I really don't like my new highschool.

[berny22]

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[Uniquemind]

If you can get a job that brings you into more social contact hopefully with more mature people you can hang with during free time.

I wouldn't judge people though for the hobbies they like though. There's no direct link between hobbies and maturity.

[wolf g]

don't worry you'll be alright

[berny22]

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[seoulsuho]

Believe it or not, they probably think you're a bit strange for some of the things you like. People have likes and dislikes. Maybe if you tried to get to know them you'd see them as more than obsessed freaks. I, personally, am seen as a bit of a weirdo in my school because I like anime and rock bands, but that doesn't affect my level of maturity. If you talked to them, you might stop judging people as much. Chances are, they're judging you, too. (Sorry if this comes off a little rude- In my first two years of high school, I swapped friendship groups a lot and now I'm very open about people's interests.)

[Uniquemind]

It's not like it its their hobbies. They are literally obsessed with it. It is really weird. Yeah I kinda do judge people a lot. I mean we all do, but we never tell them what we think about them because it would be simply rude. I mean I can't stop my brain from thinking and judging neither do I want to. I really don't have time for a job when I go to school. When I come from school I eat, I sleep, I study a bit, and if I have any spare time I go for a walk with my friend or play football :)

I never go drinking, partying, dancing or anything similar because I personally can't enjoy it, believe me I tried, and most guys who go drinking or partying in my society are douches.

I kind of understand what you mean but I do disagree you can't train your brain from thinking and judging. I've changed mine, and I'm a lot more easy going now and I tier my social circle into different levels of closeness in relation to myself.

That way I can appear friendly to anybody and learn from people by small generally social experiences, but also remain distant relative to my safety and interests.

I also see the world a little differently for reasons I've explained in other posts here. But let's just say I read a lot and I find the adult world more interesting than the mundane issues of teenage problems of relationships and sex.

There's a certain "youthful arrogance and childishness" that if I see in other people my age I'm not going to bond with them well.

I assume the problem is similar to you? You feel out of place, maybe a bit out of time

I would suggest joining a school band or the debate team if you have one. You tend to find comrades when passions for success are shared.


As for those mentioned earlier about the hentai...that's weird and screams sexual and romantic disfunctionality and potentially misogyny...

[PaleBoy]

Try and approach people from other classes; there´s no other way but to increase the number of people you know to find someone you are really comfortable with.