View Full Version : Feel confused about who I am
liam2013
August 29th, 2015, 09:43 PM
I think I'm bi but sometimes I have no interest in girls for a long time dono why :what:
Zerg
August 29th, 2015, 11:07 PM
I just go with the flow of everything. I'm currently feeling just like you
Abhorrence
August 30th, 2015, 03:53 AM
Sexuality is supposedly fluid, which means it changes a lot and since it is not a choice you will always be left confused when you're finding certain sexes more attractive, etc.
DoodleSnap
August 30th, 2015, 07:00 AM
I think that the best thing to focus on right now is just accepting whatever happens, whoever you're attracted to, and not worrying about how that fits in with your label. Sexuality is a wide spectrum, and is confusing enough, without the changes and confusion that puberty brings, so my best advice is just to let whatever happens happen. Sometimes you'll like certain traits or genders more than others, and that's okay. Just let time and experience tell you what you like.
AutumnWinds
August 30th, 2015, 08:31 AM
if it helps i'm kind of like that to. i'm bi, but with one exception, most of the time i have very little interest in guys. but sometimes i am interested. i've learned to just accept it and roll with it instead of trying to make myself like people i'm not into. ultimately it seems to make me happier, as i hope it will you as well.
PaleBoy
August 30th, 2015, 08:37 AM
Bisexuality tends to be fluid over time
Quartz
August 30th, 2015, 10:28 AM
It's only natural to feel confused. Life's like that. Some people like guys, then like girls. Some people have always liked guys or have always liked girls. Some like everyone, some like anyone. As a lot of people have already said, sexuality is fluid, which makes it complicated. Just don't dwell to much on it and you'll be fine.
Zachary G
August 31st, 2015, 12:50 PM
discovering ones sexuality is a long and drawn out process that doesnt happen over night, its something that takes time, patience, experimentation, deep soul searching, and acceptance. I am sure we all wish we could just give you the answer, but its something that we all experience and have to go through - some earlier than others - but its nothing you cant handle and know you can always come here for input. Good luck.
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