dad has pics on phone

[writer1232]

I was looking through my dads photo library on his phone for pictures of my cat, but instead stumbled upon two pictures of women (models) in underwear. (screenshots taken at 6am) my dad is married to my mom. he isn't creepy or anything he is a great man and he is very moral / Christian. I am just wondering if I should be worried about this or if it is normal?

bckground info: I don't think he and my mom are sexually active, which seems normal as my mom has long since passed menopause and both are approximately 60yr old. they do not really kiss at all or anything like that either, but I think they still love each other. nothing has ever come up about divorce / that would make me think a divorce was impending.

[jessie3]

I don't see anything wrong with your dad having pictures of semi-nude models in his phone (Even though it does sound creepy and weird). As long as he isn't cheating, i don't think you should be worried.

[Uniquemind]

You just discovered your dad's a guy.

Seems normal enough, it's just you gotta reconcile the fact that nice responsible straight or bi men (Christian or not), are visual creatures when it comes to women.

[Laura101]

From the time boys first start to notice girls until they are old men and grandpa's, they will always be attracted to young, beautiful girls. They are biologically hard-wired that way and it is not only normal but totally natural. My own dad notices and appreciates my girlfriends when they come over and that only makes him a normal, red-blooded male with normal reactions to visual beauty. That doesn't make him a pervert or a dirty old man and he doesn't hit on my friends. Even my mom teases him when we are in our swimsuits in the pool or running around in our panties and tank tops during sleepovers. My dad is NEVER inappropriate with my GF's and I'd say as long as your dad is only looking at pretty girls, he is totally normal too.

[Vermilion]

From the time boys first start to notice girls until they are old men and grandpa's, they will always be attracted to young, beautiful girls. They are biologically hard-wired that way and it is not only normal but totally natural. My own dad notices and appreciates my girlfriends when they come over and that only makes him a normal, red-blooded male with normal reactions to visual beauty. That doesn't make him a pervert or a dirty old man and he doesn't hit on my friends. Even my mom teases him when we are in our swimsuits in the pool or running around in our panties and tank tops during sleepovers. My dad is NEVER inappropriate with my GF's and I'd say as long as your dad is only looking at pretty girls, he is totally normal too.

First part isn't true if your Gay.

[drhalsey1]

It could be pretty much true, except liking boys instead of girls obviously

[Laura101]

It could be pretty much true, except liking boys instead of girls obviously

First part isn't true if your Gay.

I stand corrected :) OK, well straight guys are born hard-wired to be attracted to young, beautiful girls and women :) Thanks, guys

[drhalsey1]

No prob Laura101

[Vermilion]

I stand corrected :) OK, well straight guys are born hard-wired to be attracted to young, beautiful girls and women :) Thanks, guys

Np :) and I was pulling your leg I just wanted to be a dick

[Abhorrence]

This is absolutely fine, this isn't creepy in anyway whatsoever. It's not as if you just found his collection of hardcore fetish porn, it's two underwear models? Don't worry about it, it's his phone after all and what's on it should be of no concern to you.

[Babs]

Stay the hell outta other people's phones, for your sake brah. You're not gonna like what you see.

That shit ain't your business, so leave it alone. Everybody gets horny. Can you blame the man? Just... Eyes on your own paper. Mind your own business.

[Hannah98]

Stay off your dad's phone. Yes, it is totally normal for guys to like to look at pretty girls. Men are visual creatures. Your dad is normal.

[Daniella98]

Perfectly normal and not even creepy. Completely understandable if hes is not sexually active with your mom.

[ClaireM]

Your dad is a good guy, there are a lot worse things you might have found if he wasn't. And as Hanna says stay off his phone.

[Grey]

I think it is important to maybe stay off of things that aren't yours. Your intentions were fair enough but when you go onto other people's phones there is always going to be some pictures or apps or notes that will surprise you. But no matter how surprised or creeped out you are, you have no business questioning it unless it is a violation of your country's laws. People have secrets, it's human nature.

[AutumnWinds]

I was looking through my dads photo library on his phone for pictures of my cat, but instead stumbled upon two pictures of women (models) in underwear. (screenshots taken at 6am) my dad is married to my mom. he isn't creepy or anything he is a great man and he is very moral / Christian. I am just wondering if I should be worried about this or if it is normal?

bckground info: I don't think he and my mom are sexually active, which seems normal as my mom has long since passed menopause and both are approximately 60yr old. they do not really kiss at all or anything like that either, but I think they still love each other. nothing has ever come up about divorce / that would make me think a divorce was impending.

honestly, i wonder if he was taking shots of underwear he might want your mom in. i've done that for myself before and had someone else do the same for me

[SethfromMI]

just let it go man, it is not a big deal

[mikielikesit]

he is a guy , almost all guys have those things, there nothing wrong with it

[jennyem]

it's totally normal...he's your dad but hes also just a guy! its not creepy or anything

[tonymontana99]

I was looking through my dads photo library on his phone for pictures of my cat, but instead stumbled upon two pictures of women (models) in underwear. (screenshots taken at 6am) my dad is married to my mom. he isn't creepy or anything he is a great man and he is very moral / Christian. I am just wondering if I should be worried about this or if it is normal?

bckground info: I don't think he and my mom are sexually active, which seems normal as my mom has long since passed menopause and both are approximately 60yr old. they do not really kiss at all or anything like that either, but I think they still love each other. nothing has ever come up about divorce / that would make me think a divorce was impending.

So what? It's the typical case of "wife doesn't satisfy husband anymore, husband tries something else". Be glad they're only pictures.

[Henri-K]

I think it's not a big deal. He's your dad and he's a normal man. It's not creepy or anything. I know my mum does a lot of kinky stuff. But she's still my mum. She care about me and I love her.

[kayla...]

Maybe he had the photos to show your mom the underwear as idea to get her? Don't assume anything bad