Who am I?

[heatherxx]

I wouldnt really have the confidence to verbally say this to someone but i dont really know what sexuality i am? I am bigender but this doesnt change anything! i feel like i should like boys as i am biologically a girl and in my family this is seen as the correct thing to do. Dont get me wrong i get aroused by a penis:wub: i'd like to experience a penis inside me, But im getting the feeling that i may also like girls! :cool: I get turned on by boobs and vagina:wub: etc and a woman in general.
Side note i have two psychology teachers who are female and they are engaged!( they are so cute:wub: ) but i just think that i'd like to be like that! But i love boys aswell!:wub:

Any advice would be appreciated :yeah:

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Hello Heather, you are quite normal to feel the way you do lots of girls and boys go through the same thing, the only advice I can give you is to go with the flow. Don't change your feeling towards girls or boys just because your family thinks you should have a boyfriend, if you want a girlfriend then go for it, at the end of the day its your choice and your life. Hope it all works out for you. And when the time comes am sure you will make the right choice for the right reasons. XX

[ImagineRepublicCity]

I think you might be confusing bigender with bisexual. Bigender is like experiencing yourself, both male and female, which means you identify as a girl and a boy, bisexual however, is being attracted to both, males and females.

Either way, you don't ever have to be confident in saying your sexuality, whatever it is, it's fine, you don't have to label it at all, and it's 110% normal to like anyone. If you did have to label it though, I would say bisexual is the way to go.

[Elysium]

Puberty for Girls :arrow: Teen Sexuality & Gender

[Desuetude]

I think you might be confusing bigender with bisexual. Bigender is like experiencing yourself, both male and female, which means you identify as a girl and a boy, bisexual however, is being attracted to both, males and females.

I think the OP understands the difference and knows that they're bigender but doesn't understand their sexuality as they said that 'being bigender doesn't change anything'.

I would say you're bisexual and yeah, that's fine. If you've accepted your gender then what's stopping you from accepting your sexuality? It's okay to be attracted to people that aren't your opposite biological sex. Just go with it and keep your options open. If it makes you feel better then don't label yourself at all. It's hard to find sexuality labels when you're not a binary gender but bisexual still seems to work for someone who does identity as bigender.

[plushdreams0608]

I feel like it is normal to be curious, I feel like lots of people feel the need to label themselves as straight, gay, bisexual etc. But I don't think it's necessary

[SethfromMI]

well I would say you are bi curious but you are also bi gendered or label yourself as...i am not sure what to do about that

[Cadanance00]

Don't look for a label for yourself. It's OK to be turned on by a hot body of either sex. It's who you want to love that makes the difference. It seems like half the girls in my school used to be lesbian and now they're hooking up with boys.