I Came Out!...Sorta

[Bluebyrd]

For those of you that don't already know, I'm gay but no one knows. I've never denied being gay, it's just that no one's ever asked me. If I was asked, I would tell the truth.

So, today some people from a sexual health clinic came in and basically ran a few short sessions about various things (STDs, sexuality etc.). At the end, we were all asked to fill out a review type of form about how we felt about the day. One of the questions was asking for one's sexuality. The boxes were:
-Straight
-Gay/Lesbian
-Bisexual
-Prefer not to say

At one point I was so tempted to put straight or prefer not to say but I didn't! I answered it honestly and put gay! I guess it isn't really coming out since no one saw the form and they were anonymous, but the person that I had to return it to saw it so I guess that's someone that knows. I just feel so much better and more confident about being open now that I've actually admitted it!

I haven't really got a question to ask, but I just felt like putting that out there.

[dxcxdzv]

Boy you got "Gay" in your signature. Everybody knows.

But good for that you feel better about that.

[Bluebyrd]

Boy you got "Gay" in your signature. Everybody knows.

But good for that you feel better about that.
I was talking about the other sentence on the first line LOL

[SethfromMI]

well...that is not really coming out, but if it makes you feel good, then good for you

[kissban]

first step... :)

[Zachary G]

Baby steps, my friend. baby steps.

[Babs]

That's a start, so good for you!

[Emerald Dream]

Only do or say what you are comfortable with - I know what some people don't consider to be much of a big deal...can actually be very harrowing for others. :)

Often times a little self-assurance can go a very long way. I am happy to see that you are gaining that. It means a lot.

[SkyClad33605]

Baby steps, my friend. baby steps.

This, but good for you none the less!

[eric2001]

Keep doing things to make you happy. You're in charge of doing that.

[jssixna]

I'm glad you feel this way (:

[Andre 99]

Good for you.

[Abhorrence]

This is awesome, even the littlest of steps can really help you feel more free and accepting within yourself.

[Bacca]

Little steps can make a huge difference :D

[DoodleSnap]

Congratulations, I know that little things can sometimes mean a lot. I'm glad that you're proud of yourself.

[hesaidhesaid]

It's coming out....ish.
Little steps do help but you're not going to be closeted forever!

[ninz]

Be yourself. Youd rather be hated for what you are than to be loved for pretending to be someone else.

[ChaosEarthquake]

Baby steps :)

[NotQuiteANerd97]

Well, that's a nice way to start :) I came out as bisexual by changing my preference on Facebook from "women" to "men and women". It wasn't until a few weeks later that I told a close friend.

[Just JT]

All in good time, don't Rush yourself
When your ready, it won't be as hard as it seems right now, cause it'll feel normal like no big deal
But you'll need to be ok with that, and you'll know when that is
Nobodys judging you now, or when you decide
We're all behind you...

[Bull]

For those of you that don't already know, I'm gay but no one knows. I've never denied being gay, it's just that no one's ever asked me. If I was asked, I would tell the truth.


In my opinion you demonstrate that you are becoming comfortable with being gay. I applaud you for being honest if asked. Again, in my opinion a good way of exiting the closet is to live your life your way and if your friends notice they may just accept it, or some may ask. Just continue to be honest. No need to make an announcement, just be you. Those close to you will know. And you will know their level of acceptance. Good luck, enjoy life!