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thatgothgirluknow
August 19th, 2015, 04:35 AM
so i went to one of my friends bday parties and to my surprise when i got their i realized that there was 2 boys there which isn't unusual in itself but everyone was supposed to spend the night and her grandparent's left us unsupervised i mean they where right next door but still they where leaving us in the house alone with 7 people in total 2 of which where boys and her parent's aren't the type to leave their kid with a boy in the house alone overnight which confused me but soon after i remembered that one of them was a trans i met a few times in school meaning he was actually a she (mat) which made more sense to me but the other one still didn't and i had never met him(jake) although i had met everyone else i didn't know anyone of them well but still i was intrigued with this person who i had never met before i soon realized that i even kind of liked him all night me and my friends had a blast from the moment the party started everyone of us got to know each other better playing games where we guessed who would do what and laughed at funny answers and questions that where never revealed the whole time me and jake seemed to have the most asking each other and even spent an hour just talking together about midnight i overheard him and a couple people including mat talking i heard the of the girls ask him and mat how she they bind their boobs safely mat they replied the safest way is to use what they call a binder but i just use sports bra's big surprise i now realized that jake was in fact a girl now most straight people would be like maybe i don't like them but not me i just started to ask him questins like was your family excepting and hw ld where u when you realized that u wanted to be a boy and soon we where even closer i now know that this once mysterious boys name was actually jade and as we talked i found that we had more in common than we thought and i fell more in love with this person we talked for more than an hour about everything and anything smiling like we had known each other forever the point of this story isn't to say hey maybe i like girls but rather to say no i do not like girls jake is not a girl he doesn't view himself as one and therefore i don't either that doesn't mean he's a freak or even a trans in my view but rather he's just a normal boy and that's how i feel when im around him i have never had feelings like this torwards a girl but i don't think knowing before hand would have changed anyting truthfully

Sasha M
August 19th, 2015, 08:15 AM
Do you like him because of his male features or his female features or neither? If it's neither, what gender do you say this person is to you? If you find this person as a guy, you might still be straight, if you find this person as a girl (even though he identifies as a guy), you might be bi or curious.
Finally, regardless of the above. If you think about such things and think you might be bi, and you realize your actually attracted to other biologically female persons, then your bi! Congrats!
Also, if your attracted to this "girl" (biologically female), but not other girls, its fine to be attracted to just one "girl", doesn't make you bi.
Hope this helps? XD

thatgothgirluknow
August 19th, 2015, 11:19 AM
Do you like him because of his male features or his female features or neither? If it's neither, what gender do you say this person is to you? If you find this person as a guy, you might still be straight, if you find this person as a girl (even though he identifies as a guy), you might be bi or curious.
Finally, regardless of the above. If you think about such things and think you might be bi, and you realize your actually attracted to other biologically female persons, then your bi! Congrats!
Also, if your attracted to this "girl" (biologically female), but not other girls, its fine to be attracted to just one "girl", doesn't make you bi.
Hope this helps? XD

thx but i don't believe i am Bi the point of the post was mainly to show that i believe he is a by to me

DoodleSnap
August 20th, 2015, 10:32 AM
Yeah, trans boys are boys too. Loving one doesn't mean you have to change your labels, or feel confined by what you identify with. So many people freak out over what they identify with, when just letting themselves love who they love, regardless of gender, would make their life so much easier. Sexuality, being so confusing, doesn't get labeled and understood over night. Many people are somewhere in between on the spectrum of sexuality, but don't express it that way because a label has bad connotations. Instead, screw the labels, and just enjoy being you. Love who you love, and go for Jake if you want to. If you love someone, little things like gender just don't seem to matter anymore.