My Crush Likes My Enemy.

[SillyShyGuy]

I like a girl who happens to like a guy with my first name. To me she is pretty because I do not care if she is a little heavier than other girls. She is super smart and mature for her age. After knowing each other for a month we hung out together. She bought be a sandwich and we talked for hours. At the end of the day before we parted ways she said she had fun and said we should, "go on a movie date sometime." That was two months ago.

One day at school she remembers that I have never tried chocolate covered gummy bears and brought me some so I could taste them. It was very thoughtful. I like making her laugh and we have deep conversations. She comes to me to talk about things that stress her out and how she is self conscious about her weight. I listen and comfort her.

Then my enemy started talking to her more. We are fighting over the same girl. He makes her laugh more than I do. She smiles and laughs whenever she sees him. He is an immature fellow. She has those boring deep monotone voices and repeats the same jokes.

I am being patient for that movie date that never happened. I think I should give up because she seems to like him more even though she opens up to me when we talk. Should I wait? Should I just let her be with him? Should I try harder and ask her myself?

[StoppingTom]

If he hasn't made a move, you might as well beat him to the punch and take up her offer for a movie date now.

[Uniquemind]

Don't be possessive, play it cool and make the 2nd move.

She already made the first move by saying what she did.


Your inaction to follow up might've been seen by her as rejection.

[SillyShyGuy]

I continued to remind her about our movie date over the summer so I did not reject her. I am wondering why she said that if she is too busy to make time for our movie date.

[Uniquemind]

I continued to remind her about our movie date over the summer so I did not reject her. I am wondering why she said that if she is too busy to make time for our movie date.

That means her heart has moved on.

Sorry.

Don't pester her about it anymore.

[lkc413]

It sounds to me like she wanted you to make the move. Girls like for guys to make the moves. If I were you, I would ask her out, but you may be too late. But for future reference, usually the guy needs to make the move because girls typically aren't gonna wait around long.

[Patri6k]

That sucks dude

[Nightfall_]

That sucks dude, im so sorry. The only advice i can give is to straight up ask her on the movie date, if she says no, or that she likes someone else, you can at least say you tried and that you know to be quicker with the next girl (because there are literally 3.5+ billion girls waiting for a guy like you to drop into there world). I hope this help's