Washing anus

[Sam-9876]

I was chatting to someone on kik yesterday and they said that if you're going to have anal sex with a guy or a girl then the 'bottom' has to wash their anus out first.

He said he gets a bottle of water and puts the end in his bum, squeezes it to force the water up there, then had a massive runny poo after.

Is this for real? How do you ask someone to go and do that if you're in the heat of the moment?

[thegreatgatz]

If you don't know what an enema is you probably aren't ready to have sex...

[Sam-9876]

If you don't know what an enema is you probably aren't ready to have sex...


Obviously not as I've never been with a guy before.

Why don't you enlighten me instead of making smartarse comments?

[Riley2015]

An enema is where the bottom fills their rectum with fluids in order to expel all fecal matter. The purpose of this is to avoid things becoming ''messy'' during sex

[Zachary G]

Yes its for real that people who like to be on the receiving end of anal sex often "was themselves out" before hand, its the proper thing to do as to avoid any kind of "mess". Its proper hygiene and its also good for you whether you are a guy or a girl.

[SethfromMI]

the bottom should absolutely clean that area before engaging in sex

[chetbonare]

It is true, whether you're about to have anal sex, or just a simple prostate massage; you must likely want to 'wash out' your bottom. This can be done with the proper tools, or a simple removable shower head will do.

Riley2015 explained the term enema correctly.

Ever heard of a "booger snatcher" your mom used when you were a baby? Google it and you can see images. Some people use that to put water into their anus without pain.
And no, it doesn't come out like diarrhea, unless of course there is diarrhea in there. It actually just helps push the solid waste (normally small chunks) out.
Hope this helped without getting too graphical :)

[Sam-9876]

Any of you actually speaking from experience here?

[lliam]

not me.

but i googled once anal shower or so, cause if a thread with a similar topic. the first impression was it seemed to me to be fetish or so. ... until I learned something on a medical web site about the reasons why someone should doing it.

But to be honest, all that has attuned me more to: never having anal sex.

[Harrier]

I had to have an enema before the hospital could release me once. Wasn't fun. Didn't plan on ever having butt sex before. The enema didn't change that.

[chetbonare]

Any of you actually speaking from experience here?

*Raises hand* Yup. I've given myself a handful (no pun intended) of prostate massages. Which means I've cleaned myself out down there multiple times.

Mostly testing theories I've had to increase precum and cum amounts. So yeah, I know what I'm talking about haha! :P

Feel free to ask me more though if you're genuinely interested in finding some answeres and advice

[Bluebyrd]

That seems like a strange method of doing it but you should definitely clean it before engaging in anal sex.

[brightlight]

I heard the same thing about cleaning you anus if you have sex but who knows the right way how to clean it

[Zerg]

Wash the area, and understand that poops happens

[Andre 99]

I've never done it to myself, but have watched both aguy and a girl, give themself an enema.