Guys kissing

[Sports Boy]

How many guys would give another guy a blow job but would never think about kissing a guy?
And if you’re willing to have his penis in your mouth, why wouldn’t you kiss him?

[Just JT]

Personally, I have no issue with either one
But some very close friends are willing to do that, and view kissing as being gay when they claim to be straight
But giving a bj I guess is just more like helping a close friend out I guess

[Hideous]

I have no issues with both. I do not know how to kiss though, lol.

[Just JT]

I have no issues with both. I do not know how to kiss though, lol.

You don't know how to kiss?

[Vermilion]

No problem with either but never done either so don't know how well it would go

[Abhorrence]

Wait, people see kissing as more gay than giving head? That's a new one to me.

[Hideous]

You don't know how to kiss?

Nope, quite embarrassing. Just haven't had that moment yet.

[Just JT]

Well, yeah I guess, that's how I understand it anyways
It's like kissing is more intimate and personal, sensous
Giving head is like, doing your best friend a favor
Not that everyone is ok with it but I've known a few who will

Nope, quite embarrassing.

Do you want to?
I mean I kno we can't causewere on line and im not really offering, I yhink, but idk some people just don't like to I guess.
And it's really not hard to learn or do if you wanted to

[Vermilion]

Nope, quite embarrassing. Just haven't had that moment yet.

same and I'm 18 so don't worry :)

[Just JT]

Nope, quite embarrassing. Just haven't had that moment yet.

same and I'm 18 so don't worry :)

I actually don't think it's anything to be embarassed about personally

[Vermilion]

I actually don't think it's anything to be embarassed about personally

I find it is cos knowing most people have have

[Hudor]

I don't see many guys giving their best friends bjs unless they are interested in doing that and are gay/bi because straight guys would rarely if ever do that.
I personally have no issues with both though I haven't gotten around to do either yet

[nwtnguy]

Both are hot

[pjones]

Wait, people see kissing as more gay than giving head? That's a new one to me.

that seems to be the opinion at my school

[hockeyboy18]

I would do both, but i know some people that would never kiss but would suck a cock!!!

[Just JT]

Yeah I can understand that myself but I think the idea is why someone can do one butbnot the other
Not judging or anything.....
Just sayin.

[Sports Boy]

That's what I'm trying to understand better. Why would you put a dick in your mouth, perhaps even swallow, but then not want to kiss the guy?

[Just JT]

You got a best friend?
One you'd do anything for?
It could be a gay thing and that's ok
But, it does happen
If your best asked you, and he'd do the same....
Would ya?

[bbwolf26]

that seems to be the opinion at my school

I would do both, but i know some people that would never kiss but would suck a cock!!!

Same at my school. I guess kissing seems more intimate because they are responding and kissing you back. At least that's how I felt.

[Abyssal Echo]

I have done both. I have no issues with doing both.

[hockeyboy18]

That's what I'm trying to understand better. Why would you put a dick in your mouth, perhaps even swallow, but then not want to kiss the guy?

i think maybe there scared if they start kissing in private that you might get to comfortable and kiss in public or there looking for just a bj and have to giver on back in return!!!

[SethfromMI]

Wait, people see kissing as more gay than giving head? That's a new one to me.

I think the idea is just giving head could be simple experimenting/sexual release, where as kissing another guy would imply more romantic feelings for him

at any rate, I have done both

[Patri6k]

I do both but in gay

[niklas]

Yeah, it's kind of weird that some guys would feel that kissing is more "gay" than getting sucked off. Maybe because they think getting blown is just a sex thing, somebody is helping me get off and kissing seems like a more romantic thing that you do with a bf/gf?

[Bacca]

Intimacy thing probably

[DoodleSnap]

I guess it is because kissing has more connotations of romance, rather than oral sex, which could just be casual sex, or seen as 'helping a buddy out'.

Heh, in all honesty, I find it hilarious that people who clearly are curious about sex with other guys are so afraid of not being straight. Anyway, #NoHomo :P

[Zachary G]

If I can do one, I can do the other and I do. I see no problems kissing another boy before, during, or after giving him a bj.

[Cadanance00]

Maybe people look upon exchanging bjs is experimenting and kissing would mean the guys are gay.

[Jaffe]

You don't know how to kiss?

So you think not knowing how to kiss is uncommon? Wrong.

But to answer the question, I know people like this too and I totally agree with them. And Alluring has it exactly right, kissing is very intimate. A BJ is just sex. There is a huge difference. I am up for both... but have more experience with the BJ than the kiss. Unfortunate, because I would really like to experience kissing more, it's such an intimate act, carries a lot of meaning outside of just sex.

[Just JT]

So you think not knowing how to kiss is uncommon? Wrong.

But to answer the question, I know people like this too and I totally agree with them. And Alluring has it exactly right, kissing is very intimate. A BJ is just sex. There is a huge difference. I am up for both... but have more experience with the BJ than the kiss. Unfortunate, because I would really like to experience kissing more, it's such an intimate act, carries a lot of meaning outside of just sex.

No, I'm not saying it's uncommon or wrong at all, in fact, I just never heard of it until I read it in this thread. I'm not judging, and after reading back in this thread, I can see how I probably seem like an arrogant asshole, and I apologize if that's how it was taken.
I just never gave it that much thought before...

[Falcons_11]

I don't have a problem with kissing another dude or giving him a blow job. Before I did them we would really have to be best friends though. Back when I was in 2 and 3 grades my best friend and I would kissing each other a lot. We really never attached any sexual thing to doing it. It was just lots of fun kissing each other. We were clueless about sex back then.

[JHenryF]

I'd do both. :-) I have no idea if I'm a good kisser though. I kissed a friend on a school retreat (just to say I've kissed a girl), and she said I kissed better than her boyfriend even though I had no idea what I was doing..... But I'd also be up to give a BJ. It also kind of depends on who it is and how far our relationship has gone.

[MeliWelli]

I think the idea is just giving head could be simple experimenting/sexual release, where as kissing another guy would imply more romantic feelings for him

at any rate, I have done both

Your honesty and confidence are really impressive. I totally agree with what you've said.

[SethfromMI]

Your honesty and confidence are really impressive. I totally agree with what you've said.

well thank you. just being honest though. and I am a comfortable person about who I am so I do not mind sharing my thoughts or experiences

[Just a Guy]

I would sooner kiss a guy than give blowjob

[Sports Boy]

I would sooner kiss a guy than give blowjob

So, is the kiss a peck on the cheek, lip to lip, or French kissing? And you'd never give a guy a blow job but you'd kiss him?

[Just a Guy]

So, is the kiss a peck on the cheek, lip to lip, or French kissing? And you'd never give a guy a blow job but you'd kiss him?

Well any kiss but i mean like on the scale of straight to gay I think a blowjob would be more gay than a kiss.

[Sports Boy]

Love hearing your view and I respect it, but it's interesting to think that making out with another guy is less gay than giving a blow job. In my experience, if you're willing to make out with a guy you're usually willing to give him a blow job. Again, just my view and experience.

Well any kiss but i mean like on the scale of straight to gay I think a blowjob would be more gay than a kiss.

Appreciate your opinion and respect it, but it seems interesting that making out with another guy is less gay than giving him a blowjob. In my experience, if you're willing and interested in making out with a guy, you'd probably be willing to give him a blow job. Again, just my view and experience.

[Just a Guy]

Appreciate your opinion and respect it, but it seems interesting that making out with another guy is less gay than giving him a blowjob. In my experience, if you're willing and interested in making out with a guy, you'd probably be willing to give him a blow job. Again, just my view and experience.

I guess that's true but like I think they almost go hand in hand, like if you were willing to blow him you would probably be willing to kiss him because like kissing is first base and bj is 3rd or Home run depending on how you view it

[Sports Boy]

I guess that's true but like I think they almost go hand in hand, like if you were willing to blow him you would probably be willing to kiss him because like kissing is first base and bj is 3rd or Home run depending on how you view it

Since you would kiss a guy, would you give a guy a blow job? And have you?

[Just a Guy]

Since you would kiss a guy, would you give a guy a blow job? And have you?

Sure, I'd give a blow job. But I haven't yet. I also haven't kissed a guy....

[ChaosEarthquake]

How many guys would give another guy a blow job but would never think about kissing a guy?
And if you’re willing to have his penis in your mouth, why wouldn’t you kiss him?

I totally get where you are coming from, and I agree personally.

I guess giving a blow job to a friend would be "helping" him out in a way.

However, the minute they want to be "romantic", all Hell breaks loose.