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Morri.Scratch
September 2nd, 2015, 01:19 PM
Well, I think I have my sexuality figured out.

I'm a panromantic asexual, and while that is a new term, i do believe it fits what i feel. Here's my reasoning;

I have never really thought that i was hetero; Nor was I actually attracted to any other gender. But then again I was never about being sexually attracted. More or less it would take me a while to like anybody. For me, it is about emotional attraction more than sexual. Needless to say, sex has never been a thing for me. ANYTHING sexual disgusts me, and no, I'm not a virgin..

I much would prefer a romantic relationship, but without sexual things.. Like, I don't mind physical contact like kissing or cuddling, but nothing else. At the moment, I have a girlfriend to whom I have told this.. And She understands me at least somewhat.

So, I mean.. I guess, what I want to ask after all this is... does my reasoning make sense?:confused:
northy
September 2nd, 2015, 04:14 PM
You have obviously spent a while thinking about this. You are likely right as only you know what you are and hey, who needs labels? As long as you are happy, everything is good.



Don't get too worked up on it, you don't want unnecessary stress.
SkyClad33605
September 3rd, 2015, 09:07 AM
You have obviously spent a while thinking about this. You are likely right as only you know what you are and hey, who needs labels? As long as you are happy, everything is good.



Don't get too worked up on it, you don't want unnecessary stress.


This 100%

Focus on being you and less on what box you fill. Your sexuality only matters to you, it is no other person's concern.
Bacca
September 26th, 2015, 12:27 AM
I honestly don't think labels matter, just date who you find attractive and who makes you happy :D
DoodleSnap
September 29th, 2015, 04:14 AM
You have obviously spent a while thinking about this. You are likely right as only you know what you are and hey, who needs labels? As long as you are happy, everything is good.



Don't get too worked up on it, you don't want unnecessary stress.
This is fantastic advice. People should worry less about labels, and more on feeling comfortable with whoever they are attracted to. Your labels seem to make a lot of sense, and you clearly have some logical thinking behind it, so identify however you want to identify.
NotQuiteANerd97
October 31st, 2015, 04:54 PM
That makes plenty of sense. Do what makes you feel happy. I bet there are plenty of asexual people out there looking for the same thing as you.
Just JT
October 31st, 2015, 05:00 PM
Same here, just be you and follow your heart and instincts