Does he like me?

[Anon1738]

So this is quite a long story but I will try to make it as short as I can..

Anyway, I met a guy and we got on pretty well. He makes me laugh and I don't feel shy around him. After a club one night he asked if he could come over and he did, we did nothing except talk and he slept over (we did nothing at all).
He then came over again a few days later and we then kissed (I have never had sex with him)
And then he kept coming over occasionally and we would watch TV and he would stay over but then leave in the middle of the night.
We didn't speak about it but I guess we had a fwb(without sex) thing going on?
Anyway I haven't seen him for a while because of summer break and I always end up drunk texting him and he tells me he misses me but not in a deep emotional way but more of a 'haha you're funny, I miss you man'
And then I called him a fuckboy (as a half serious half joke) and he found a page on Instagram and he tagged me in a post which said:
"Boy logic: 1) I like you 2) but I'm talking to 3 other girls 3) but I like you 4) trust me" what did he even mean? I took it as a 'lol I say this to every girl I speak to' but I'm not sure :/

Anyway, every Tuesday he sends me a "the guy you can't stop thinking about is texting 4 other girls happy tuesday'
And he even said that I only ever message him when I'm drunk which is partially true..

I just want to know where I stand with him and is he just being a massive flirt or does he like me? It's driving me crazy because I can't ask him
(Sorry for the mega long post, I just have nobody at home that can give me any advice)

[eric2001]

Ummm, he's not the boy for you. If he liked you that much he would have made it clear by now.

[Sports Boy]

If he was trying to get with you, he wouldn't be telling you that he's talking/texting to multiple other girls. And he's had plenty of opportunity to make something happen but he hasn't done anything. I'd move on from him.

[Zachary G]

If he was trying to get with you, he wouldn't be telling you that he's talking/texting to multiple other girls. And he's had plenty of opportunity to make something happen but he hasn't done anything. I'd move on from him.

Yeah, if he was going to make a move, he would have done it by now. I think you have been out in the friend zone as far as he is concerned.

[Anon1738]

Thanks guys, I kind of had a feeling I was being pushed out into the friend zone

However I forgot to mention that he told me he never watches movies or anything with any girls but he watched them with me and I asked him as a joke if that made me special and he said yeah :/

[Uniquemind]

Thanks guys, I kind of had a feeling I was being pushed out into the friend zone

However I forgot to mention that he told me he never watches movies or anything with any girls but he watched them with me and I asked him as a joke if that made me special and he said yeah :/

I disagree with everyone here.

He's doing some advanced level flirting here, but be warned treat him as a FWB until a serious one-on-one icebreaker discussion happens between you two to clear the cloudy air that can come with context-inference foggy flirtationships.


He might not have friendzoned you, you are at FWB level I think.


The question is what do you want?


The only legit area of concern probably, is that he probably is concerned why you only text him when drunk. Meaning he probably thinks your relying on him as a friendzone support as well. Ironic huh?