Sex Toy too early?

[Polo2847]

Hey, I'm new to this anal/prostate masturbation. I was wondering if y'all think it would be a good idea to get a prostate massage toy at 18, or wait until I've had my first sex? I read somewhere it wouldn't be a good idea because it might confuse me with my sexuality at such a young age, or ruin my expectations of first sex and future orgasms.

What are your thoughts on this?

[Sandybeaches]

I think you're 18 and can do whatever you like. And it will probably let you practice a bit more before having actual sex

[JustinG]

Dude, you r old enough! Go for it

[Second Chance]

Hey, I'm new to this anal/prostate masturbation. I was wondering if y'all think it would be a good idea to get a prostate massage toy at 18, or wait until I've had my first sex? I read somewhere it wouldn't be a good idea because it might confuse me with my sexuality at such a young age, or ruin my expectations of first sex and future orgasms.

What are your thoughts on this?

I doubt very much a sex toy would create problems for you when you ultimately decide to have sex, and, if anything, the sex toy would kind of a sex simulator out of a lack of a better way of phrasing it. I don't see how getting a sex toy would necessarily hurt you considering that you cannot get a STD or pregnant from such a device. I would much rather see someone use a sex toy than to use a person as a sex toy if that makes sense.

Sex toys and those kinds of things do not confuse a person's sexuality. Everything depends on your morality and how you treat other people and yourself. At 18 you basically know who you are sexually and what interests you. In the end of the day what determines your sexuality is your mind and not what you stick inside of your body.

[JacobIN]

If your old enough to pay taxes your old enough for a toy xD

[nwtnguy]

All men can enjoy prostate massage. You don't have to be gay

[PaleBoy]

I don't think you have to wait

[Bluebyrd]

If you enjoy normal anal masturbation (without a toy) then you should go for it. I can't imagine it being much different with a toy and therefore won't ruin your expectations.

[chetbonare]

As a person who can speak from experience, prostate massages are great if done correctly. When I speak about prostate massages, I mean toys too, since they both achieve the same result; prostate orgasm by anal means.

Do I think you can be confused about your sexualailty from a prostate massage, no. Str8 men can love prostate massages too, same as gay men. Both have prostates, and if rubbed and stroked the right way, WILL enjoy some pleasure. Whether you're 18, 15, or 43, you can enjoy a prostate massage without worrying who you will love in the future. I would go a step further and say it influences you LESS than if you jerked to porn. Because you are getting pleasure from only a prostate massage, you aren't actually using a visual stimulate to "get off" or to enjoy pleasure. If you were to enjoy gay porn while jerking, then I could say that may influence you to enjoy watching and participating in gay sexual acts perhaps.

Do I think having a prostate massage will influence you to love men, no. Str8 men can have their wives stroke and rub their prostate just fine. Again from my previous point, it doesn't mean you're gay or str8 when you enjoy prostate massages.

Do I think prostate massages are enjoyable? Absolutely! If done right.

Do I think str8 men/gay phobias should be scared of prostate massages or anal penetration? No! While I can see father figures not wanting their children to know he enjoys his prostate being massaged, it doesn't mean he has to be scared of it and not enjoy them once in a while from his wife.

Do I think pre-married str8 men should do prostate massages before getting married? And do I think it could hurt his expectations of first time sex? My opinion is that is solely up to the individual. I myself, don't see an issue with it because when I do a prostate massage, I'm not stimulating my penis to "get off" or have pleasure. So I don't see it as an interference when I have sex with my wife in the future. But that's up to the man himself. He is 18 afterall, and he knows his body better than anyone else will. If you think it will hurt you more than you want to risk, then don't do it.

What can I say to those who haven't had a prostate massage? Give it a shot if you want to experience some awesome and new. It's different from your "cumming orgasm" and will even force you to moan and shake from the pleasure. Have you ever rubbed the tip of the head of your dick and your leg quickly shake just a bit? Maybe a small jolt? It's similar to that, but amplify it! I did it before and when I removed the toy and thought it was over, I moaned loudly and gasped from the jolt of pleasure.

So I hope this info and my opinion can help you out :)

[Elysium]

This isn't puberty related. :locked: