Need Help

[dogman]

I need help, recently, this guy and me have been doing some things

SEE THREAD http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=21252

but now, we were talking, about whether or not it would be good to be jacked by another person, then he asked me if i wanted to do it sometime. i dont know what to do, should i do it, or not, i dont know i'm confused, i didnt give him an answer, i kinda avoided it, but if he asks again, what should i say, i mean, i want to, but im not gay, and i dont want people to think i'm gay, i mean, im not real good friends, what if he talks, what do i do, i need help

BTW if it helps, i live in Sydney, AUstralia

THIS IS MY POST FURTHER DOWN THE THREAD
the thing is, i really do want to do it, i want to, but i just do know whether i should, i mean, i just dont know, but i really want to do it,i really do, but i just dont know whether i should, im all confused, plus, this would be the first sexual thing ive done, so yer, that might be a part of it

[mr.sexy_bomb]

ok first if u want 2 doit then doit but i dont think he will talk because he ask u 2 do it and u 2 were part of the agreement so dont worry about him and no u r not gay u just want 2 experience

[Gavin]

Well, if you don't feel comfortable doing this, then simple just dont.

[dogman]

the thing is, i really do want to do it, i want to, but i just do know whether i should, i mean, i just dont know, but i really want to do it,i really do, but i just dont know whether i should, im all confused, plus, this would be the first sexual thing ive done, so yer, that might be a part of it

[Requin]

If he feels comfortable and you feel comfortable and you both want to do it then do it. You said that he isn't a close friend, if you don't know him that well then you should wait and find some stuff about him first, get to know him. Most people including me would advise against it but it is intiarley up to you.

[tjs0349]

I say do it... your just a couple horny guys who want to have some fun and feel good... doesn't make you gay... you guys aren't that great of friends, so if things end up wierd between you, no big loss. Just make sure you both agree not to tell anyone, and that you don't get caught, and that if you go further, you use protection.

[dogman]

I say do it... your just a couple horny guys who want to have some fun and feel good... doesn't make you gay... you guys aren't that great of friends, so if things end up wierd between you, no big loss. Just make sure you both agree not to tell anyone, and that you don't get caught, and that if you go further, you use protection.

i highly doubt we will go further, mostly because that does not interest me one bit, and i wouldnt let that happen

[Gavin]

It sounds like, both of you don't really know each other that well, so why take the risk of doing that, what if he does talk and blurts his mouth out to everyone, then you would regret doing that with him.

[dogman]

It sounds like, both of you don't really know each other that well, so why take the risk of doing that, what if he does talk and blurts his mouth out to everyone, then you would regret doing that with him.

that is exactly my delema, he could do something like that, however, since he was the one that initated it, i would say thats unlikely

[mr.sexy_bomb]

he would not talk cuz he did it with u

[myskias]

well if u are good at lieing and he blurts then just say that he made the whole thing up i guess. but like if he doesnt have much friends it would be easier, if its the oppisite it would be harder. talk to him about if he will blurt or not and if he doesnt sound like he can keep a promise then dont do it.

[Gavin]

that is exactly my delema, he could do something like that, however, since he was the one that initated it, i would say thats unlikely

well, i wouldn't risk doing something with a person who you hardly know