[Walgreensofficial]

Tbh I think that's rape. I would wake him up and ask hell probably say yes cause he's just horny

[crushinator]

U should probably ask first.

[Dalcourt]

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