In love with somebody I can't be

[curveball1510]

Okay so I'm going to assume this is a new question for all users. The girl I'm in love with is lesbian. We dated for a year and became best friends. She is the person that I'm closest to and I can't imagine my life without her. We broke up before summer and she then dated one more guy for a week then broke up with him. Now she is dating a girl. Like I said, were best friends and she's been telling me the whole story and what's going on. She seems to forget that she was the one I was indebted to for over a year. How do I tell her that I still love her? Because I think we're meant to be together

[Emerald Dream]

Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating

This is probably better suited here. :)

[PaleBoy]

If she´s in a relationship already, i don´t think you should tell her about it at all...it may confuse her or put her in a difficult position. It might even jeopardise your relationship as a friend with her!

[Elysium]

Also, if she's identified herself as lesbian, maintaining this stubborn notion of "supposed to be together" is disrespectful.

[Hudor]

Give her some time. She might still be figuring out her sexuality and confused about it. Don't tell her about your feelings right now because she's identified as lesbian and is in a relationship and this would only jeopardize your friendship.

[StoppingTom]

Love exists in more ways than just "I want to be with/married to/whatever with this person". It would be insensitive of you to tell her that you two should "be together" if she just flat is not interested in guys, but it is pretty apparent you really care about this person and hold them in a high regard. You can definitely still love her (a lot) as a friend, and if it means that much that you need to tell her, you can say that.

[RightInTheGoonie]

Maybe she's bi

Couldn't have said it any better

-merged double post. -Emerald Dream

[Unlucky]

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[Zachary G]

if she has identified as lesbian then you have to respect that; if she is like your best friend, then you should be able to talk to her about anything and everything like she does with you and tell her your feelings so she will at least know where you stand.

[Thatcooldude]

Its like everyone else has said, if her sexuality is set as lesbian, then you gotta let go bro.