Is it okay to like so many guys at the same time?

[ZzeWatermelon]

Hey

So in my class in high school we're 40, and school started 3 weeks ago, and I already developed a tiny crush for two guys, and a giant solid one for another guy.
I find myself totally stupid and weird because I have never liked that many guys at the same time, to me three is like a thousand... they're just all super hot, nice, funny and awesome, and friendly! And I feel like I have only chances with two of them, one of them doesn't even look or talk to me... But I'm not talking about dating straight away, and probably as I get to know them better, I'll eventually narrow the 3 guys to 1 guy... :)

So is this normal I like 3 guys at the same time?

[ClaraWho]

Is it normally to find 3 guys attractive when you don't love any of them? Yes.

This is a bit on a non-starter of a question, as your second half basically explains the process of becoming friends, learning more, and perhaps falling in love.

Love is singular, 'like' can be plural. For example, liking blue eyes, abs, etc.

~ Clara

[ZzeWatermelon]

Thanks for answering so fast,
I'm glad it's normal. My intuition was telling me it was perfectly fine, but I just needed a confirmation.

[everlong]

It's definitely normal

[Daniella98]

I see it as normal too. They all have qualities and looks we like.

[Uniquemind]

Yes.

It's perfectly fine with no moral guilt attached.

In fact I believe in dating multiple people at the same time as okay depending on what you are pursuing in life. With a distinction of this not necessarily meaning your having sexual relations with multiple people that the same time.

Dating is dating for fun times sake, sex is the next level up.

[ashdyn]

It's completely normal to like more than one guy at a time. The real challenge is finding ways to get to know each of them better so you can really see who you have chemistry with. You're fine tho....go get em lol

[SethfromMI]

Yep completely normal. if you are not dating any of them, it is natural to be curious about being with them since you do not know which one you would like best

[Just JT]

Just get to know them before you make any commitments

[Meruedu]

Some time ago I looked into a zodiac book and for my birthday it said "Passion for the opposite sex" For me, it means a lot more than just being straight >_<. I had tons of crushes, minor and major, I think you should talk to them more and get to know them! That's how I found out that my major crush was actually a jerk and a troublemaker...

[Melodic]

Yes, I do the same thing. I tend to like more than one person at a time.

[Uranus]

Yea, there's really no issue there. It probably is the same with everyone

[ZzeWatermelon]

Awesome ��

[Abhorrence]

Most people are attracted to more than just one person at a time. This isn't a bad thing, it just shows that you can appreciate the aesthetics of a person. Love is a thing that is usually singular however, experiencing true love for more than one person could be an issue but "liking" several people isn't going to have negative consequences.

[Zachary G]

totally normal to be crushing on more than one guy at the same time, nothing wrong with that at all.

[SillyShyGuy]

It is normal. I have crushes on three different girls right now. One is Asian, one is African American, and one is Latina. So I am not understanding the connection, it cannot be coincidence.

[ZzeWatermelon]

It is normal. I have crushes on three different girls right now. One is Asian, one is African American, and one is Latina. So I am not understanding the connection, it cannot be coincidence.

Wow, that's varied! :D Which one do you prefer so far? In terms of personality and all that stuff?

[SillyShyGuy]

Wow, that's varied! :D Which one do you prefer so far? In terms of personality and all that stuff?

Daisy, she is the latina one. She is really mature for her age and does not like to smoke and drink alcohol like other girls. She would rather eat and watch movies like me. Although I like Alyssa the Asian girl a little because we can geek out over Harry Potter :)

[ImCoolBeans]

Definitely normal. I've found myself attracted to and even crushing on as many as 3 or 4 people before. There's "work crush" "history class crush" etc. :P

[Nightfall_]

Same as ImCoolBeans, I've liked so many girls that the girls i like keep getting pissed at me for not choosing one. its normal to like more than one person.