what to try it

[thekidd_dub]

I'm 17 now and I've wanted to try anal masturbation for some time now but do know what I need to do or how to get started help please

[Apassionato]

Get some lube and start by slowly massaging your anal opening with a finger. Then, as it feels more comfortable, start slowly pushing one finger in and move it around. That's a good start. You can add more fingers one by one, but as a start one finger with a lot of lube can be painful already. Don't worry, the pain disappears, just don't overdo it.

[Straya]

I'm 17 now and I've wanted to try anal masturbation for some time now but do know what I need to do or how to get started help please

all you need is something to use as lube and your fingers

[thekidd_dub]

thanks what kind of lube works best for beginners

[Apassionato]

Any lube is fine so long as you don't have allergies.
Some lubes can't be used with some kinds of condom and some lubes have "cooling effects" and fruit tastes and shit like that, but you don't need to worry about that.

[Straya]

thanks what kind of lube works best for beginners

id suggest just a standard water bassed lube to start with its cheap and easy and will get the job done and easy to clean up

[ashdaniel]

Yep, I sugges water base lube too it will be much easier to clean up. Just do it slowly.

[TheRedViper]

The only lube I use is my spit. I also don't use my fingers, but I use a Sharpie instead. It feels amazing, I recommend trying that, because it's extremely smooth and not too wide.

[Apassionato]

Don't use spit. And don't use a sharpie. That's a terrible idea and will likely get you hurt.
Buy real lube and use either your fingers or an object designed to go into an anus, like a dildo.

[TheRedViper]

Don't use spit. And don't use a sharpie. That's a terrible idea and will likely get you hurt.
Buy real lube and use either your fingers or an object designed to go into an anus, like a dildo.

I've done it plenty and haven't been hurt at all. It's been a very fun experience.

[Apassionato]

I've done it plenty and haven't been hurt at all. It's been a very fun experience.

Don't advocate potentially dangerous things just because you personally have gotten lucky and haven't gotten hurt.

You might as well tell him to have unprotected sex with strangers because "I haven't gotten HIV yet and it was fun!".

The area within the anus is very sensible to irritation and cuts, some of which you may not notice until as part of a larger problem much later. Inserting anything that isn't meant to be inserted can be dangerous and not using proper lube makes the danger bigger.

[Straya]

I've done it plenty and haven't been hurt at all. It's been a very fun experience.

i agree iv used plenty of items not designed to be in there and its turned out fine if your careful plenty of things work

[Apassionato]

Seriously guys? If you want to have anal bleeding or mess up the delicate skin in there, that's fine. But stop trying to tell other people it's safe. It isn't. You got lucky thus far, that's all.
Not every smoker dies from lung cancer, but we don't go around telling people to start smoking because "you'll be fine if you're careful", do we?

There are plenty of safe options available(fingers with trimmed nails, sex toys that can be bought easily on amazon, lube that is available at any supermarket...), why would you need to go with the unsafe one?

Most people won't get seriously hurt, but when something goes wrong, it can go terribly wrong.

[PaleBoy]

Seriously guys? If you want to have anal bleeding or mess up the delicate skin in there, that's fine. But stop trying to tell other people it's safe. It isn't. You got lucky thus far, that's all.
Not every smoker dies from lung cancer, but we don't go around telling people to start smoking because "you'll be fine if you're careful", do we?

There are plenty of safe options available(fingers with trimmed nails, sex toys that can be bought easily on amazon, lube that is available at any supermarket...), why would you need to go with the unsafe one?

Most people won't get seriously hurt, but when something goes wrong, it can go terribly wrong.

Yep.

Make sure to use lube or at least neuter soap. And cut those nails!

Take your time, and it´ll all be fine.

[Elysium]

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