Bit confused, bit worried

[Sandybeaches]

So a while ago I made a post because I was gonna be sharing a tent with my cousin for a while and I was worried about masturbating while I was there.
Link to thread: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=227637

And in the thread I said I will definitely NOT wank with my cousin because its weird.........
Well.... I did anyway and we also wanked each other til we finished too :/

It felt great at the time and was pretty fun, but afterwards I felt really guilty and that I shouldn't really have done, but we did it a few times over the week.
I talked to some people for advice and my older bro said loads of people do it (But he said he didn't) and it doesn't matter if was just once anyway.

So i'm just kind of confused now, I know im not gay, but i DID enjoy getting wanked by another guy :(
My cousin wanted to do more but I said no and I'm glad I did.
I just don't really know what to do or feel now.

[Bluebyrd]

Just because you enjoyed it, doesn't mean you're gay. You could get a hand job off anyone and it would feel good so just because it was a boy doesn't mean anything.

[JavierDolan]

I'd say that's a pretty normal reaction. Just because you jerked off with another guy doesn't make you gay. And further more from that, it doesn't matter if you are! If you both enjoyed it, and no one was forced into it, you have no reason to be guilty! You could just view it as pleasure, rather than doing it for the sake of love, which could take away from the unneeded guilt you have.

Anyway, super, ultra main point is that you're going to be fine, and this will pass faster than you think, and then you can continue on with the rest of your life. :metal::metal::metal:

[Zachary G]

Just because you enjoyed what happened doesnt mean that you are gay or bisexual even. It was more of an experimentation thing than anything else. I wouldnt worry about it or let it get you confused nor should you feel guilty about doing it. You enjoyed yourself for a brief moment and thats all there is to it. Youre okay.

[Zerg]

Most people would think that a hand job from any gender is a nice feeling, whether they be gay/st8/bi.

[ashdaniel]

I don't see there anything wrong. It is part of growing up. Experiencing with same gender are part of self-explore. Does really matter much because it happen already ,but the most important part is you enjoy it and didn't get hurt. Just relax and enjoy yourself, not everyone have the chance to experience like you do. If you don't fell comfortable then don't do it.

[PaleBoy]

Don´t worry too much about it, sexuality is fluid....just because you enjoyed a particular experience, it doesn´t mean it will influence your sexual orientation.

[pjones]

easy for me to say not to be worried because i enjoy doing it with my friends. some boys feel guilty after, so that's normal, and masturbating with another boy has nothing to do with your sexuality, its about pleasure.

[Andre 99]

Your brother is right, it is normal that people do it.
It felt good cos you were getting your dick jerked, it feels just the same when a girl does it.

[Bull]

So a while ago I made a post because I was gonna be sharing a tent with my cousin for a while and I was worried about masturbating while I was there.
Link to thread: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=227637

And in the thread I said I will definitely NOT wank with my cousin because its weird.........
Well.... I did anyway and we also wanked each other til we finished too :/

It felt great at the time and was pretty fun, but afterwards I felt really guilty and that I shouldn't really have done, but we did it a few times over the week.
I talked to some people for advice and my older bro said loads of people do it (But he said he didn't) and it doesn't matter if was just once anyway.

So i'm just kind of confused now, I know im not gay, but i DID enjoy getting wanked by another guy :(
My cousin wanted to do more but I said no and I'm glad I did.
I just don't really know what to do or feel now.

I get the being confused part. About what are you worried?

[Jaseblader]

So a while ago I made a post because I was gonna be sharing a tent with my cousin for a while and I was worried about masturbating while I was there.
Link to thread: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=227637

And in the thread I said I will definitely NOT wank with my cousin because its weird.........
Well.... I did anyway and we also wanked each other til we finished too :/

It felt great at the time and was pretty fun, but afterwards I felt really guilty and that I shouldn't really have done, but we did it a few times over the week.
I talked to some people for advice and my older bro said loads of people do it (But he said he didn't) and it doesn't matter if was just once anyway.

So i'm just kind of confused now, I know im not gay, but i DID enjoy getting wanked by another guy :(
My cousin wanted to do more but I said no and I'm glad I did.
I just don't really know what to do or feel now.

if you liked it.... Do it again you feel guilty because you didn't expect to and it seems wrong to you

[Sandybeaches]

I get the being confused part. About what are you worried?

I was just worred about what it might "mean", ya know? I don't think it matters as much tho, I'm really glad of the advice everyone has given :)

[Lodan]

I was just worred about what it might "mean", ya know? I don't think it matters as much tho, I'm really glad of the advice everyone has given :)

You shouldn't worry. I'm guessing you would both normally masturbate when alone anyway, the fact you were sharing a tent meant you were sharing the same space for a while and you both found a way to deal with that because there might not have been chance to wank separate from each other

[Just JT]

Perfectly normal, safe, clean, healthy and good :)
All it means is that you enjoyed that time together, and that's all it means
Confusion may come from you questioning your sexuality, because of the two of you sharing this moment. And that's a normal inquiry in of itself to begin with. Everyone masturbates, many boys our age do it together, and experiment like everyone is saying here.
Don't worry, I'd be happy you found someone you are comfortable enough with to do that with, or what ever else you guys decide to do. Keep an open mind, you might experience something you like, and learn something about yourself

[Turtl3]

Best thing to do is accept that what happened happened and just move on from it! Eventually it won't bother you. If you don't want anything to happen again then you just have to tell him