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multihello97
August 31st, 2015, 08:11 AM
I'm not 100% where this post should go, but I'm guessing it will reach people here. Anyway ever sinse I was 12 I've not been that certain about my sexuality, I definitely like girls but I just don't know how I feel about guys and trans people. Every time I try to come to a conclusion I get nothing, does anyone have any advice.

TLDR: Help me discover my sexuality :|

Also I'm new to the website so please be patient if I've fucked up, it took me like 20 minutes to figure out how to post XD

fast8
August 31st, 2015, 08:15 AM
No one can really help you figure it out you will do that on your own it will just come to you don't worry about rushing it you will be fine

multihello97
August 31st, 2015, 08:22 AM
No one can really help you figure it out you will do that on your own it will just come to you don't worry about rushing it you will be fine

Thanks dude :)

Just JT
August 31st, 2015, 09:02 AM
Not sure how old you are, but when we're young, hormones and stuff can make us all confused and send our brains and bodies all kinds of mixed messages we don't understand

I wouldn't worry about a label, just follow your instincts, trust them
Because you never know if you'll like something unles you try it

multihello97
August 31st, 2015, 11:28 AM
Not sure how old you are, but when we're young, hormones and stuff can make us all confused and send our brains and bodies all kinds of mixed messages we don't understand

I wouldn't worry about a label, just follow your instincts, trust them
Because you never know if you'll like something unles you try it

Thanks for the advice bro, and I'm 17

Zerg
August 31st, 2015, 12:23 PM
Don't look for a label for yourself, just be yourself and go with the flow. Time will tell

multihello97
August 31st, 2015, 12:31 PM
Don't look for a label for yourself, just be yourself and go with the flow. Time will tell

Tbh it's not even that I'm looking for a label, i just hate the confusion, I wanna know if i like guys or not and i just can't tell

Zerg
August 31st, 2015, 12:34 PM
Tbh it's not even that I'm looking for a label, i just hate the confusion, I wanna know if i like guys or not and i just can't tell

Only way to know, is if you try it

Elysium
August 31st, 2015, 12:35 PM
Puberty for All :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

Zachary G
August 31st, 2015, 12:49 PM
discovering ones sexuality is a long and drawn out process that doesnt happen over night, its something that takes time, patience, experimentation, deep soul searching, and acceptance. I am sure we all wish we could just give you the answer, but its something that we all experience and have to go through - some earlier than others - but its nothing you cant handle and know you can always come here for input. Good luck.

multihello97
August 31st, 2015, 01:10 PM
discovering ones sexuality is a long and drawn out process that doesnt happen over night, its something that takes time, patience, experimentation, deep soul searching, and acceptance. I am sure we all wish we could just give you the answer, but its something that we all experience and have to go through - some earlier than others - but its nothing you cant handle and know you can always come here for input. Good luck.

The thing is i have no one to experiment with, i have 1 gay friend and he's in a very solid relationship. And even if he wasnt i wouldnt risk what we have together by asking him and him freaking out.

Zachary G
August 31st, 2015, 01:14 PM
The thing is i have no one to experiment with, i have 1 gay friend and he's in a very solid relationship. And even if he wasnt i wouldnt risk what we have together by asking him and him freaking out.

No need to risk the relationship you have with your friend all in the name of experimentation, but I am sure you will find someone in time with whom you can talk to openly about these things and possible experiment with. You just have to be patient.

multihello97
August 31st, 2015, 01:18 PM
No need to risk the relationship you have with your friend all in the name of experimentation, but I am sure you will find someone in time with whom you can talk to openly about these things and possible experiment with. You just have to be patient.

Thanks, your help means a lot :)

Tyson S
September 1st, 2015, 07:05 PM
Good luck hope all goes well for you :)

SkyClad33605
September 1st, 2015, 07:24 PM
No one can really help you figure it out you will do that on your own it will just come to you don't worry about rushing it you will be fine

This 100%

Time is the only tell. And even then as you go on you may change. For some people it's clear, for others they need to explore and discover.