I'm not sure who found it

[jssixna]

Well I had a condom and last night I felt like jerking off with it so I did. After I was done, I went to the bathroom with both the condom and wrapper in my hand. I flushed the condom down the toilet. I went to sleep after that. Then I woke up today and I just realized what the shit did I do with the wrapper, I looked everywhere, in the trash cans, my room, & bathroom. I can't find it. My question is, since I don't know who found it (it could be my grandad, mum, dad, or brother) I'm positive they think it's mine. What do I do? Should I make up a lie? Should I just act as if nothing happened? My parents are very religious so no, they will not be happy.

[Ratman1234]

Act as if nothing happened. And if they question you about it, just telling them the truth, as they will probably be more accepting to that then thinking that you had sex or something.

[Sports Boy]

I don't disagree with Ratman but I think it could be pretty hard to tell a parent that he was just masturbating with it. I'd just say some kids at school had them and he took one because he never saw one before so he took it out of the wrapper, checked it out and then flushed it down the toilet. Sometimes, the less information shared, the better.

[Sandybeaches]

Atleast whoever found it knows you're being safe i guess so there's a plus side.... maybe your mum just picked it up thinking it was a piece of litter and just binned it?

[Just JT]

In reality, why are you worried?
It's not like anyone who would find the wrapper would be like wtf is this or anything
People but and use condoms
If your rents or grands see evidence so what, they should be happy your taking responsibility for your actions

[Second Chance]

I would act like nothing has happened because why bring up something that someone may not have noticed?

You should never flush condoms down the toilet because that can really mess up the plumbing, and that is the place where your family will definitely find out about the condoms. When you're done with the condom, then your best bet is to cut it up and put it in the trash so that no one figures out what it was.

If anyone confronts you about the condom, then you're best bet is to be honest and say that you were jacking off with it. If your parents are as religious as you say they are, then it is far better to say that you're masturbating with a condom as opposed to having sex with someone.

[SillyShyGuy]

Never flush them. The material will sometimes make it resurface. If they know it is you, just say a friend gave it to you.

[SethfromMI]

unless they say something I would keep it to myself. if they do say something...I guess it is up to you. you can be honest, you can say you were just looking at it, I guess try to say what won't get you in trouble. at the end of the day, it is not like you were having sex so if a little white lie saves you trouble, it is not the end of the world

[nklarke]

If your father uses them maybe your mother thinks it belongs to him.

[Catholic Guy]

How old is your brother? Just don't say anything and if they bring it up just say you were practicing or something

[Bluebyrd]

If they mention it then you should just tell them the truth. Don't bring it up with them though because they might have put it in the bin and not even looked at it and then you will have blown yourself up. The other possibility is that you flushed it down the toilet with the condom or put it in the bin yourself. Don't worry though, everything should be alright!

[Catholic Guy]

Has your family said anything yet?

[Zachary G]

Im with the majority here, unless someone says something to you about it, I wouldnt say a word and just keep it moving as if nothing ever happened. If you do get questioned about it, just be straight forward with them and deal with it then and only then.

[bruhh15]

Act like nothing happened, either way all you did with it was masturbate.

[Uranus]

Here's my opinion. If no one has made anything noticeable, then don't worry. And if they did, well you can't avoid that argument so no point in worrying either way

[Anomaly]

Don't even worry about it, as long as nobody mentions it, you're fine!

[Jaseblader]

Well I had a condom and last night I felt like jerking off with it so I did. After I was done, I went to the bathroom with both the condom and wrapper in my hand. I flushed the condom down the toilet. I went to sleep after that. Then I woke up today and I just realized what the shit did I do with the wrapper, I looked everywhere, in the trash cans, my room, & bathroom. I can't find it. My question is, since I don't know who found it (it could be my grandad, mum, dad, or brother) I'm positive they think it's mine. What do I do? Should I make up a lie? Should I just act as if nothing happened? My parents are very religious so no, they will not be happy.

Tell the truth or if you really don't want them to know tell them that's its a part of health class and you forgot the wrapper in your pocket

[Hermes]

Personally I would not volunteer any information not asked for. if they don't question you about the condom I'd leave it at that and not say anything.

There is no harm in thinking through what you would say if they did ask, though. Your choice is to tell the truth or work out what you could tell them that would make them the least annoyed whilst still being believable. if you decide to do the latter you could just say you were encouraged (by sex-ed?) to try putting one one (so you'd know how when the time comes) and that's what you did. You don't have to explain that you then kept it on and masturbated, though who wouldn't - we're curious and would want to know what that feels like.

[Cloud_Strife]

Well I had a condom and last night I felt like jerking off with it so I did. After I was done, I went to the bathroom with both the condom and wrapper in my hand. I flushed the condom down the toilet. I went to sleep after that. Then I woke up today and I just realized what the shit did I do with the wrapper, I looked everywhere, in the trash cans, my room, & bathroom. I can't find it. My question is, since I don't know who found it (it could be my grandad, mum, dad, or brother) I'm positive they think it's mine. What do I do? Should I make up a lie? Should I just act as if nothing happened? My parents are very religious so no, they will not be happy.

Act as if nothing happened. And if they question you about it, just telling them the truth, as they will probably be more accepting to that then thinking that you had sex or something.

I don't disagree with Ratman but I think it could be pretty hard to tell a parent that he was just masturbating with it. I'd just say some kids at school had them and he took one because he never saw one before so he took it out of the wrapper, checked it out and then flushed it down the toilet. Sometimes, the less information shared, the better.

Hi mate,

I'd agree with the guys above. If your parents do have strong thoughts about such matters, then volunteering the information may very well place you in a sticky situation. In the first instance, I'd probably not mention anything and simply go with the flow. Who knows? Perhaps your grandfather found the wrapper, thought it was your father's and then discarded it? Likewise, perhaps your brother thought it belonged to your parents? Perhaps it still is somewhere and you might need to remain vigilant for now. The possibilities go on. Worrying in the interim won't make things better, so I'd sit tight for now.

If they do then approach and ask you about it, I'd then be honest and say it was yours, rather than lie about it. Given your family's inclinations, they won't then misunderstand that you're having sex with other people. Of course, without finding the condom itself, they'd never know that you'd used it and using Sport Boy's explanation could also be quite reasonable in such an instance, but I'd probably consider being honest and saying you used it for experimenting means. It would depend on the situation and you'd know your parents well enough to know what you should say.

In addition, I agree with the other guys about not flushing condoms down the toilet in the future. It might very well get caught in the piping, and then you'd be definitely exposed, not to mention the problems with the toilet working!

Hope that helps mate.

[jssixna]

Hi mate,

I'd agree with the guys above. If your parents do have strong thoughts about such matters, then volunteering the information may very well place you in a sticky situation. In the first instance, I'd probably not mention anything and simply go with the flow. Who knows? Perhaps your grandfather found the wrapper, thought it was your father's and then discarded it? Likewise, perhaps your brother thought it belonged to your parents? Perhaps it still is somewhere and you might need to remain vigilant for now. The possibilities go on. Worrying in the interim won't make things better, so I'd sit tight for now.

If they do then approach and ask you about it, I'd then be honest and say it was yours, rather than lie about it. Given your family's inclinations, they won't then misunderstand that you're having sex with other people. Of course, without finding the condom itself, they'd never know that you'd used it and using Sport Boy's explanation could also be quite reasonable in such an instance, but I'd probably consider being honest and saying you used it for experimenting means. It would depend on the situation and you'd know your parents well enough to know what you should say.

In addition, I agree with the other guys about not flushing condoms down the toilet in the future. It might very well get caught in the piping, and then you'd be definitely exposed, not to mention the problems with the toilet working!

Hope that helps mate.
You have the best advice. Thanks so much!