Precum/Postcum

[spain2000]

Well, I wanted to ask a number of things:
1) if anyone is producing a lot of precum with the slightest sign of arousal and what are they doing to cope with it?
2) Does it happen for you to have precum in the morning(morning wood) and especially after taking a warm shower? Cause if I am hard in the morning and I take a warm shower, later on I can feel my boxers wet from the precum
3) Do you have postcum and if you do, how long does it take for the leak to stop? I seem to be leaking for more than an hour, sometimes 1h. 30 min. even if I pee. Everytime I masturbate in the shower, the moment I am about to go out, I can see this long string coming from my penis. It is really frustrating. I cannot spend such amount of time in the shower, until the pipe has drained. Is this normal? Should I go to a doctor?

Thanks guys

[Bluebyrd]

I only pre-cum as I'm wanking but after doing it I pre-cum (or as you called it post cum) a lot throughout the day, You shouldn't go to the doctors about it.

[will0c]

There's nothing wrong with what you describe. I don't really pre-cum at all, but I post-cum for a while afterwards. Usually i try to wank at the start of the shower so i can post during it and be done by the time it's over. Doesn't walkways work.

also after a real good wank i don't have anything left to post-cum haha. So I try to have big loads whenever possible.

[SillyShyGuy]

1) if anyone is producing a lot of precum with the slightest sign of arousal and what are they doing to cope with it? Of course, and I usually let it happen.
2) Does it happen for you to have precum in the morning(morning wood) and especially after taking a warm shower? I have it in the morning yes.
3) Do you have postcum and if you do, how long does it take for the leak to stop? I am still leaking for at least another 30 minutes too. It is normal, no need to worry. It is just how your body is.

[spain2000]

I only pre-cum as I'm wanking but after doing it I pre-cum (or as you called it post cum) a lot throughout the day, You shouldn't go to the doctors about it.

So you mean that you leak after you ejaculate throughout the entire day? Doesn't it stain your underwear a lot? Isn't it uncomfortable?

[spain2000]

1) if anyone is producing a lot of precum with the slightest sign of arousal and what are they doing to cope with it? Of course, and I usually let it happen.
2) Does it happen for you to have precum in the morning(morning wood) and especially after taking a warm shower? I have it in the morning yes.
3) Do you have postcum and if you do, how long does it take for the leak to stop? I am still leaking for at least another 30 minutes too. It is normal, no need to worry. It is just how your body is.

So, this means that jerking off in the shower is not an option for you, as well?Well, do you just leave the precum and postcum in your underwear? It leaves quite big, crusty spots and the wetness is quite uncomfortable. I try to place toilet paper on the tip of my penis to prevent it from getting onto my underwear but it does not always work.

[SillyShyGuy]

So, this means that jerking off in the shower is not an option for you, as well?Well, do you just leave the precum and postcum in your underwear? It leaves quite big, crusty spots and the wetness is quite uncomfortable. I try to place toilet paper on the tip of my penis to prevent it from getting onto my underwear but it does not always work.

If I do jerk off in the shower then yes I get stains on my undies after I shower. Most of my undies are a shade of blue so it is not as noticeable as my black boxers. Rarely I stay naked after I jerk to let the rest dry up before putting on my undies

[spain2000]

If I do jerk off in the shower then yes I get stains on my undies after I shower. Most of my undies are a shade of blue so it is not as noticeable as my black boxers. Rarely I stay naked after I jerk to let the rest dry up before putting on my undies

But...don't you feel ''dirty'' having those stains in your undies after taking a shower? I mean, isn't that the point of showering, to wash off fluids and secretions off our body? Does this mean that you are going to take another shower before, let's say bed, or going out, or you are going to use the same underwear to sleep in or go out?

Sorry for asking too many questions

[Bluebyrd]

So you mean that you leak after you ejaculate throughout the entire day? Doesn't it stain your underwear a lot? Isn't it uncomfortable?

Yes to all

[spain2000]

Yes to all

But....is there something that can be done? I don't want to feel wet and to stain my undies all the time....

[iChrisbtv96]

I usually have some precum in the morning. But thats's about it. Oh, also when im jerking off, before I actually cum I have some precum.

[ejpete]

I so feel you. It's really frustrating. I feel dirty. And am wondering the same thing. Should i?

[spain2000]

I so feel you. It's really frustrating. I feel dirty. And am wondering the same thing. Should i?

What r u wondering, ejp?

[Hermes]

I'll admit I am not talking from experience of pre-cum/post-cum issues as I tend to only get pre-cum when highly aroused or actually masturbating and I find peeing after orgasm is effective at avoiding post ejaculation semen leakage, but I do wonder if some if this is psychological, i.e. the problem isn't what happens but your feel and react to it.

Girls start producing more mucous in their vaginas from puberty onward and that can often leak into their underwear. They have to get used to that and, obviously, change their underwear often enough that it does not start to smell.

You have to get away from any idea that there is anything dirty or nasty about cum or pre-cum and be practical, not fastidious, about dealing with them.

[spain2000]

I'll admit I am not talking from experience of pre-cum/post-cum issues as I tend to only get pre-cum when highly aroused or actually masturbating and I find peeing after orgasm is effective at avoiding post ejaculation semen leakage, but I do wonder if some if this is psychological, i.e. the problem isn't what happens but your feel and react to it.

Girls start producing more mucous in their vaginas from puberty onward and that can often leak into their underwear. They have to get used to that and, obviously, change their underwear often enough that it does not start to smell.

You have to get away from any idea that there is anything dirty or nasty about cum or pre-cum and be practical, not fastidious, about dealing with them.

Lucky you, Hermes, that you do not produce that much pre and post cum. But what do you mean by being practical and not fastidious about dealing with these two fluids? And yes,I do think it is more psychological, than physical, i.e. not so much the emission of the fluids, but my aversion to them. Maybe because when I was a kid someone told me masturbation was bad or a sin, and hence the result of it is also...bad and gross. Which, I know, is totally erroneous approach.

[Hermes]

...what do you mean by being practical and not fastidious about dealing with these two fluids?

Being practical in the case would mean concerning yourself whether there is so much leaking out it soaks through and is visible through your pants because that could cause other people to snigger.

On the other hand feeling that the end of your penis is damp from a little leaking and, even if it is not visible to anyone else and don't cause you any health issues, but still worrying about it going beyond addressing anything practical.

Fastidious means with painstaking care and in this context it means with much more concern and care than most people would give it. The ways of someone who has some kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder would seem fastidious. Putting things in set places so you can find them is a useful practical behaviour but putting a line in a kitchen cupboard and lining up all the tins exactly on the line or insisting that a moveable coffee table is always put back to line up with the dents in the carpet are examples of being fastidious.

And yes,I do think it is more psychological, than physical, i.e. not so much the emission of the fluids, but my aversion to them. Maybe because when I was a kid someone told me masturbation was bad or a sin, and hence the result of it is also...bad and gross. Which, I know, is totally erroneous approach.

I think you've hit the nail on the head but it will take time to adapt to new thinking. In the mean time it helps not to stress about it.

[spain2000]

Being practical in the case would mean concerning yourself whether there is so much leaking out it soaks through and is visible through your pants because that could cause other people to snigger.

On the other hand feeling that the end of your penis is damp from a little leaking and, even if it is not visible to anyone else and don't cause you any health issues, but still worrying about it going beyond addressing anything practical.

Fastidious means with painstaking care and in this context it means with much more concern and care than most people would give it. The ways of someone who has some kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder would seem fastidious. Putting things in set places so you can find them is a useful practical behaviour but putting a line in a kitchen cupboard and lining up all the tins exactly on the line or insisting that a moveable coffee table is always put back to line up with the dents in the carpet are examples of being fastidious.



I think you've hit the nail on the head but it will take time to adapt to new thinking. In the mean time it helps not to stress about it.

So as long as I change my underwear, daily, it does not matter if I am going out or sleeping with some precum/postum in my underwear? Cause I do change my underwear daily, when I take shower in the morning.