help please! I think I'm screwed

[henners]

So, I think I'm screwed. This girl from school and I are good friends, but I would like more, and I recently lost a pet, and texted her about it. She texted things to comfort me, and at one point said "love you" me, being the idiot I am I replyed and put in with the text "love you" and and sent, not thinking. Now I realise that it was pkrobably just to comfort me, and I think I've screwed my chances with her. Please help and share advice !

Thanks for taking time to read :)

[henners]

Thanks :) yeah, possibly, we joke around loads anyways. Btw, do you think I should try and win her slowly (add more kisses in texts, some when I see her) or just go balls to the walls and just ask her out?

Thanks for helping me out :)

[tonymontana99]

an hero. Now.

[Uranus]

If you think you might have scared her off by replying with saying you love her, then just approach her and explain that, you were not really processing things right and your mind was all over the place due to depression. I'm sure she'll understand. Maybe also ask why she said that also

[henners]

I'm sure she took it well, as were still texting normally and I don't think anything bad has come of it. Thanks guys for taking your time to reply :-)

[AutumnWinds]

Thanks :) yeah, possibly, we joke around loads anyways. Btw, do you think I should try and win her slowly (add more kisses in texts, some when I see her) or just go balls to the walls and just ask her out?

Thanks for helping me out :)

i'm a fan of just asking people out if you like them. i've seen friends of mine suffer for months agonizing over it and in one case had a friend who's crush liked them too, but started dating someone else just because they figured my friend did not like her. better to just go for it and whatever happens, at least you know and can move on to whatever is next.

[henners]

Ok, thanks guys for the help. :-)

[Uniquemind]

i'm a fan of just asking people out if you like them. i've seen friends of mine suffer for months agonizing over it and in one case had a friend who's crush liked them too, but started dating someone else just because they figured my friend did not like her. better to just go for it and whatever happens, at least you know and can move on to whatever is next.

Seconded on seeing that exact same scenario.


Honesty with creativity + humor really is the best policy.

[henners]

Thanks guys

[SethfromMI]

I'm sure she took it well, as were still texting normally and I don't think anything bad has come of it. Thanks guys for taking your time to reply :-)

good, but since it is out there, maybe now is the time to possibly talk to her about it

[Uniquemind]

Thanks guys

No prob.

Do us a favor and keep us posted so we can further assist you in this thread if needed.

[henners]

Will do :)

[SillyShyGuy]

She loves you as a friend it would seem. You did nothing wrong, she knows you are going through a tough time. She is a true friend, who knows it might end up with you dating her one day if she does share your feelings.

[henners]

Yeah, maybe. I just get nervous if I even think about asking her out. I will do it, but I'm just
Not sure how or when to