messing around with family

[AutumnWinds]

i'm an only child and for all intents and purposes i have no cousins. i've seen a few posts on here that have kind of got me thinking and i'm just trying to work a few things out in my head and like wrap my mind around some stuff.

anyhow i hope this survey is okay and that this is the right place to put it. please only answer if you have had relevant experience with this. i'm not interested in people's personal stance on the matter unless it's due to experience, and anyone who is brave enough to share shouldn't be scrutinized. :whoops:

anyhow, here it is. obviously keep your answers adhering to the rules. from what i understand, that means answering the question is okay but telling a story is not. also, if it helps in your answers, i'm more interested in the actual feelings and motivations, not what happened in and of itself. that's more just for context.

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who?

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what?

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they?

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available?

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else?

was it a one time thing or ongoing?

do you regret what happened? why or why not?

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this?

has it changed your relationship? if so how?



thanks for taking the time to answer my questions :D

[Laibachd]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Sister and brother

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what?Sister and brother. Mutual masturbation, spooning, oral.

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? I was 16, my brother was 15 and my sister 18.

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? No, and no.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? Sheer sexual desire and willingness to experiment and learn ^^

was it a one time thing or ongoing? Ongoing, though we do it much less often.

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? No

has it changed your relationship? if so how? Yes, we are much more open with each other now!

[Andre 99]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? I have consciously done it in fromt of a male and female cousin, and my sister has walked in on me a couple of times

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? I have masturbated by male cousin and fingered, been jerked off and sucked off by my female cousin

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? First time I was 11, male cousin was 12, with female cousin I was 12, she was same age

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? we did it because we both wanted to

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? sexual desire, and curiosity

was it a one time thing or ongoing? ongoing

do you regret what happened? why or why not? no i dont

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? no

has it changed your relationship? if so how? it has made us closer



thanks for taking the time to answer my questions i hope this helps you

[KellyNC]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? I have, my sister

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? No, nothing further than I said above at least.

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? First time I masturbated in front of her I was 15 and she was 11

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? Sorta. First time it happened we were temporarily sharing a room, I kinda hinted that I wanted some private time which led to her asking questions, I was honest and and she got curious.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? I guess it was mostly wanting to help her learn this amazing thing about her body and allow me to get some much-needed self pleasure time in as well.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? Ongoing

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No we both enjoy it

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? Definitely not

has it changed your relationship? if so how? It;s allowed us to become open about sex and masturbation to one another.

[pjones]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? yes, my younger brother.

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? we masturbate each other

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? i was 13 or just turned 14 and he was 11.

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? we share a room and i needed relief. was tired of hiding it. we still masturbate openly in front of each other.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? he was seeing me develop, and getting erections and had a lot of questions. as I explained puberty to him it led to demonstrating what masturbation is.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? ongoing, but we don't do each other that often.

do you regret what happened? why or why not? no regrets, masturbation is completely normal

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? no

has it changed your relationship? if so how? we have always been very close, and this has made us closer.

[ClaraWho]

What I have to comment here is isn't anyone worried by these age discrepancies?!

An 11 year old shouldn't be exposed to sex by an older sibling, that power balance sounds abusive. In the same way a teacher shouldn't have sexual contact with a teenage student.

Obviously I am romantically involved with my brother, but I was almost 16 when we admitted the feelings and acted upon them.

An 11 year old will naturally admire and want to impress an older sibling, often trusting them to make decisions on their behalf. One has to question the ability to make a truly consensual choice below the age of (being very liberal here) say 13/14, with a partner of similar age.

Just some food for thought.

~ Clara

[KellyNC]

What I have to comment here is isn't anyone worried by these age discrepancies?!

An 11 year old shouldn't be exposed to sex by an older sibling, that power balance sounds abusive. In the same way a teacher shouldn't have sexual contact with a teenage student.

Obviously I am romantically involved with my brother, but I was almost 16 when we admitted the feelings and acted upon them.

An 11 year old will naturally admire and want to impress an older sibling, often trusting them to make decisions on their behalf. One has to question the ability to make a truly consensual choice below the age of (being very liberal here) say 13/14, with a partner of similar age.

Just some food for thought.

~ ClaraI understand what you're saying but I wasn't trying to 'introduce her' to sex or even the issue about masturbation as she admitted she knew that's what I wanted private time for (and was curious about it). I also did my best to focus on the more clinical aspects of masturbation rather than the sexual context by using terms 'climax' or 'orgasm' rather than 'cumming' and left her free to fantasize rather than showng her porn or suggesting a fantasy. I also understand 11 is a bit young, but the first time I masturbated I was less than a year older than she was at the time and we've never taken it further than us touching ourselves (and I most certainly wouldn't have then). I do agree that after a certain age discrepancy things do start feeling a bit uncomfortable and that a more actively sexual approach would have been inappropriate, so I'm not trying to suggest that all activities are okay. If you feel attracted to your brother I'm not going to judge you as you two are old enough to engage in an activity you please regardless of whether or not it feels icky to me personally, but I also ask that you give the same sort of respect for others.

[AutumnWinds]

What I have to comment here is isn't anyone worried by these age discrepancies?!

An 11 year old shouldn't be exposed to sex by an older sibling, that power balance sounds abusive. In the same way a teacher shouldn't have sexual contact with a teenage student.

Obviously I am romantically involved with my brother, but I was almost 16 when we admitted the feelings and acted upon them.

An 11 year old will naturally admire and want to impress an older sibling, often trusting them to make decisions on their behalf. One has to question the ability to make a truly consensual choice below the age of (being very liberal here) say 13/14, with a partner of similar age.

Just some food for thought.

~ Clara

I understand what you're saying but I wasn't trying to 'introduce her' to sex or even the issue about masturbation as she admitted she knew that's what I wanted private time for (and curious about it). I also didn't try to make it sexual and focused on the more clinical aspects of how good it felt rather than showing her porn or trying to make her fantasize about what sex would actually feel like. I also understand 11 is a bit young, but the first time I masturbated I was less than a year older than she was at the time and we've never taken it further than us touching ourselves (and I most certainly wouldn't have then). I do agree that after a certain age discrepancy things do start feeling a bit more uncomfortable and that a more actively sexual approach would have been inappropriate, so I'm not trying to suggest that all activities are okay. If you feel attracted to your brother I'm not going to judge you as you two are old enough to engage in an activity you please regardless of whether or not it feels icky to me personally, but I also ask that you give the same sort of respect for others.

i kind of agree with Kelly on this as far as the respect thing goes, though to be honest, i think your heart was in the right place with your comment, clara.

i wonder if you might mind answering my survey, too?

from the sound of your signature, it seems like you've had a lot of people try to make a spectacle of your relationship, so i understand if you don't want to answer. i don't know if it would help or not, but from what you said in your post i can pretty much connect the dots on the actual sexual answers, if you wanted to ignore those, but i'm really interested in your answers on the questions about the way you feel. again, if you don't want to say i understand 100%, and if i hit any nerves, or if i made you feel at all uncomfortable, please accept my apologies. that's 100% not what i'm trying to do. :)

[ClaraWho]

i kind of agree with Kelly on this as far as the respect thing goes, though to be honest, i think your heart was in the right place with your comment, clara.

i wonder if you might mind answering my survey, too?

from the sound of your signature, it seems like you've had a lot of people try to make a spectacle of your relationship, so i understand if you don't want to answer. i don't know if it would help or not, but from what you said in your post i can pretty much connect the dots on the actual sexual answers, if you wanted to ignore those, but i'm really interested in your answers on the questions about the way you feel. again, if you don't want to say i understand 100%, and if i hit any nerves, or if i made you feel at all uncomfortable, please accept my apologies. that's 100% not what i'm trying to do. :)

I really do not see were this 'lack of respect' I am apparently showing towards others, and I would also highlight my comment wasn't directed at anyone personally, but as a broader thought within the confines of this topic. I have known friends who were in similar situations that did escalate to actual contact, that when they grew older they found quite traumatic and to them they had been abused. What may seem helpful/harmless at the time, could years later turn out to be a major, life-changing issue. I'm just providing perspective for caution.

What I will say is surely there must be some element of enjoyment being gained from being watched masturbating, which to me seems a bit off when the other party is 4 years younger and prepubescent. For example, couldn't one justify letting your 11 yr old sister watch you perform sexual acts on your partner, as an 'educational experience'? Arguably some things are best left to purely verbal, formal explanations and self-discovery, no?

Just to be clear, this is a broader point, not targeted at any other posters here.


Yes, I have had many on here who seem to fantasise over incest try to get me to share intimate, erotic details and make a spectacle of my relationship. However, you have been civil and mature so I'll see if I can provide any insight (:


if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? 16/18

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? He is all I want, we both have dozens of offers, he even has stalkers!

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? Love, you left out the best reason to do anything.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? Ongoing relationship

do you regret what happened? why or why not? Not for a heartbeat.

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? About 1 1/2 years before, we'd been dating for a year.

has it changed your relationship? if so how? We couldn't be any closer, it's wonderful.



thanks for taking the time to answer my questions :D - You're welcome :wub:

~ Clara

[AutumnWinds]

thank you so much for answering my questions. :D:wub:

would you mind if i asked a few followups? i'm especially interested in your relationship because it seems so completely different than the other people who have answered. you proved this when you mentioned that i even left out your reasons for doing anything with him.

how old were you when you realized you were into your brother romantically? were you always close as kids? who was the first one to do something undeniably romantic? if it was you were you afraid? i feel like i would be. i really admire your courage talking about this, too.

this has nothing to do with my survey, but just to sate my curiosity, what are your and your brother's long term plans? like how do you plan to handle life together, parents, etc? not trying to attack you at all, i'm just very inquisitive. :)

I really do not see were this 'lack of respect' I am apparently showing towards others, and I would also highlight my comment wasn't directed at anyone personally, but as a broader thought within the confines of this topic. I have known friends who were in similar situations that did escalate to actual contact, that when they grew older they found quite traumatic and to them they had been abused. What may seem helpful/harmless at the time, could years later turn out to be a major, life-changing issue. I'm just providing perspective for caution.

What I will say is surely there must be some element of enjoyment being gained from being watched masturbating, which to me seems a bit off when the other party is 4 years younger and prepubescent. For example, couldn't one justify letting your 11 yr old sister watch you perform sexual acts on your partner, as an 'educational experience'? Arguably some things are best left to purely verbal, formal explanations and self-discovery, no?

Just to be clear, this is a broader point, not targeted at any other posters here.


Yes, I have had many on here who seem to fantasise over incest try to get me to share intimate, erotic details and make a spectacle of my relationship. However, you have been civil and mature so I'll see if I can provide any insight (:


if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? 16/18

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? He is all I want, we both have dozens of offers, he even has stalkers!

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? Love, you left out the best reason to do anything.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? Ongoing relationship

do you regret what happened? why or why not? Not for a heartbeat.

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? About 1 1/2 years before, we'd been dating for a year.

has it changed your relationship? if so how? We couldn't be any closer, it's wonderful.



thanks for taking the time to answer my questions :D - You're welcome :wub:

~ Clara

[Daniella98]

I have just masturbated with my sister. We started when I was 14 and she was 13. She had caught me masturbating and we thought it was hot. So we watch each other. Its just desire and ongoing. We dont regret anything and we are more open to eachother.

[ClaraWho]

thank you so much for answering my questions. :D:wub:

would you mind if i asked a few followups? i'm especially interested in your relationship because it seems so completely different than the other people who have answered. you proved this when you mentioned that i even left out your reasons for doing anything with him.

how old were you when you realized you were into your brother romantically? were you always close as kids? who was the first one to do something undeniably romantic? if it was you were you afraid? i feel like i would be. i really admire your courage talking about this, too.

this has nothing to do with my survey, but just to sate my curiosity, what are your and your brother's long term plans? like how do you plan to handle life together, parents, etc? not trying to attack you at all, i'm just very inquisitive. :)

I've posted all this on here ages ago, but I appreciate that was about 300 or so posts back haha.

'My brother only came into my life when I was 10, as he'd been living with our mother until she died in a car crash. We quickly became best friends and when I was 14 1/2 I started to have much deeper feelings for him. On my 15th birthday he gave me such a wonderful birthday that when he surprised me with the final gift I lost it and kissed him . Well it turned out he'd been feeling the same way.'

We've always just been perfect together, always there whenever the other needed anything. He always made me feel so safe and loved, that whenever I kissed him, deep down I knew he felt the same way. Of course I had many sleepless nights thinking it all through and the potential connotations.

Actually this would probably be far more helpful to you than me repeating it here; http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=224886

If you have any follow up questions you can post them here maybe.

~ Clara

[SkyClad33605]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes, my cousin

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? Yes, the same cousin. We pleasured each other

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? I was 14 she was 16

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? I was visiting her during the summer. She told me about her friends that do it together. And things progressed from there.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? A mix of curiosity, lust, and excitement.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? We still occasionally dabble, but she lives a ways off.

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No. It hurt no one and it was good clean fun.

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? No.

has it changed your relationship? if so how? Yes, we are a lot more comfortable around each other. We are just closer.

[SammyG17]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes, among other people.

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? Yes, and other people, and other things.

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? Young, and Young / Old depending.

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? No, and no.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? Curiosity, supporting family for starting. Pleasure, and help out now.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? Ongoing

do you regret what happened? why or why not? Not once.

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? No, there is a stark difference in the love I have and share with my family, and the love I have for other people.

has it changed your relationship? if so how? We are closer, but we've always been open and understanding of each other.

[Kirina]

What I have to comment here is isn't anyone worried by these age discrepancies?!

An 11 year old shouldn't be exposed to sex by an older sibling, that power balance sounds abusive. In the same way a teacher shouldn't have sexual contact with a teenage student.
Even if there is no attraction. Isn't just the act itself classified as pedophilia?

[JavierDolan]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? yes, my twin cousins (males) and younger brother

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? jacked each other off, oral

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? with my cousins I was 13 and they were 14. and with my brother I was 13 and he was 11

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? Nope, just did it because, really.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? I think it was a combination of all of them

was it a one time thing or ongoing? ongoing

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No, no one gets hurt when we do it, and we both enjoyed it

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? no

has it changed your relationship? if so how? I actually think we're closer than we were before.

[maggs]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who?
Sister

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what?
Sister. Helped her masturbate

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they?
She's 12, I'm 14

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available?
Nope

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else?
Help her out

was it a one time thing or ongoing?
So far it happened just once

do you regret what happened? why or why not?
Nope

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this?
Nope

has it changed your relationship? if so how?
Yes. Now she's way more open to talk about sex and everything related. She's asking me a lot of questions lately and I like it because she's learning a lot about puberty and sex

[AutumnWinds]

thanks to everyone who has answered so far. one thing i'm amazed by is how many people did stuff just to help their sibling out. it must be really cool to have someone in your life who looks out for you like that. have they ever offered to help you out in that way? also, do you guys help each other out in other completely nonsexual aspects of your lives? (homework, chores, stuff like that?)

[Gizmo RC]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? yes, all of them

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? yes, all of them and sex, bjs, hjs (just the last two for the youngest)

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? I started when I was 11

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? No, my family just enjoys this

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? sexual desire

was it a one time thing or ongoing? ongoing, obviously

do you regret what happened? why or why not? no way! I love this!

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? just sexual really

has it changed your relationship? if so how? other than the very common sex, no.

[cutie123]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes my brother

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? Yes oral

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? I was 17 he was 15

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? Did it because he caught me masturbating and yes I've had normal partners

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? He was asking questions and I was really horny

was it a one time thing or ongoing? Occasional

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No because my brother and I are very open and can talk about things now!

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? No

has it changed your relationship? if so how? Yes it made us closer

[iamsilkspectre]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who?
yes, my sister.

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what?
yes, mutual masturbation with a (male) cousin

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they?
with my sister: i was 15 and she was 13
with my cousin: i was 14 and he was 16

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available?
nope

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else?
i was curious and horny and my cousin felt the same :P

was it a one time thing or ongoing?
ongoing for some time

do you regret what happened? why or why not?
no, we learned a lot and made us closer

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this?
nope

has it changed your relationship? if so how?
it made us closer :)

[ValerieXx]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? sister, cousin sister

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? cousin sister, feel each other up

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? 13 and 14

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? no, no

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? curiosity, wanting to experiment, sexual desire

was it a one time thing or ongoing? ongoing

do you regret what happened? why or why not? no

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? no

has it changed your relationship? if so how? not really, we were really close before

[TPAallDay]

cousin sister



Is she both your sister & your cousin, or is she just a really close cousin, or what? I'm not familiar with the term

[Cangirl]

I have to go and don't have time for a proper response but I want to come back and post :) but yes with brothers and sister so yay! lol

[Jordan99]

I don't do anything with either of my brothers but I've seen both of them naked. My little brother sometimes sleeps with me and likes to hold my boobs for comfort as he drifts back off to sleep.

[AutumnWinds]

I don't do anything with either of my brothers but I've seen both of them naked. My little brother sometimes sleeps with me and likes to hold my boobs for comfort as he drifts back off to sleep.

how old is he? how does that make you feel?

[ClaraWho]

I don't do anything with either of my brothers but I've seen both of them naked. My little brother sometimes sleeps with me and likes to hold my boobs for comfort as he drifts back off to sleep.

Uh...

[Jordan99]

Uh...

how old is he? how does that make you feel?

No, No, No!!! Nothing like that. He just turned 5 and isn't thinking of me sexually or anything like that. It's just comforting for him. He often wakes up in the middle of the night and comes to my room and gets in bed with me. He puts his little arm around me and usually holds my breast until he falls back to sleep. It's just comforting to him I think. As for how it makes me feel, he's just a little guy and there's nothing, NOTHING, sexual about it. I like that he feels safe and can fall back asleep lying next to me.

[Cangirl]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes sister and brothers

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what?Mutual masturbation, spooning, some oral

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? sister about 11 and she was 15 and brothers 14 and them 12 16

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? no just exploring and fun.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? curiosity about it and bodies.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? ongoing

do you regret what happened? why or why not? no

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? no

has it changed your relationship? if so how? made us pretty close and open to talk about sex and things.

[AutumnWinds]

No, No, No!!! Nothing like that. He just turned 5 and isn't thinking of me sexually or anything like that. It's just comforting for him. He often wakes up in the middle of the night and comes to my room and gets in bed with me. He puts his little arm around me and usually holds my breast until he falls back to sleep. It's just comforting to him I think. As for how it makes me feel, he's just a little guy and there's nothing, NOTHING, sexual about it. I like that he feels safe and can fall back asleep lying next to me.

whoa. sorry to assume. my bad :whoops: thank you for clarifying. :cool:

[Jordan99]

whoa. sorry to assume. my bad :whoops: thank you for clarifying. :cool:

Np :)

[ValerieXx]

Is she both your sister & your cousin, or is she just a really close cousin, or what? I'm not familiar with the term

a female first cousin

[nwtnguy]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? half brother

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? half brother

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? 16 and 14

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? no no

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? curiosity, wanting to experiment, sexual desire

was it a one time thing or ongoing? ongoing

do you regret what happened? why or why not? no

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? no

has it changed your relationship? if so how? not really

[Henri-K]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? yes my cousin

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? with my cousin. ive done hj and bj and ive received anal

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? I was 11 and he was 14

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? no

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? combination of these, bit more curiosity and help him out

was it a one time thing or ongoing? ongoing

do you regret what happened? why or why not? no, because I enjoyed it

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? no, just sexual

has it changed your relationship? if so how? it got us closer I guess

[Cadanance00]

No, nothing sexual with a relative tho my sis is incredibly hot.

[SethfromMI]

single child, even if I had siblings I would not do anything with them. never did anything with any cousins or any other relative either. just no and I would recommend against it for others as well, even though it is their choice

[Joerg93]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? yes, Sister

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what?
Masturbating in front of each other and once also each other

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they?
19 and 17

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available?
No and No

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else?
tbh it was her who initiated it the first time about half a year ago and that surprised me but I got curious. We've done it several times unregularly since then, but no special motivations, it's just no big deal at all

was it a one time thing or ongoing?
still ongoing

do you regret what happened? why or why not?
In the beginning, it was kinda weird right after it, but not really regretting at all

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this?
NO

has it changed your relationship? if so how?
We got probably closer

[Vermilion]

Never have and won't

[Hermes]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? My younger brother.

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? No.

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? Me 15 or 16, him 10 or 11 IIRC.

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? As you can see from above with masturbation, not even mutual masturbation, as the only activity I didn't really do anything "with" him and certainly I didn't see this as a "partner of last resort" situation. It was more a case that I enjoyed masturbating after school and was used to doing so, was getting fed up of having to sneak around to do that to avoid my brother finding out what I was doing (we were the only ones home for a short while after school), and thought he was getting to an age he would understand.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? As I said my primary motivation was to stop having to be secretive but the fact he was coming up to puberty was a factor in the timing and it had certainly occurred to me that he might find it useful to know what masturbation and ejaculation were ready for when he started.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? There was the first time when I basically let him walk in on me and then explained what I was doing and why. After that I no longer hid what I was doing and for a few days he watched each time and then he lost interest. That was fine by me - I'd achieved my objective of not having to hide. I would let him know when I was going to masturbate, not as some kind of big deal but much like you'd say you were just going to the park to play ball, so there would be no more surprises and most of the time he would watch TV. Sometimes he would walk in to ask me something completely unrelated and, if it was simple enough, I'd answer him. If it required too much concentration I'd have to ask him to wait and I'd answer once I'd cum and sometimes he'd stay and sometimes come back later.

At some point he must have got talking to a couple of his friends because the three of them rushed into the house one time just as I arrived home from school and asked if they could watch which I agreed to. I definitely felt like I was helping them out as they were clearly interested to see what was on the horizon for them and I think it was good to be open about it.

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No regrets. I don't think anyone was harmed. There was no pressure or coercion. My brother and his friends learned what they wanted and left it at that.

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? No.

has it changed your relationship? if so how? You can never know what the other path would have been like but no, I can't think of any obvious change.

[Cadanance00]

Well...can you imagine kissing your sister? Eww!

[Sandybeaches]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes, my cousin

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? me and my cousin masturbated each other and came on each other

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? both 14

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? just caught each other masturbating and were horny i guess

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? just curious and sexual desire i think

was it a one time thing or ongoing? one time only

do you regret what happened? why or why not? i regret it a bit cuz it felt kinda weird after, i don't think he did cuz he wanted to do more

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? no

has it changed your relationship? if so how? not as close, not spoken to him since it happened

[shamrockgirl02]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? yes, my younger & older sisters, step sister, my brother, 2 younger girl cousins, and one older boy cousin

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? yes, my younger & older sisters, step sister, my brother, 2 younger girl cousins, and one older boy cousin; just fingering each other, jerking him off, and oral

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? stuff with sisters/step sister I was 10-11, brother I was 12, girl cousins I was 11-12, and boy cousin I was 13; my sisters were 10 and 12, step sister was 11, brother was 14, girl cousins were 10 and 11, boy cousin was 14

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? the earlier instances were done somewhat due to no other available partners, but finding a partner(s) didn't lead to us stopping

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? older sister was teaching me, step sister was curiosity and teaching each other, younger sister was me teaching her, brother was curiosity and helping him, girl cousins was me teaching them and helping them out, boy cousin was curiosity and me helping him; desire was probably a factor for all in varying degrees

was it a one time thing or ongoing? ongoing

do you regret what happened? why or why not? I don't regret it, no one got emotionally hurt, it was very fun, it brought us closer, and it never became "full-on sex" or anything that could result in pregnancy

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? no

has it changed your relationship? if so how? yes, it's made us much closer

[LITTLEANGEL19]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes, Girl cousin

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? No

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? N/A

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? N/A

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? N/A

was it a one time thing or ongoing? N/A

do you regret what happened? why or why not? N/A

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? N/A

has it changed your relationship? if so how? N/A

[Trustworthy]

Single child, even if i had siblings i doubt i would experiment with them, just not my type of thing, I dont care if other people do it though, I understand their perspective on the situation.

[AutumnWinds]

has it changed your relationship? if so how? not as close, not spoken to him since it happened

i'm sorry to hear that.

:(

[Sandybeaches]

i'm sorry to hear that.

:(

it's not so bad, we've been pretty distant lately anyway but since it happened i just don't feel like i can be as good friends with him again

[AutumnWinds]

it's not so bad, we've been pretty distant lately anyway but since it happened i just don't feel like i can be as good friends with him again

that's sad though. it sucks when someone you were once close to drifts away, regardless of why.

[Cangirl]

it's not so bad, we've been pretty distant lately anyway but since it happened i just don't feel like i can be as good friends with him again

when or how long ago did it happen? You said he doesnt regret it and wants to do it again, so do you? or no and thats why youre not as close?

[Sandybeaches]

when or how long ago did it happen? You said he doesnt regret it and wants to do it again, so do you? or no and thats why youre not as close?

It happened a few months ago and he's asked me if i wanted to do it again in messages and stuff but I've just ignored him. It's just I'm confused cuz i definitely enjoyed it but i wish it wasn't my cousin i did it with ya know?

[Sean4U]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes, brothers

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? Yes, my brothers

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? I was 13 brother was 14 younger brothers when they were older

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? No, and we still enjoy being together at times

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? Originally curiosity, then enjoyment

was it a one time thing or ongoing? Ongoing

do you regret what happened? why or why not? definitely do not regret it...just fun and release

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? no romantic interest...have my own bf and so does my brother

has it changed your relationship? if so how? all of us have bonded...always close, but this actually brought us closer I believe

[Cangirl]

It happened a few months ago and he's asked me if i wanted to do it again in messages and stuff but I've just ignored him. It's just I'm confused cuz i definitely enjoyed it but i wish it wasn't my cousin i did it with ya know?

have you told him that? I just feel bad for him because he's being ignored and i know that hurts that all. if youre not into it then tell him that :) and maybe find another friend that you're comfy with.

[AutumnWinds]

have you told him that? I just feel bad for him because he's being ignored and i know that hurts that all. if youre not into it then tell him that :) and maybe find another friend that you're comfy with.

i think it's really sweet how much you empathize with people. :P i know this post is a bit off topic, but i really believe people deserve to be told when they show how beautiful they are on the inside the same way so many people call them out on how they look on the outside. :D:yes::yeah:

[Cangirl]

i think it's really sweet how much you empathize with people. :P i know this post is a bit off topic, but i really believe people deserve to be told when they show how beautiful they are on the inside the same way so many people call them out on how they look on the outside. :D:yes::yeah:


:) Awwwwww thanks! thats a really sweet thing to say :)

[Jilly]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes, my brother

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? We started off masturbating on our own, but watching each other and then we started talking about, watching porn and masturbating, fooling around. We started touching, mostly just exploring. Now, we touch a lot and help each other masturbate. Not sure how much further it will go. I'm not against oral, but I don't want to rush into anything. I think full sex is too much.

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? This is pretty recent. I'm 15. he is 13.

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? Um, well I don't have BF and right now, I don't know if that is likely to happen soon, for any number of reasons. I don't know.

If I do, I do not think I would stop with my bro. This is separate. Not sure I'd ever tell my BF, but this is just something for fun and filling urges and other stuff. I like that is more private and does not involve the complications. I do not think I'd stop.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else?

was it a one time thing or ongoing?

Started off a couple of awkward times. Now it happens often. We do it whenever we can.

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No, not at all. It's way better than masturbating by myself. I like it a lot. It has caused no problems. He likes it.

I'm really glad this happened. I think it is great.

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this?

No. It's not a romantic thing at all. Like I said, totally separate.

has it changed your relationship? if so how? At first, it was very very awkward. Now we are getting comfortable. I would say it made us closer and friendlier. My bro used to be a little annoyance. Now he feels like a freind.


Also, not to get off topic, I have a sister. She's 18. She just went to college, but it's not far and she comes home a lot, and, of course, she's home summer and winter break and stuff. I would really like to do it with her too. I've never messed around with a girl. She is really hot. It would be great if I could be open like this with her too and, yea, I do fantasize about it.

I have absolutely no idea how I could bring it up or anything. I'm afraid she would freak out. I'm pretty sure she's bi, tho.

[Falcons_11]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? Yes. Older bro and sister, 3 cousins, 1 female and 2 males.

have you ever done anything sexual with a sibling or cousin? If so, what? Yes. masturbated with them and also oral stuff.

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? First time I was 9 with older boy cousin who was 12..just masturbated each other. Later when I was 10 masturbated and did oral with older bro and sister. Bro was 14, sis was 11, almost 12. With other cousins masturbated and oral with them. I was 12, boy cousin 12 and girl cousin was 11.

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so, did you stop once other partners became available? Yes, basically, my bro and sister have gf and bf, but I still do it sometimes. Same with my cousins too.

If you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? I gues it was combination of all of these. Besides it's fun and feels good.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? It's ongoing.

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No. it great way to have fun with my bro and sister, also my cousins. We aren't hurting each other and everyone has fun.

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at some point because of this? No, not really.

has it changed your relationship? if so, how? It hasn't changed anything between all of us. Just brings us little closer together, but we still have arguments and fights from time to time.

[Sandybeaches]

have you told him that? I just feel bad for him because he's being ignored and i know that hurts that all. if youre not into it then tell him that :) and maybe find another friend that you're comfy with.

I didn't think about how it was making him feel about it, i guess maybe i should talk to him about it. Thanks.

[Emerald Dream]

Please remember that this forum is not for explicit sexual storytelling, or requests for it. If you are unsure of what isn't allowed, please review the P101 FAQ. Posts have been deleted.

[VirtualAdam]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who?
yes, in front of my brother
have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what?
we did masturbate together
if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they?
When we did it first time, I was 13, he was 11
if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else?
It started when he caught me jo and he was curious what am I doing. So I taught him everything about puberty and jacking of
was it a one time thing or ongoing?
It became ongoing, but we don't do it often
do you regret what happened? why or why not?
No I don't. It makes our relationship much closer
did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this?
no
has it changed your relationship? if so how?
It makes us closer

[SweetieGirl]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? my stepsister, 2 stepbrothers, and 2 cousins (1 boy and 1 girl)

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? yes. with the above. sex, fingering, masturbating, spooning, oral

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? when I was 10. my stepsister 15, my stepbrothers 10 and 12. started with my cousins when I was 12. boy cousin 11, girl cousin 14

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? no

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? sexual desire and curiosity first I suppose. my stepsister taught me everything.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? ongoing

do you regret what happened? why or why not? absolutely not. everyone was happy and we had a lot of fun

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? no

has it changed your relationship? if so how? we had more fun together and it brought us closer

[Jilly]

I am kind of surprised how many boys have played with their brothers. Not that it's a problem for me or anything, because I'm pretty accepting.

Would the guys who played with their brothers consider themselves gay or bisexual?

[Cangirl]

I am kind of surprised how many boys have played with their brothers. Not that it's a problem for me or anything, because I'm pretty accepting.

Would the guys who played with their brothers consider themselves gay or bisexual?

Good question but maybe just theyre experimental? :)

[Smc711]

i recently identified as bisexual, i have never done much with my brother. he is not willing
but we always talk about sex and masturbation and when we shared a room together, well stuff was over heard. we just never really did anything together

[lacey02]

I don't do anything with either of my brothers but I've seen both of them naked. My little brother sometimes sleeps with me and likes to hold my boobs for comfort as he drifts back off to sleep.

I think I would feel better about it if my brother was younger than me...

[AutumnWinds]

I think I would feel better about it if my brother was younger than me...

how old is he now? how old are you?

[deepthroat_tacos]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes, my brother

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? We started off masturbating on our own, but watching each other and then we started talking about, watching porn and masturbating, fooling around. We started touching, mostly just exploring. Now, we touch a lot and help each other masturbate. Not sure how much further it will go. I'm not against oral, but I don't want to rush into anything. I think full sex is too much.

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? This is pretty recent. I'm 15. he is 13.

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? Um, well I don't have BF and right now, I don't know if that is likely to happen soon, for any number of reasons. I don't know.

If I do, I do not think I would stop with my bro. This is separate. Not sure I'd ever tell my BF, but this is just something for fun and filling urges and other stuff. I like that is more private and does not involve the complications. I do not think I'd stop.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else?

was it a one time thing or ongoing?

Started off a couple of awkward times. Now it happens often. We do it whenever we can.

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No, not at all. It's way better than masturbating by myself. I like it a lot. It has caused no problems. He likes it.

I'm really glad this happened. I think it is great.

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this?

No. It's not a romantic thing at all. Like I said, totally separate.

has it changed your relationship? if so how? At first, it was very very awkward. Now we are getting comfortable. I would say it made us closer and friendlier. My bro used to be a little annoyance. Now he feels like a freind.


Also, not to get off topic, I have a sister. She's 18. She just went to college, but it's not far and she comes home a lot, and, of course, she's home summer and winter break and stuff. I would really like to do it with her too. I've never messed around with a girl. She is really hot. It would be great if I could be open like this with her too and, yea, I do fantasize about it.

I have absolutely no idea how I could bring it up or anything. I'm afraid she would freak out. I'm pretty sure she's bi, tho.


I have thought long and hard about sharing on this topic here as I fear people will judge me badly. For the past two months I have been doing it with him too. I have to say that I enjoy it as I know I can trust him. As we have to share a room (our family lives in tiny apartment) we can be close whenever we choose to do so.

[AutumnWinds]

I have thought long and hard about sharing on this topic here as I fear people will judge me badly. For the past two months I have been doing it with him too. I have to say that I enjoy it as I know I can trust him. As we have to share a room (our family lives in tiny apartment) we can be close whenever we choose to do so.

would you feel comfortable filling out my survey on your experiences?

[ilove747s]

Originally Posted by deepthroat_tacos View Post
I have thought long and hard about sharing on this topic here as I fear people will judge me badly. For the past two months I have been doing it with him too. I have to say that I enjoy it as I know I can trust him. As we have to share a room (our family lives in tiny apartment) we can be close whenever we choose to do so.

The beauty of VT is that you can express yourself here without people being judgmental. If you jump around the threads you will see you're more than likely not alone in your experiences. Feel free to share your experiences, and question/answer others as a learning enviroment. I personally think its great you can be so close to your sibling, and to be able to experience/experiment whenever you feel the need. Enjoy yourself!

[AutumnWinds]

Originally Posted by deepthroat_tacos View Post
I have thought long and hard about sharing on this topic here as I fear people will judge me badly. For the past two months I have been doing it with him too. I have to say that I enjoy it as I know I can trust him. As we have to share a room (our family lives in tiny apartment) we can be close whenever we choose to do so.

The beauty of VT is that you can express yourself here without people being judgmental. If you jump around the threads you will see you're more than likely not alone in your experiences. Feel free to share your experiences, and question/answer others as a learning enviroment. I personally think its great you can be so close to your sibling, and to be able to experience/experiment whenever you feel the need. Enjoy yourself!

i feel similarly. on nice thing about any online forum is anonymity. you can say what you want and no matter what people think, you don't have to worry about them knowing it was you, if that makes any sense. i mean for example, i made this survey because it's something i've anyways wondered about, but i would never be brave enough to ask people about it in person.

[CutieHoney]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes, my sister and female cousin

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? Yes - almost everything

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? Sister started when I was 11, stopped when I was 13. Cousin started around the same time - still do it sometimes.

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? We did it because it was/ is fun.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? combination of all at the beginning - sexual desire by now.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? Sister lastet around 2 years. Cousin 7 years and going.

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? No

has it changed your relationship? if so how? I get along well with both of them. No problems there.

[AutumnWinds]

do you think it's made you any closer to your sis and cousin?

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes, my sister and female cousin

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? Yes - almost everything

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? Sister started when I was 11, stopped when I was 13. Cousin started around the same time - still do it sometimes.

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? We did it because it was/ is fun.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? combination of all at the beginning - sexual desire by now.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? Sister lastet around 2 years. Cousin 7 years and going.

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? No

has it changed your relationship? if so how? I get along well with both of them. No problems there.

[Maria16 Here]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes, my sister and brother and a couple cousins

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? Yes we do a lot

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? I was about 12 with sister and brother. Cousins started a little later. Sis and brother were older, cousins younger a little

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? Sister and brother were already doing stuff and let me join.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? A little of all at first and was just curious.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? Still ongoing.

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? Of course I love them as family

has it changed your relationship? if so how? No problems

[AutumnWinds]

hey, thanks for taking my survey ;)

do you mind if i ask how old your siblings were at the time? you started?

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes, my sister and brother and a couple cousins

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? Yes we do a lot

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? I was about 12 with sister and brother. Cousins started a little later. Sis and brother were older, cousins younger a little

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? Sister and brother were already doing stuff and let me join.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? A little of all at first and was just curious.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? Still ongoing.

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? Of course I love them as family

has it changed your relationship? if so how? No problems

[Maria16 Here]

hey, thanks for taking my survey ;)

do you mind if i ask how old your siblings were at the time? you started?

They were a few years older than me.

[tulolita2015]

have you ever masturbated in front of a sibling or cousin? if so who? Yes a female cousin.

have you ever done something sexual with a sibling or cousin? if so who and what? Yes oral with a male cousin.

if you did something, how old were you when it happened? how old were they? I was 11 he was 16.

if you did something, did you do it because no one else was available to you at the time? if so did you stop once other partners became available? Did it because he caught me watching him masturbate so he asked me to help and I was super curious and horny at that age.

if you did something, what were your motivations? was it sexual desire, or curiosity/to learn, or just to help them out, some combination of these or something else? He asked me and told me stuff and I was curious ignorant and horny.

was it a one time thing or ongoing? Occasional

do you regret what happened? why or why not? No i learned a lot and he never hurt me.

did you have romantic feelings for them or develop them at any point because of this? No

has it changed your relationship? if so how? Yes it made us closer.

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This is a puberty forum, not a place to talk of incestuous stories. This survey has the potential to go way too far and likely has been. :locked: