Danny Phantom
August 18th, 2015, 01:36 AM
So, I came into college with a group of friends that I made over the summer. Everything was good for a month or two, but everyone kind of got tired with me. I make a lot of jokes (that kind of seem mean sometimes apparently), I can be negative sometimes (my life isn't great, by any means), and I don't really keep my opinion to myself. I've had many fights with a few people in this group. The most common thing is that I'm mean and negative. Recently I had a big fight with one girl in the group that became close friends with a girl who was kicked out of our group. The girl removed me immediately and so did this other guy who believes that everyone should always be friendly. This not only happens in this group, but is a common occurrence in all my friend groups (except for my VT friends). I'm really tired of people calling me mean, tired of being involved in all the conflict, tired of losing friends. Usually with situations like this, I avoid everyone for a long time. This semester I'm going to be working 2 jobs and doing a full course load and I don't want to avoid everyone because I'll get depressed. How should I go across changing myself so people will have less issues with me? I don't want to lose all my friends and hit rock bottom but I don't know how to change without avoiding everyone.