How to tell my best friend I masturbate

[Ratman1234]

So I wanna tell my best friend that I masturbate but i dont know how to. I want to tell because when people have asked if I masturbate I always say no because no one in my group of friends does and i do so I feel like Im being dishonest. I know I can trust him btw. So how should i tell him?

[kissban]

sorry, I dont understand.... why dishonest?

[Ratman1234]

sorry, I dont understand.... why dishonest?

Well I'm lying when I say that I don't masturbate

[kissban]

all boys masturbate (ok, not all, maybe 95-99 percent), its natural

feel free to tell

u shy?

[Ratman1234]

all boys masturbate (ok, not all, maybe 95-99 percent), its natural

feel free to tell

u shy?

I'm not shy I just wanna know the best way to tell him

[Vermilion]

I'm not shy I just wanna know the best way to tell him

Just say that you tried it out and liked it

[kissban]

yeah, face-to-face & in a nutshell

[Zachary G]

The best way to tell your best friend anything is in a one-on-one situation where you just straight up tell him. Whats the worst that can happen?

[Sam-9876]

Next time someone asks you just say yes.

No longer being dishonest.

Problem solved.

End of thread...

[lliam]

I know I can trust him btw. So how should i tell him?


Believe me, he knows already. At least he can guess it.

[Sports Boy]

You can always tell him you want to set the record straight with him since he's your best friend. Just say you've felt dishonest by saying no to the question but you want to be totally honest with him so he knows that he can trust you to get the truth.

[Bluebyrd]

They probably all do masturbate to be honest. I think you should let him catch you doing it.

[JustinG]

Dude,
Masturbating is no big deal. Other guys said it. 95-99% of us (boys and girls) masturbate, and the others are fibbing!
It's natural, fun, and doesn;t harm anyone !
Go for it, just say something honest like "dude, I;m so horny today......." and see where that leads the conversation. Go from there !

Good luck!

[Sandybeaches]

I dont think you need to actually tell him tbh, he already does it (probably) and he probably know you do it too.
Don't worry too much about it, its mostly a private thing anyway

[pjones]

tell him you were embarrassed to admit it before and felt guilty about not being honest that you do masturbate.

[mattsmith48]

trust me he knows and they are lying

[nklarke]

"Hey dude ... you know what ... I jerk off."

And what your friends say is irrelevant, the ones that have already hit puberty masturbate for sure.

[Patri6k]

Just be like "aye yo (insert name) I whack off. Wanna join?"

[lliam]

Dude, Masturbating is no big deal.!

Yepp. Already the amount of Masturbating Threads on VT proves it.

[GoGoDiego]

I am quite the good guy in my batch. So when I say that I masturbate, I only tell my close friends and also telling them to keep it a secret, because if the whole class knows, their impressions on me will change.

[eric2001]

So I wanna tell my best friend that I masturbate but i dont know how to. I want to tell because when people have asked if I masturbate I always say no because no one in my group of friends does and i do so I feel like Im being dishonest. I know I can trust him btw. So how should i tell him?

I suggest you start thinking about something new. Like telling your friend you secretly pick your nose.:D

[harristhetank]

I suggest you bring the topic of masturbating up casually. Most teen boys masturbate, whether they say they do or not. I was like you when I was younger I feel embarrassed to admit that I masturbate. You could say something like 'hey you know you said you have never masturbated before, were you telling the truth because I wasn't' usually they will open up to you if you open up to them. I felt a lot better and comfortable when my closest friends admit that they masturbate and I knew that I am not the only one.

[murray]

It's weird to think of a group of guys, only one masturbates. I have a feeling like you all are lying to each other, but no one has the guts to be honest. Maybe everyone is just too shy to talk about how they touch their own dicks?

[karl1999]

my buddies know I masturbate -it's something we all do

[Jtyler]

I know exactly how you feel I'm in the same boat!!

[Jaseblader]

So I wanna tell my best friend that I masturbate but i dont know how to. I want to tell because when people have asked if I masturbate I always say no because no one in my group of friends does and i do so I feel like Im being dishonest. I know I can trust him btw. So how should i tell him?
Yeah nothing to be embarrassed about Ibet they all do

[jampandrada]

Just tell him, it shouldn't be a big deal. If he's really your friend, he shouldn't mind. I'm sure he does it too, anyway

[kokik]

You are not being dishonest. Masturbating is just confidential so its alright to lie about that.

[Guycurious]

Its interesting that we all do it but are 'shy' to admit it

[Pitsirikos]

Don't feel dishonest at all. I am sure he can guess it and maybe he has already started doing it as well.
Next time you are alone with him bring up the masturbation issue and ask him if he jerk off because you tried it and it was great.

[Zack2]

I think everyone does it and most people just don't talk about it. So it's not like he'd be confused.

[SethfromMI]

basically every guy does. I am sure it is something he already assumes. it is usually not the type of thing one announces, but I guess if you really want to, wait to tell him one-on-one, maybe wait for the convo to go in that direction, even if you have to push it in that direction

[BillyyB]

You don't have to tell him anything.. masturbating is normal in boys.. don't be ashamed of it. No doubt that he does it too tbh.

[Jackieboii]

Everyone Jerks Off!!! If they deny it there probably lying

[Guycurious]

He prob does it too so when the subject is close just say it.

[dysterian]

Your friends are probably just lying, some people say its gross, but it's normal.

[crazyBoyjJ]

If he is your best friend you should be able to tell home anything and be honest about anything. So just talk about something that will lead up to masturbation, ask him if he does it and then tell him you do it. I'm pretty sure ur group of friends are lying also. Cause at that age you guys tend to deny that you all masturbate. But as you get older you eventually learn that most guys do.