18 and never had a boyfriend

[Sammy07]

Hi

I've been depressed for a few weeks because I can't find a relationship. All my gay friends without exception have or had boyfriends. But I've been single all my life.. the only thing I'm able to do is fucking around with strangers, but that's probably because I have low self-esteem. I mean, there must be something wrong with me! Appearance, personality, I don't know ? I'm a very caring and loving person, so I don't understand why I can't find someone like everybody else. I'm on every dating app and nothing works.

Can I have your thoughts on this...
Thanks
Samuel

[SethfromMI]

Hi

I've been depressed for a few weeks because I can't find a relationship. All my gay friends without exception have or had boyfriends. But I've been single all my life.. the only thing I'm able to do is fucking around with strangers, but that's probably because I have low self-esteem. I mean, there must be something wrong with me! Appearance, personality, I don't know ? I'm a very caring and loving person, so I don't understand why I can't find someone like everybody else. I'm on every dating app and nothing works.

Can I have your thoughts on this...
Thanks
Samuel

well I had many conversations for you so let me clarify somethings

1. You are not ugly. at all. you are the opposite of ugly. you are a stud man ;) :D

2. You have an AMAZING personality. I love talking with you

I don't know why you have not had these deep relationships man. all i know is someone is going to recognize how amazing you are and they are going to be perfect for you . just try to wait and be patient man, good things will come your way :)

[Sammy07]

Aw thanks Seth. It's just that I been waiting for a long time and I was used by a guy for money and sex so I feel kinda hopeless haha

[SethfromMI]

Aw thanks Seth. It's just that I been waiting for a long time and I was used by a guy for money and sex so I feel kinda hopeless haha

well sadly anyone can fall into that trap. you want to have sex and sometimes we don't make the best decisions because we let our penis do the thinking. I know how frustrating it can be man, but things will get better for you. you are too special not to get someone amazing :)

[Sammy07]

Aww you're so sweet :* The best guys are always too far away :(

[SethfromMI]

Aww you're so sweet :* The best guys are always too far away :(

aww thanks man. I promise it will get better for you. hang in there man

[jessie3]

The only thing I'm able to do is fucking around with strangers, but that's probably because I have low self-esteem.

Wow! We have the same situation in common.

But honestly I'm 17 and i had never had a boyfriend before either. I don't mind waiting for that "One" but yeah it does get depressing at times.

The quote above is something i used to do a whole lot for money, but after me and this one very special friend decided to call it quits. I knew i had to do a major renovation with my life, because i did not like making him all scared and sad by me going out with complete strange men who some where into there 80's.

Don't degrade yourself to something you don't want to be. I know it's much easier to say than to do, but i and probably you even know why we do these things and if we keep doing it, we won't find somebody to love us for who we actually are. We'll get that so called "Love" from strangers if we do keep going at it.

[Zachary G]

I don't know why you have not had these deep relationships man. all i know is someone is going to recognize how amazing you are and they are going to be perfect for you . just try to wait and be patient man, good things will come your way :)

Once again, SethfromMI has taken the worlds right out of my mouth. There is someone out there for you, you just have to be patient and they will come your way when you least expect it.