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deepblue57
August 31st, 2015, 07:58 PM
Recently I've been very hurt by a friend. She's done some things to me that have been extremely hurtful and I need some advice. Let's call this friend Ellie. So Ellie and I have been friends for about a year, but let me back up a bit. K-9th grade I went to this school and had 4 bestfriends. Let's call them Morgan, Sarah, Samantha, and Jillian. We were friends through middle school and the beginning of highschool but when I switched programs we stopped being friends. Nothing ever happened, we tried to keep in contact but the friendship just stopped. At my new school I met Ellie. We became pretty good friends. This year, however, me and Ellie both switched back to my old school. I've talked to my 'old' friends and while we're not best friends, we still talk. However, Ellie has totally ditched me and has started to become bestfriends with Morgan, Sarah, Samantha and Jillian. I can't even talk to Ellie about this because whenever I go up to her she either ignores me or literally walks away. I'm very very hurt by this and feel like she's trying to hurt me on purpose. She's completely aware of my past friendship with these girls. She keeps posting pictures of them together and I've never felt so betrayed. Do I try to talk to Ellie about this or do I encounter my 'old' friends and tell them that Ellie might be using them to hurt me? I just don't know what to do. The last thing I need is drama right now but I can't not say anything. It's really killing me.

Freckles
September 3rd, 2015, 08:51 AM
If you can't talk to her maybe you can send her a text or email to tell her how you feel. I don't quite understand why you can't be friends with them again too.