Can't do it

[EssentialAspiration]

I promised myself when I finished high school that college would be different and I would do the work. I hate IT i thought I'd like it but I hate it. I had a lesson today in which i had to give important work in which I haven't done and so I've just not turned up.
I enjoy my other subjects and i'm happy to work on them but I struggle to do things that I just don't want to do
I'm tired. My lazy fuck up attitude just leads to me failing in everything I do and it makes me feel like shit. I like to avoid stress like this that's why I skipped most lessons in school because they made me feel shit. I don't like education. But i don't know if my life is ever going to go anywhere with this fucked mindset I just can't shift

[JacobIN]

If its really that bad you may want to consider seeing a pyscologist for it.

[dzoni]

If its really that bad you may want to consider seeing a pyscologist for it.

That's terrible advice...

I promised myself when I finished high school that college would be different and I would do the work. I hate IT i thought I'd like it but I hate it. I had a lesson today in which i had to give important work in which I haven't done and so I've just not turned up.
I enjoy my other subjects and i'm happy to work on them but I struggle to do things that I just don't want to do
I'm tired. My lazy fuck up attitude just leads to me failing in everything I do and it makes me feel like shit. I like to avoid stress like this that's why I skipped most lessons in school because they made me feel shit. I don't like education. But i don't know if my life is ever going to go anywhere with this fucked mindset I just can't shift

Yes it's funny you are publicly acknowledging that you have an "issue" but you don't bother to do anything about it. You are not motivated, I've had this issue. And there is a reason why they say "Where there is a will, there is a way". This is a battle that you will have to deal on your own, nobody is going to help you because this is you and only you.

What you can do is start by something simple. Do something every day that makes you feel like you are changing. Grow a flower do a chore or something.

The issue I always found is that this block is only mental. You are physically not restricted and doing something actually takes less power than actually thinking about how it takes a lot of power. Sames goes for studying. I couldn't make my self study if I were to put a gun to my head. So I changed how I study, I decided to listen to lessons and remember them. I didn't have to study after school.

[JacobIN]

That's terrible advice...



Yes it's funny you are publicly acknowledging that you have an "issue" but you don't bother to do anything about it. You are not motivated, I've had this issue. And there is a reason why they say "Where there is a will, there is a way". This is a battle that you will have to deal on your own, nobody is going to help you because this is you and only you.

What you can do is start by something simple. Do something every day that makes you feel like you are changing. Grow a flower do a chore or something.

The issue I always found is that this block is only mental. You are physically not restricted and doing something actually takes less power than actually thinking about how it takes a lot of power. Sames goes for studying. I couldn't make my self study if I were to put a gun to my head. So I changed how I study, I decided to listen to lessons and remember them. I didn't have to study after school.

If he himself doesnt have the will to change then what will your advice do? This is literaly what a psycologist is good for. It is a mental problem, and a pyscologist can help find the underlying causes and try to fix them.