from super fat to fit?

[DamWayne]

hey everyone
im super fat, dont know how much i weight but i gained like crazy over the last year, now its a new year at school and people are making fun of me and girs are disgusted...
i would love to love fat and be fit, it wouldnt get me girls since i wont get a 6 pack abs, but it would at least make people stop throwing rocks at me...

but i am the ugliest weakest most pathetic wussy you people can think of. i cant run, i cant walk more than 30 minutes, i cant do a single pushupp, i cant do a single pullup... i know what to do, cardio, nutrition and everything, and i know i should be ashamed of being fat and ugly.

but i cant stop eating i have a problem everytime i try i just get anxiety crisis and only eating can calm me... and yeah its not an excuse i should just "be a man and eat salad and meat and go run a marathon like everyone else!"

but i cant, i tried to ask my family to stop buying fat sweet stuff but they dont want to because my fit sisters like to snack on it... and when we went to go camping this summer it was a lot easier for me not to eat crap because i couldnt acess it...

but again, whats wrong with me, why cant i have an amazing self control like normal guys...

and yeah im so fat i cant run i get exhausted so fast, my thighs rubs against each others and all of that thing you can imagine that is disgusting when you think of fat guys running... and i cant walk for extended periods of time either, i get so sweaty its embarassing to look at people jogging for hours with no problems... i dont have dumbbells, no money to buy them and no money to go to the gym... im too weak to do any kind of bodyweight exercises...

Can i lose weight still? what can i do to lose weight? I know its pretty laughable an disgusting to read about such a pathetic person, but im begging for your help... is there anything i can do to lose weight and get fit... or am i just doomed to be fat forever...

[CuteGuy889]

Its not ur weight that matters..Its what u work out and how fit u are genetically. There are fat fit guys and skinny unfit guys...In my case I was skinny weakling and could manage about 5 push ups and run about 500m huffing and puffing..never sighted a gym...Now teenage is getting on me and I've got a soft layer of fat forming in my tummy, butt and thigh area....I still look skinny tho....

Since putting on that bit..I am even unfitter..I can do max 5 crunches and huff and puff about 200m ....well that was because I was skin and bones only and now I'm skin and bones with some fat.!!!!.....I could eat anything without gaining but not any more....But I never learnt how NOT to eat...
Most likely by the end of college I'll get officially obese ....But that won't worry me...I've got excellent grades and a GF who loves my body...+the bit of fat I'm getting.

So take heart in what u have....and you have ones who are worse...like me..

[Porpoise101]

I used to be overweight, you can do it. Just eat more filling snacks and start doing some activity. I was lucky and I was allowed to join the track team and they really got me into shape. It was really hard but trust me, your body will thank you when you are old. I lost a lot of weight just from changing my eating habits. I now eat lots of fruit because it is healthy and filling.

[DamWayne]

that was a stupid question, nevermind, of course its impossible.

[CuteGuy889]

By 30or so after college, jobs, marriages, kids even the skinniest of us are gonna be sporting at least a beer belly....Then this teen appearance stuff are going to be just small talk..will be like "Nick used to be such a skinny weakling at school but look at him now. one'd never guess....." kind of stuff..

[SethfromMI]

it is going to be a lot of hard work. do able. just eat right and exercise. it will take a lot of time but you will get there if you stick with it