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Kitty_Kat
September 18th, 2015, 08:52 PM
Hey I am a 16 year old female who knows nothing about dating or what guys like in girls, so if you are a teen boy between the ages of 14 and 18 feel free to answer these(also give your age, hometown, and race I need statistics!!) thanks!
1. What do you look for in a girl?
2. Does intelligence matter?
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
jssixna
September 19th, 2015, 02:46 AM
16, USA, German/Serb
1. Personality, easy to talk to, pretty
2. Yes, I am not fond of idiocy
3. I don't care for breasts though a butt is always nice
4. Yes, if I really love her and connect with her
5. Be confident & be yourself. Don't be fake with someone you like.
drunkbanana17
September 20th, 2015, 12:14 AM
16M , Athens ( Greece )
1) Personality, cute
2) Yes
3) not at all but its a nice plus
4)Yes because there's no rel difference
5)I guess "be yourself"
Typhlosion
September 20th, 2015, 02:51 AM
19, São José dos Campos (Brazil) / Born in Corvallis OR, Brazilian/Latino
1. What do you look for in a girl? Personality's number one for anyone, no?
Smart, and is cute.
2. Does intelligence matter? Of course. If you're going to rely on each other, you'll also be relying on each other's decisions.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? I don't think so, no. A pretty face, cute smile, and/or beautiful hair go miles.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? My girlfriend is arab, can't say no even if I wanted to :P
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.I have no clue. In our situation, it kinda just happened... With some very curious personalities in the middle.
Jar51394
September 20th, 2015, 03:35 AM
Male//16// half black
1. Typically, just a genuinely nice person. Hopefully good looking.
2. As long as you're capable of making the right decisions and can stay on the same pace as your partner, you're fine. Common sense also please.
3. Not so much as you would think. I prefer an attractive face over either of them. I suppose it is a plus though.
4. Yes. There shouldn't be a reason you wouldn't. I have, aND it's worked out fine.
5. If you're shy, don't act like you're not. Of course build up the courage to talk to the person you like if he doesn't do it first, but seriously. Dont. Be . A . Fake.
Rallo
September 21st, 2015, 08:10 PM
(ALL answers are MY personal opinion, other guys opinions may differ)
1. What do you look for in a girl? A few different things. Firstly their voice, I love girls who have really cute accents/voices. Then hair, eyes and personality. Other things do matter to me, though those I find are usually the main common traits I see in girls I find attractive.
2. Does intelligence matter? YES, majorly. I find it SOOO attractive when a girl is extremely smart. I have quite an interest in physics amongst other things, so girls with an intellectual strength in such areas are a bonus, though extensive intelligence in ANY field and I'm quite impressed by it.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? It's never mattered to me - a girl who's not lucky with those aspects woudn't have any less of a chance with me than a girl who is. However that been said, like most males, I am naturally attracted to such things still; it is a bonus.
(I've worded this poorly though can't think of how to word it better - apologies if I sond like a bit of a fuckboy... I just mean when it's the case of if I would date someone or not, it doesn't matter. On the other hand though, if I find it attractive or not - that's a different story.)
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? (just a warning, this may sound racist. I'm not racist, this is simply how I feel - I'm simply stating what I do and don't find attractive) Truthfully, I find certain races more attractive than others. On the other side of things, there are a few races which (for the majority of the time) I simply don't find attractive. That been said, I wouldn't simply not date someone because of race - If I liked them and they liked me, I would have nothing against dating them, no matter of race.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share. Messaging and phone calls before hanging out. Get comfortable with them on a more personal level before you hang out with them one-on-one. Even if it's someone you see everyday at school, a few phone calls and conversations allows you to feel more comfortable with them on a personal level, this usually then translates into feeling comfortable when with them physically too.
SethfromMI
September 21st, 2015, 08:17 PM
17/M/White/Ann Arbor, MI
1. What do you look for in a girl? funny, sweet, beautiful, intelligent
2. Does intelligence matter? oh yes
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? no, but I do want to date someone attractive, but I don't look for a particular bra/boob or butt size
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? sure, if I loved or was interested in her
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share. be yourself and don't be afraid to talk and start a convo. even a simple hello may get you in the door
Andre 99
September 22nd, 2015, 01:08 PM
1. What do you look for in a girl? personality, kindness, looks
2. Does intelligence matter? yes, i want to be able to talk about stuff, I don't want to talk to a bimbo
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? no
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? yes
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share. be yourself, there will be plenty of guys that will like you
Waleedbt
September 22nd, 2015, 06:00 PM
20, Arab.
1.What do you look for in a girl?
Personality, nice smile, takes care of herself.
2. Does intelligence matter?
Ofcourse, i love debates, and someone who has an opinion is the best!
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
Not really.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
I would, just never really went deep on thinking about it so much.
Im attracted to a certain type..
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
Im a shy guy so i have nothing , but be confident and think of yourself as the best!
lkc413
September 22nd, 2015, 07:51 PM
1. What do you look for in a girl? Authenticity and original personality. must be light hearted and easy going (no drama queens)
2. Does intelligence matter? To an extent. I don't have to date a genius, but at the same time, you need to have a brain. And if she is a genius, she can't be condescending or show it off.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? While are guys will say it doesn't they are lying. I will put it this way, guys are going to hit on the more attractive girls by nature, so if you are less attractive, that simply means you have to make the first moves and play a little harder. I will date a girl without large butts or boobs, but the likelihood of me noticing her is slimmer. Also, while those things are nice, personality is so much more important.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? Probably not,and the only reason is because I am genuinely not attracted to those outside my race, not being shallow or racist.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share Be yourself and be okay with it. Relax and have fun. Every no puts you another step closer to a yes.
SillyShyGuy
October 13th, 2015, 01:01 AM
1. What do you look for in a girl? Honesty, charisma, discipline, and humor of course.
2. Does intelligence matter? Yes, but then again I fell in love with an idiot. Love will find a way.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? No. My friends and most guys like big bums and chest. I prefer the opposite. Small chest and petite bum are perfect.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? Yes because it would give me a chance to learn and see if I can go further with a girl outside my race than if I dated within my race.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share: Do not let jocks steal you from nice guys. Shy girls make the best love stories sometimes. Please let a shy nice guy sweep you off your feet than have a jock go out with you and shatter your heart into a thousand pieces.
hesaidhesaid
October 13th, 2015, 01:45 AM
1. What do you look for in a girl? Authenticity and original personality. must be light hearted and easy going (no drama queens)
2. Does intelligence matter? To an extent. I don't have to date a genius, but at the same time, you need to have a brain. And if she is a genius, she can't be condescending or show it off.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? While are guys will say it doesn't they are lying. I will put it this way, guys are going to hit on the more attractive girls by nature, so if you are less attractive, that simply means you have to make the first moves and play a little harder. I will date a girl without large butts or boobs, but the likelihood of me noticing her is slimmer. Also, while those things are nice, personality is so much more important.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? Probably not,and the only reason is because I am genuinely not attracted to those outside my race, not being shallow or racist.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share Be yourself and be okay with it. Relax and have fun. Every no puts you another step closer to a yes.
This. Although I will add a couple of things:
1) I would date a girl outside my race...it's far more important to fall in love than it is to determine what race she is.
2) I couldn't care less about a girl's cup size or butt size or whatever. To me- if you have a big heart, a big conviction and if you care about us, then that's what will work for me. What a shallow question...
Tesserax
October 13th, 2015, 04:46 AM
1. What do you look for in a girl?
2. Does intelligence matter?
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
1. Personality, a little bit of looks, but most important is "Does she keep herself well? Am I attracted? Do I like the way she dresses?"
2. Intelligence matters massively. If you don't know Pythagoras' theorum I can forgive you. But you have to be smart in some way: You're really deep, you're creative and artistic, maybe you play instruments well and understand music deeply. If you think that the moon landing was faked, or that 9/11 was a conspiracy you're going to have a hard time finding a guy.
3. For a guy like me (I'm more nerdy, not one of the cool kids, but I'm probably less likely to cheat as well, and it would be more likely to have a long-term relationship with me), boob size doesn't matter. Neither does butt size. In fact, if it's too big I'm going to be a bit reluctant, like I won't judge, but I prefer small-medium. So I guess in the end it's up to preference, but it shouldn't matter really.
4. I'm mostly attracted to whites despite being Asian, but that's because I grew up in a white society around white people and stuff. The only race I'm reluctant to consider dating are the dark skinned races (I'm just not attracted to that skin type, or the way their particular race looks, but don't count the tanned people. When I say dark I mean really dark)
5. Act cute, try and get to know the guy and talk to him. Just act shy and friendly, I like it when girls do that. Try to open up to him as well, tell him about yourself on an emotional level; try to establish the emotional connection as soon as possible or the relationship might end up being purely physical, which isn't a good thing. Also, a guy like me gets attracted to the emotional side, so if I see that you have a personality that fits what I want from a girl I'm going to like you
theHoneyBadger
October 15th, 2015, 02:51 PM
1. What do you look for in a girl?
A bit of looks, a nice smile, well kept figure (hygiene), must be able to hold a conversation
2. Does intelligence matter?
I was brought up with "find a intellectual equal to yourself", so it does in a large way, but not PhD Student level, just not making others doubt why I am with her.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
Nope, there are other much more important factors to me than Bottom or Breast size...
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
No... I grew up in a country with strong racial tension and it is frowned upon by my culture.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls?
Remember that guys can be just as shy/nervous when they approach you. If you want to be approached, try not to give negative signs towards them, and remember that often at times if a boy doesn't know you, his heart is up in his throat when he tries to talk to you, so just play it cool and give him a chance, we are only human after all.
Cadanance00
October 16th, 2015, 05:07 PM
1. What do you look for in a girl?
Likes me. Interested in things. Mischievous. Unconventional. Shy is okay but don't make me do all the work.
2. Does intelligence matter?
Yep. I like smart girls.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
the girls I like tend to have small boobs and firm butts.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
Yeh. that shouldn't make much difference
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
Make eye contact. admit that you're shy. don't think he doesn't want to hear what you say. ask him about himself.
project_icarus
October 16th, 2015, 06:07 PM
16, Perth, Western Australia; Anglo-Australian (/white).
Personality and quirks, easy-enough to talk to.
Absolutely. Common sense and logic is good.
Not as much.
Absolutely 100% yes. I see no reason why not to, I love hanging around with people of different cultures, races, ethnicities, it makes life more interesting.
Try to relate to whoever you're with emotionally or socially, this will make you more comfortable with them and hopefully conversation will be a little easier to keep up.
talldutch
October 27th, 2015, 04:13 PM
16, Dutch but grew up in Sweden
1. What do you look for in a girl? Fun to talk to, boobs, butt, face
2. Does intelligence matter? Yes
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? Not make or break but definitely helps a lot
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? I guess I don't have anything against dating someone from another race but all of the girls I've been with have been white
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share. Push through it!
roadwarrior
October 27th, 2015, 09:34 PM
1. What do you look for in a girl?
-Looks.. and Personality
2. Does intelligence matter?
-Yeah...
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
-No, size doesn't mean everything....I just like boobs lol but i still doesn't care of its size whether its big or not.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
- Yes, why not? If a girl likes or truly loves me and we've had a good communication.. I wouldn't waste a chance for it... I've been dreaming for a European/Caucasian girl... and I'm Asian......
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
-I'm a shy person too... But I don't waste time for chances. Stop being shy. There's no reason why you must be shy, you only live once in this world so don't waste your time..
Being shy is just simply destroying your life.....
PinkFloyd
October 27th, 2015, 10:23 PM
1. What do you look for in a girl? I look for a girl who isn't fake or a hypocrite. I look for a good, down to earth girl who isn't stuck-up and entitled like three quarters of girls in my grade. I'm not a sex crazed maniac, nor do I judge people on their looks, but I look for a girl who looks decent.I'm not saying the fake plastic looking models, I mean someone who's cute. Again, I'm not a pig, I just prefer a nice, cute girl.
2. Does intelligence matter? Yes. yes it does. I dated a girl who's one of those really stereotypical hot girls who's ultra-popular and all that. Not gonna lie, she is smoking hot. Tall, with blonde hair, and looks like she's 20. Then we went on a date and all she talked about was make-up, he hair, and sex. Oh, and the best part? She started talking about how her ex was really bad at sex and then told me how small his dick was and ugh... Then she asked ME for that measurement. We'd known each other for 20 minutes and she asked that. Well anyways, things didn't get far with her. :lol:
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? I can honestly say no. I don't think big boobs are amazing like most people. They're just there. I would date a girl with less than an A cup without a problem. Butts don't matter either.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? Yes, I would, but I'm more likely to date my own race because that's just human nature--associating with people who resemble you.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share. Shyness is not a bad thing. It's actually cute to a lot of people. I've been dating my girlfriend for well over a year now and she's still shy.
MarsReid
October 27th, 2015, 11:38 PM
1. Artistic, Amusing, Outgoing ummmmm common interests.
2. No.
3. No lol.
4. No because... that doesn't matter at all...
5. Just impressively be yourself.
Tesserax
October 28th, 2015, 12:44 AM
1. What do you look for in a girl?
Intelligence, some amount of beauty (just keep yourself, don't be extremely overweight, don't do your makeup to an extreme level, look after yourself and you won't have to worry about your looks)
2. Does intelligence matter?
As stated above yet. If you are ignorant of important things and we have nothing to talk about I'm going to get bored. If you can sustain a conversation with me on the same level of intellect, then good
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
It depends, varies from person to person. General rule of thumb is guys looking for bigger butts and boobs TEND to be less reliable for a proper relationship. Note, this does mean that all guys that like these are like that, just statistics. I personally prefer small-medium cup size boobs, and the butt I don't care, just don't be so big that it's bigger than my ego (seriously, that's hard to even match)
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
Of course! I'm currently dating (and in love with) an Indian girl, and I'm Asian (chinese). We have a Romeo and Juliet thing going on, where our parents hate each others races (but we have a strong emotional connection which is how we know our love is real, even though we met two weeks ago). Race shouldn't matter too much, but of course different people have different preferences
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
Be yourself. Like seriously, literally be yourself. Are you suppressing weirdness? Don't. Are you suppressing your love for metal to seem like a cute innocent girl? Don't. You don't necessarily have to go out of your way to draw attention to that, but be honest. Don't try to act like you aren't what you are, just let it be and you'll attract a good relationship. Me and my girlfriend met on Tinder, and we talked and got to know each other. We were both very honest with getting to know each other and quickly fell in love (we went on a date and it was amazing). Also, if you're with a boy, act shy and innocent, but feel free to express who you are. When I say this, I mean react shyly to his jests and teasing, but tell him that you love metal despite also loving Disney music and dressing like a princess (I'm exaggerating, you get the point). Lean on his shoulder, maybe hug him if he says something and is embarrassed, but don't make it a fully fledged hug. If you're sitting next to him just hug him from the side or something, and if he says something cute like "I think you're really pretty" then be cute and lean on his shoulder and say "awwww thank you" or something. This is from experience to some extent, and what I enjoyed about meeting with her for the first time, so I hope this helps :)
Juxtapose
October 30th, 2015, 12:39 PM
1) Personality (relevant to mine), petite (not too tall or smaller than me) and brunette-haired woman since I find them more attractive.
2) Too much intelligence may be an issue, but a woman who is wise with her choices and knows the same amount of stuff I do is commendable.
3) I don't pay much attention to a woman's breast size but for me personally, butt size is a factor of being attractive and is a huge turn on as being muscular for a man would be towards a woman so I like to be a balance between us.
4) There's many variables that play into this question so I prefer not to answer this.
5) Don't hang out with jerks (most important rule of all), try to research the person such as their social media accounts so you don't go up to them and expect too much from them. Finally, being too shy will make the guy less interested in you whereas being too loud and attention-hungry will also make the guy less interested, balance these two factors and you'll be very attractive (in my opinion).
Interstellar
October 30th, 2015, 03:19 PM
1. What do you look for in a girl? Intelligence is #1, other than that she has to have a good sense of humor, common sense, and like to be spontaneous. When it comes to looks I really don't care as long as she's not, like, disgusting haha
2. Does intelligence matter? Hell yeah - I've only been friends with smart ppl my whole life so dating someone dumb would just be weird
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? Butt>>>Boobs
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? I will say I've never really been attracted to a girl that wasn't white, but I guess it would ultimately depend on her personality...
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share. Find a shy boy lmao...but in all seriousness just try putting yourself out there more I guess
Sandybeaches
October 30th, 2015, 03:51 PM
1. What do you look for in a girl?
Intelligent, sense of humour, not afraid of embarassing herself but is proud of who she is and how good she looks
2. Does intelligence matter? yes of course, but im not super clever so most girls are probably more intelligent anyway
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? I guess yes a little bit of course. I mean if a girl is more attractive then you're going to look at them more but its not the main thing
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? yes i actually quite like indian girls
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share. I'm not sure really im not an expert myself. So maybe don't assume guys are the experts and that they always know what we are doing. Sometimes (most of the time) we have no clue
TiorTristan
November 1st, 2015, 12:19 PM
1. Something I look for? Eyes are the biggest physical part, I love green eyes. Personality wise, enough similar interests but also some polar opposite things to keep stuff interesting.
2. YES! VERY! I don't care if they get straight A's or something, as long as they are not practically braindead. ALSO, another thing DON'T FAKE BEING STUPID!
3. Not really at all, I personally don't care.
4. I personally only have had crushes/dated white girls, but I would if I liked someone of another race.
5. Be confident, don't play mind games with the guy. A lot of us are clueless when it comes to what the other gender is thinking.
Baconator
November 1st, 2015, 02:40 PM
18. Ontario, Canada. Caucasian Canadian.
1. What do you look for in a girl?
People say either personality or appearance. I won't be ashamed to say I judge by appearance, but I also judge by personality. In my opinion for myself, it goes 80% personality and 20% appearance. Hate me for having a shallow end but remember every pool has one, no matter the demographic.
2. Does intelligence matter?
Yes. Not education wise, but life wise. I get irritated when a girl I am into talks only about school or only knows what school has taught them. School gives you lessons then you take a test. Life gives you tests and you learn lessons from them.
Also I'm a huge internet geek. I know a lot more than just surfing and downloading and have knowledge on how the internet itself works (not literally but how people really use the internet), so I prefer my girls to know about the internet a bit more than facebook, youtube and instagram. Like seriously, if you're bored just dive in, it's not difficult to learn the internet in a few weeks. I've been on since I was 3 and caught on by time I was 10 when I started getting a clue on life. Sorry, random bipolar rant lmao.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
Well like I said, 20% appearance. I myself prefer anything between A to the smallest D size. Preferably C. Butt doesn't matter, as long as it's not flat as hell then it's attractive. If it's flat, do some simple squats if you want to round it out. 5lbs - 10 lbs should tone it really. o.o
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
This is where people call me racist. I'm a white male who prefers white females. I do explore a bit but certain races (which I will not list) I just don't find attracted to. If I do find myself falling for someone out of my comfort zone, it's usually really hard and for a good reason.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
I'm a shy guy. Being shy sucks, especially when it's because of social anxiety. If you want a guy to know you're interested, get his number, get his facebook, get snapchat, anything of means of contacting him. I find it amazing when a girl focuses her time on talking to me. Makes me feel like she's very interested and wants to get to know me more. Don't fall for that "Wait X amount of minutes before responding." I really throws shy guys off.
Shy guys usually, and I speak under experience so it could be different but, try to keep to themselves. If I like a girl I'll text her constantly or message her by any means and try to show a little interest but not too much because I fear of a decline. Just make it clear that you want to keep talking to him.
Oh, disclaimer, I use message and text because that's my comfort zone of talking to others. I hate phone calls and video chats. I don't mind face-to-face but it's what causes the most anxiety because you have to think on the spot, where as texting you have a lengthy time to respond so you can think about what you want to say.
Hope this helped :)
justindw199
November 14th, 2015, 10:21 PM
16, America, Caucausian
1. What do you look for in a girl?
-Personality, personality, did I say personality yet?
2. Does intelligence matter?
-Just enough to have common sense and not make bad decisions on a regular basis.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
-Not at all in the end really. It is a very nice addition, but I wouldn't ask you out unless our personalities really clicked.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
-Yes, but I mostly prefer white females.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
-I'm a very shy guy. I've never had a girlfriend, it's never been easy, but I live. If I were you, just be you, and someone will come along eventually, and you'll most likely have a much better first relationship than everyone else. It's the difference of someone saying "Hey, you're hot, let's go out." vs. "I love everything about you and I would be very happy spending the rest of my life you."
JavierDolan
November 14th, 2015, 11:17 PM
1. What do you look for in a girl? Definitely personality. Although good looks are a nice touch. I find it quite disturbing a girl, or anyone for that matter, have intense looks but have nothing behind the eyes. Also, if they're themselves around me I really like it.
2. Does intelligence matter? It's not essential, but I'm not a fan of complete stupidity. I don't care education wise, but I think being smart enough to know that doing something silly is a bad idea.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? Not really.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? It's not something I'd go out of my way to do, but if I like them then yes.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share. Be yourself, don't feel like you have to create a facade for anyone.
ashdyn
November 15th, 2015, 02:40 AM
Hey I am a 16 year old female who knows nothing about dating or what guys like in girls, so if you are a teen boy between the ages of 14 and 18 feel free to answer these(also give your age, hometown, and race I need statistics!!) thanks!
1. What do you look for in a girl?
2. Does intelligence matter?
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
19, Tampa FL, 3/4 white 1/4 Japanese/Filipino
1. Great sense of humor, easy going, confident but not conceited
2. Absolutely it matters. She doesn't have to be a genius or even get like all A's but I have to be able to have conversations of substance with her.
3. Boob and butt measurements don't really matter but if she's got s nice bubble butt and perky tits I wouldn't complain one bit.
4. I could. Our personalities just have to match up. I lean towards white girls just cause I guess they're what's mostly around but there's a bunch of cute Hispanics and Asians I've crushed on before.
5. Be yourself and be confident in yourself. Nothing is more attractive than a girl who's most comfortable just being herself. Also, the same advice I give a lot of guys, don't try so hard to make things happen. Let's things happen organically.
Drewboyy
November 15th, 2015, 08:15 AM
I'm 14 and live/have always lived in New York
1. What do you look for in a girl?
in terms of personality: happy, funny, not carefree per se but not completly serious. In terms of looks: a good smile, and a pretty face is really the only things I would judge on
2. Does intelligence matter?
I wouldn't really want a "dumb blonde" but I wouldn't want a genius either. Just common sense and a C+ a A average is fine.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
Not terribly. If they have one yay but if not oh well.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
I'm a pale hispanic so I don't know how to awnser that question.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
Don't be fake and be yourseelf and eventually someone will come along and it'll go on from there.
everlong
November 15th, 2015, 12:43 PM
1. What do you look for in a girl? She has a sense of humor and can take a joke
2. Does intelligence matter? As long as she knows the obvious shit
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? No, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't like a certain size.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? Probably
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share. I'm not good with advice
RJH98
December 25th, 2015, 05:58 PM
I'm 17, from Amsterdam (kind of).
1. What do you look for in a girl?
I am from a small village and recently started studying in Amsterdam. I found out that I am insanely attracted to girls from Amsterdam (or any big city for that matter). I think it's because they have some sort of independency that the girls from my hometown don't have and I find it really attractive.
2. Does intelligence matter?
I look for a certain level of intelligence. I can get really annoyed by "dumb" girls, although I won't put that label on someone very quick.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
To be honest I don't like huge boobs haha. The average here is C or D I think and that is just great. I do like a good butt though. But in the end I don't put a lot of value into either. As long as there is something...
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
I would. If I like a girl race does't matter.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
Be yourself (yes it's that cheesy, but it's true). If you're behaving any other way than yourself a relationship can never work on the long run. I however am in no way qualified to give relationship advice because I am single as fuuuuuuuuuuu (going on date for the first time in months though so who knows...)
Skywalker007
December 26th, 2015, 04:23 PM
17, Germany
1. What do you look for in a girl?
Looks matter but nothing is as important as a good character (self-confident, honest, humor...)
2. Does intelligence matter?
Yes; matters a lot
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
There's nothing wrong with a nice butt but like I said, character's more important than appearance
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
Sure
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
I'm a pretty shy guy too, so I probably shouldn't give any advice as I could use some myself.
Professional Russian
December 26th, 2015, 04:30 PM
18/USA
1. What do you look for in a girl?
Someone who's loving and caring and will always be there when I need it. Won't leave when I'm having a bad day.
2. Does intelligence matter?
Yes. Don't want someone who's stupid and doesn't know what they're doing with themselves
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
Not really.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
If she loves and cares about me...
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share
Just ask.
AnxietyAndIL
December 26th, 2015, 08:23 PM
16, USA, Male
1. What do you look for in a girl?
When I see a girl, like any guy, I take note of her appearance. However, as my friends have told me, I don't always find the hottest or prettiest girls the most attractive. What means more to me is personality. If you have a beautiful personality, and we get along, your appearance will be altered in my eyes, and I don't care what other people think about it. (I sorta answered the question)
2. Does intelligence matter?
No. Just be a good person and love and care about me. That's all that counts in my honest opinion.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
Not at all. Bigger is NOT better. If you take whatever you have and own it, you will be a lot more attractive than if you hate what you have and wish for more.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
Yes. If she loves me and I love her, I don't care.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
Try to put yourself out there. I know it's hard, but just try talking to some guys you might be interested. Try talking to guys who come across as being just as shy as you. It can take some pressure off of the conversation and you'll more easily find a pace that you're both comfortable with.
lliam
December 26th, 2015, 08:44 PM
15, south hesse, germany
1. What do you look for in a girl? I like the self-confident, sporty type
2. Does intelligence matter? Obviously.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? Certainly at first glance. But at some point the brain (hopefully) reboots. Then just personality matters.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Sure.
Why or why not? ... cause girls are humans?
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share. Better ask Master Yoda.
Tesserax
December 27th, 2015, 10:24 AM
17, Melbourne, Australia
1. What do you look for in a girl?
Kind, funny, gets me, pretty/beautiful (by my standards), not slutty, not "hot & sexy" (too much makeup or takes every opportunity to show flesh), intelligent
2. Does intelligence matter?
As I said above, very much. She has to be intelligent to understand me. In a nutshell, find somebody of your own intelligence, or either you or they may get bored of conversation depending on who is smarter. Generally as IQ increases, interest in the sciences increases. In the medium-high range there are often geeks and nerds with interests in games and sci-fi and stuff like that. In the low-medium range, people tend to be more party-animals and prefer more athletic things. In the very low range, you often get people who love incredibly dangerous sports/stunts. Mind you, this isn't always accurate. Often you'll get hybrids or all-rounders/jack of all trades, but it can help.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
Not too much, but it can be nice. I personally have never touched either really, which can potentially affect one's choice. But personally, not too much. In fact, in terms of looks, the larger your boobs the less I like you. After a certain point, boobs just become too big and... weird. Flat-medium sized boobs are best. With butts however, a flat but is honestly just straight up not attractive. Some definition is honestly nice, just slightly rounded to a nice bubble butt. However, just like with boobs for me, the wider the hips the more unattractive. Incredibly wide hips, like Kim Kardashian, honestly just look strange. Mind you, this is just my opinion.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
Yeah. I'm Chinese, but I grew up in Australia so I know a lot of white people. But I dated an Indian girl once, as opposed to my parents advice, and I got the bad end of it. She fit the stereotypes that they fed me and ended up hurting me pretty bad. However, regardless I would still do it, it's just a matter of being cautious with stereotypes, as they are ultimately based on some amount of truth, but not all people fit the stereotype. I would date another Indian girl, but only if I knew her really well in person. But to the point, yes, I would date other races. I think that each race has an individually attractive look.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
Okay, to attract the guys? Act cute and shy, I personally love that, but don't be afraid, be confident. Act confident and funny and stuff like that around your friends, but around the guy that you like just act shy, and just be yourself. If he compliments you, don't be afraid to break eye-contact and blush.
On a date, try to set it up so you go to the movies. I just thought of this but it can be a neat trick. Grab some popcorn if he decides to get a drink, and halfway through the movie ask him if you can grab a drink. If it's on the other side of him, great. Lean over him and grab it before he can if you can. Otherwise just accept it and take a sip. For some reason the idea of sharing a drink can be rather intimate and should help. Now something that my ex-girlfriend pulled off on me that I actually liked requires a horror-film or film with a sex scene. During a particularly terrifying or sex-driven part of the film, act terrified or embarrassed to watch and bury your head in his chest and ask him to tell you when it's over. It breaks the touch barrier and can help.
I'm no expert, but I'm just trying to help. Take my advice or don't it's up to you. Good luck though
Microcosm
December 27th, 2015, 05:26 PM
1. What do you look for in a girl? She's gotta be cute and care about her appearance. I know it's like socially correct to focus on personality in all cases, but appearance is very important. If she's blatantly an ass hole or judgemental, that's no good. Although, she should be honest, but in a nice and caring way.
2. Does intelligence matter? Sort of. She doesn't have to be super smart, but she's gotta be pretty smart.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? For me, those things are just an added bonus. Like, I would date a nice and smart girl with a small cup size and butt size as long as she met my stipulations and preferences for personality.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? I think I would but I've never done it before. It would be nice to experiment with that and see if there's a difference I guess.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share. If you want to get into the dating game, try building up and cultivating better social skills. I know that can be really hard for some people, but it will definitely be worth it in the long run. And if you can't do that, don't worry. Some guys like shy girls, but it might take you a little longer to find a guy like that for you.
redrider12
December 27th, 2015, 06:50 PM
I'm 17 from Kansas (USA)
1. What do you look for in a girl?
An ideal girlfriend would be a girl who's into the same stuff as I am above anything else. There has to be some common ground aside from just being physically attracted. But I also like a girl with a naughty side, one who's not always prim and proper. Girls who show a ton of skin all the time and sleep around are not my type
2. Does intelligence matter?
I'm going to get judged for this more than likely, but I wouldn't find much in common with a girl who's not bright. I don't mean like spending all her time on school and studying smart, but I like a girl who's witty in the moment and knows her way around
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much?
Cup size? As far as I'm concerned, the only time to ask a girl directly for her cup size is when you all are actually dating. It's pretty irrelevant what letter cup she is. I prefer girls with a medium, perky chest who don't forever need to wear push-up bras to make themselves more comfortable with their image. I look for confidence above all else.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not?
No. I'm not racist and don't "hate" anyone or anything, but my preference is girls of my own race.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share.
Don't be afraid to put yourself out there. Don't hide yourself because you're scared of being rejected. I admire shy girls a LOT more than I admire the really social/sometimes slutty ones because they're more careful and almost always more honest. Don't be afraid to take chances, because you'll be surprised what happens
james wolf
December 28th, 2015, 06:29 PM
1. What do you look for in a girl? Interesting. Someone I would actually enjoy spending time with, perhaps someone who shares a lot of my interests.
2. Does intelligence matter? Yes.
3. Does a girls cup size and butt size matter that much? No. Butts a nice but it's personality at the end of the day.
4. Would you date a girl outside your race? Why or why not? If I liked her yeah why not.
5. Any dating advice for shy teen girls? If so, please share. Be bold. If you don't take the lead you may miss out on some shy teen boys who are too nervous to start talking to you. Take the lead. Message them. Arrange a meet up, etc.
randomuser123
December 28th, 2015, 09:23 PM
1. Intelligence, humour (preferably very dry) and bluntness
2. Always.
3. Not at all.
4. Why wouldn't I?
5. Making any kind of move first is generally pretty attractive since the vast majority of the time, guys are expected to.
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