what to think?

[Stuart_Bendson]

hi everyone. i have a really good female friend and i love her to bits. But i mean this week she has suddenly started giving me hugs. You know, i love hugs as much as the next guy especially with girls but is this just a breakthrough in our friendship or does she secretly want more? :S

[Hyper]

What kind of hugs, as in how touchy. And how long has your relationship been going on.

[Stuart_Bendson]

some can be quite long if shes upset for some reason. Iv known her about 2 years. Iv never really thought of her in any other way apart from as a friend so im not sure what to think

[Rutherford The Brave]

Hugs are one of two things friendly (most common) or romantic which are deeper much more profound,she may even feel comfortable in your arms.

[Gumleaf]

i wouldn't read too much into it. i really think that she is appreciating your friendship and not neccesarily wanting more. just enjoy the hugs and be there for her and be a good friend.

[Close102]

chances are she just wants to be friends. i meen walk down the halls and you will see girls giving random guys hugs or other girls for that matter. but if she came up and kissed you that is a whole nother story. so back on topic, unless she was like crazy about it then they ment nothing lovingly and just that she feels protected in your arms. if at like the end of a conversation she comes and hugs you then mabey she likes u

[Stuart_Bendson]

ok i posted a first post called "what to think?" about one of my best girl-friends that has suddenly started hugging me all of u sudden. yesterday she came round to my house so we walked up the local school and well talked about well anything we could. This girl is not single and as i have said before i think she is a great friend but its almost like she was hugging me at every possible moment she could get away with. I mean i loved it, it was a great feeling holding someone in your arms that you care about. And we would just stand there with one hug for about 5 mins in quietness. I really care about her and i know that shes one of my best friends but that is the closest we have ever been and now im really confused. Is she really just being affectionate ?

[Gumleaf]

(threads merged)

in future, if you have an update or another closely related question, just post in the same thread, rather then starting a new one.

anyways, i still think that she is becoming closer to you because she feels you are a good and close friend. she may be interested in you, but my guese is that she hugs you like she does because she feels comfortable with you and considers you a good friend.

[Hyper]

Just do what feels right, I don't know whats going on in her life you might not either so just be there for her as a friend.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Don't be the one to advance your relationship, that means no drifting hands! If she wants to up the love then she will but If you love her respect the being that she is and in turn she will two.

[theOperaGhost]

I think she just trusts you a lot and feels comfortable around you. Not that that is a bad thing, just don't make a big advance on her, because that could ruin your friendship. Try to keep her as a friend as long as you can.

[sabotaged111]

try asking her closest girl - friend if she likes you, and if she doesnt know get her to try and find out