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Astrix875
September 5th, 2015, 06:36 PM
Ok, so I've never been able to figure myself out sexually and I was wondering if anyone could help me. First of I'd like to make clear that I'm not bothered if I'm gay bi straight or whatever, I'd just like some clarity.

So its like this, I feel conflicted as nothing fits for me. For example I like girls facial features generally. Obviously not all of them, but I find female faces to be more attractive than men, and I rarely look at a guy and find him attractive. However, I hate vagina's, but I like boobs, as in I like them sexually. But then, I like dicks, again sexually but not men themselves and I struggle to get "interested" in gay porn. The porn I would watch would involve a dick or a few in focus along with a girls face, doing, well you know:D. I think I might be gay, as I'm completely turned off by female sexual organs but it's strange because I'm attracted to very few men and the ones that I am attracted too tend to be quite feminine. They'll have long hair for example, almost universally a fringe haircut and definetly no beards or anything like that. So I get to thinking that I'm just a very picky gay guy. But recently I met this girl who I'm incredibly attracted to who has short hair and wears more reserved clothing that you'd associate with men and I sort of have a desire to have sex with her, but I don't actaully want to because of what she *has*. She has a sort of androgynous look, so she's thrown me off again, but like I say the guys I like are quite feminine, so I don't really no what to think. Am I gay, bi, or just unusually picky or something else. Purely in terms of sexual organs I feel that I'm gay, but then the boobs question and all that comes up again.:what:

That probably reads like it's a bit all over the place, which is how I feel:lol:. So I'm basically asking, what am I?

StoppingTom
September 5th, 2015, 07:21 PM
Don't feel like you have to put yourself in one particular group, just do you mang.

Abhorrence
September 6th, 2015, 02:15 AM
Wanting clarity is very understandable but it seems difficult to label. I think the easiest quick label to place on yourself would be bisexual since you are attracted to some girls and some guys. If you wish to further explore it, that's fine there's a million different sexualities on the spectrum and no doubt it will change further due to the fluidity of it. The way I see it is you are sexually attractive to parts of a man and also to parts of a woman, therefore you are (even if only slightly) attracted to both men and women and thus would be bisexual.

Just a quick side note: "almost universally a fringe haircut" dude, a fringe haircut doesn't always mean feminine. :lol3:

Hermes
September 8th, 2015, 08:28 PM
Maybe you are not at the 100% straight end of the Kinsey scale but I would say you are closer to that end than the gay end.

I wouldn't worry too much about whether you like to look at a girls cunt. By and large girls are much less interested in cocks than guys are - they tend to see the guy first and the cock second.

PaleBoy
September 10th, 2015, 05:32 AM
Maybe you are only attracted to trans girls?

Daniella98
September 10th, 2015, 07:12 AM
Maybe you are only attracted to trans girls?

Not to be funny but I thought so too. I just dont know how easy trans girls are to come across.
And I agree with what else have been said: Dont try to label your self into a category. Just be you self and do what you want. In or out of lines between sexualities