Question/Advice for Girls

[redrider12]

Howdy y'all -
Recently I've become acquainted with (in a loose, albeit text only sense) several girls who I, given the chance, would like to get to know personally. Our first football game is Friday, and there's a good chance they will be there. Only I don't know where to start. Having never physically met them, but gotten to know them well over text, I feel like the usual "hey, I'm so-and-so" isn't really the best fit. Even through we've never formally met, with all the Snapchatting it feels like we have.
I feel like this would be very easy to make completely awkward if done wrong.
Girls - or even guys - anyone else been there or have some words of wisdom?

[Daniella98]

Treat them as potentially new friends.
If you think of them as potential sex or girlfriends, you tend to try to impress and tell about your self until the awkward situation where you remember, youd be a better example if you want to know about her.

If you think of them as friends maybe youd relax and be your self.

[AutumnWinds]

Treat them as potentially new friends.
If you think of them as potential sex or girlfriends, you tend to try to impress and tell about your self until the awkward situation where you remember, youd be a better example if you want to know about her.

If you think of them as friends maybe youd relax and be your self.

so, so true! also, we can usually tell when a guy is sexually interested. if he's being cool and also seems interested about him as a person, it's kind of easy to get past the fact that you know he's thinking about screwing you, where as if the guy is just asking bland questions that you can tell are veiled sexual invitations, and pumping himself up trying to impress you it makes him boring and kind of creepy.


the reason i mention this is that i can think of two cases in my life where a guy was so hot i'd have just messed around with him right after i met him (in both cases i did not) in every other instance of ever meeting a guy, it's been how he acted that determined if i was interested or not. if the only thing you're showing is that you desperately want sex or a girlfriend, that's not really the kind of thing that makes me (or most girls) want to get to know you better in any way.

[Elysium]

Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[ImagineRepublicCity]

I believe that you should just be yourself and get to know them. There's only so much you can do via a screen, but all you gotta remember is be yourself. Also, while what everyone else said is true, in my opinion, I believe that you shouldn't be too forward, but I'm not the girl, lot's of people act differently towards flirting. If it was the first time meeting them face to face, they might like it, they might not, but it's honestly up to you where you go.

[caseyislame]

Just don't make anything out to be a big deal. It's not. If you get rejected, it's not a life shattering event. Just be polite, treat them as a person and move on. And for gods sake have some manners about you. I'm tired of getting hit on by these asshole guys who take example from Chris Brown, kanya west, and other bullshit 'role models'.