im so depressed :(

[Nick M]

I have felt lonely for years because I have no real life friends and every person I meet doesn't like me for some reason so I gave up trying to meet friends. I am 17 and never had a girlfriend(im bi and never had a bf either) and the lonliness is just so real. It eats me alive all day long. My family doesn't care either cuz they hate my mom. I am so depressed and lonely that I just wanna go kill myself and get it over with because I get no joy out of my life. If there is anyone like me, how do u get through the pain?
I really just had to say this out loud(well not literally but you know what i mean) and hopefully some of you will have some suggestions of how I can feel better and not be constantly feeling pain.
thanks for reading if you read the whole post. Bye.

[Abhorrence]

I feel pretty lonely most of the time, too. I mainly just drown out my lack of social life with music and reading. Since, I have no fun to be attending I do try to keep my brain working. Also, I kind of spend most of my time on here. There are some good people on here that you can end up forming good friendships with. I know that Internet friendships never truly fight the loneliness, they do help slightly.

[wolf g]

I have felt lonely for years because I have no real life friends and every person I meet doesn't like me for some reason so I gave up trying to meet friends. I am 17 and never had a girlfriend(im bi and never had a bf either) and the lonliness is just so real. It eats me alive all day long. My family doesn't care either cuz they hate my mom. I am so depressed and lonely that I just wanna go kill myself and get it over with because I get no joy out of my life. If there is anyone like me, how do u get through the pain?
I really just had to say this out loud(well not literally but you know what i mean) and hopefully some of you will have some suggestions of how I can feel better and not be constantly feeling pain.
thanks for reading if you read the whole post. Bye.

some times person feel lonely but we don't have to gevin up just because we don't have real friends that make us be stupid
me i don't have real friends but i don't care if they don't want to be my friends it's their problem not mien
as advice don't worry maybe its good if you don't have friends

[CupcakeLuv101]

First of all, know that you're not alone in this situation. There are many people who are experiencing the same problems and find it extremely hard to make friends.

I myself, have bad social anxiety so it is very difficult for me to meet new people and talk to them. I always find that my friendships only last for about a day and then the next day we don't even talk at all because im always waiting people to come to me because it is so hard for me to approach others even though everyone always says im like the nicest person in the world, which I guess is true im really friendly towards everyone I meet and im always very open to making new friends but i guess i dont really put myself out there enough because thats when the anxiey sets in and i kinda "turn people off" if you know what i mean lol.

As for your situation, try to figure out the main reason why people dont like you. Personally, i dont think the reason why people ignore you is because they dont like you. You probably just have the same problem with me which is not being open enough and waiting for other people to approach you. Maybe its because they already have their own best friends and won't pay attention to you as much. I understand your pain, it feels like the whole world hates you but there's always people out there who care :) I wouldn't let this affect my life because if you think about it, high school and college are only a small portion of your life. You will be done with school soon so focus on your studies so you can get into a good college or university and find a good job. And also, if people don't like you for who you are then they are obviously not worth it. Find people who appreciate you for who you are and forget about the ones that bring you down. If you're having trouble finding friends at school, you can always make friends online such as on here :) As for finding a girlfriend/boyfriend like I said if people dont accept you then their not worth it and simply forget about them. There are billions of people in this world and you have probably dated less than 0.000001% of the population. Keep finding "the one" because he or she is defenitely somewhere out there im sure of it!

Also lastly, please dont do anything harmful to yourself (suicide, cuttingm etc) we all have a life to live and like I said dont let the negatives affect your life. You may not realize how big this world is and I 100000% guarentee that there are many out there who actually care. This may be a difficult path in your life but I promise you that you will make it throuh this :)

[Nick M]

First of all, know that you're not alone in this situation. There are many people who are experiencing the same problems and find it extremely hard to make friends.

I myself, have bad social anxiety so it is very difficult for me to meet new people and talk to them. I always find that my friendships only last for about a day and then the next day we don't even talk at all because im always waiting people to come to me because it is so hard for me to approach others even though everyone always says im like the nicest person in the world, which I guess is true im really friendly towards everyone I meet and im always very open to making new friends but i guess i dont really put myself out there enough because thats when the anxiey sets in and i kinda "turn people off" if you know what i mean lol.

As for your situation, try to figure out the main reason why people dont like you. Personally, i dont think the reason why people ignore you is because they dont like you. You probably just have the same problem with me which is not being open enough and waiting for other people to approach you. Maybe its because they already have their own best friends and won't pay attention to you as much. I understand your pain, it feels like the whole world hates you but there's always people out there who care :) I wouldn't let this affect my life because if you think about it, high school and college are only a small portion of your life. You will be done with school soon so focus on your studies so you can get into a good college or university and find a good job. And also, if people don't like you for who you are then they are obviously not worth it. Find people who appreciate you for who you are and forget about the ones that bring you down. If you're having trouble finding friends at school, you can always make friends online such as on here :) As for finding a girlfriend/boyfriend like I said if people dont accept you then their not worth it and simply forget about them. There are billions of people in this world and you have probably dated less than 0.000001% of the population. Keep finding "the one" because he or she is defenitely somewhere out there im sure of it!

Also lastly, please dont do anything harmful to yourself (suicide, cuttingm etc) we all have a life to live and like I said dont let the negatives affect your life. You may not realize how big this world is and I 100000% guarentee that there are many out there who actually care. This may be a difficult path in your life but I promise you that you will make it throuh this :)

Thank you :) You're right.

[Steve Jobs]

I've been there, and I really do empathize!

You're not alone in that. Human relationships are so complex and many times I find myself alone too - in the fact that I find myself so disconnected from the people I'm surrounded with.

Try and find hobbies you love doing - a sport or art perhaps, and invest your whole life into doing something you enjoy the most. What's the point of life otherwise?

I did that my whole time in high school, and it was tough - my grades fell, my relationship with my family and many friends deteriorated but in that time I also found myself, what makes me happy, and met the people who continue to make my life worth living :)