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xGodsMinionx
April 17th, 2008, 04:30 PM
so monday my girlfriend dumped me and ive been really upset over it and have considered cutting again, ive been cutt free for like 4 months...

but like the night she dumped me i was really depressed and some friends turned me in to the counclers at school and they called my mom and she set up an appointment to go to talk to a shrink and im pretty scared to go

becuz i dont like talking to people i dont know for 1.

and i know everythings gonna get lapsed over to them and i dont want them knowing stuff about my life... my parents never tried to help me before or be a part of my life emotionally and im not about to let them in now...

what do i do??

thesphinx
April 17th, 2008, 05:02 PM
Sorry about your Girlfriend, Please don't cut, girls will come and go its a fact of life.
What do you have to lose? Just open up to the counselor who knows it might help, as for your parents maybe you should give them a chance.

Rutherford The Brave
April 17th, 2008, 05:50 PM
Check my list of things to do please and don't cut Relationships come and go only about 1.2% of high school couples actually get married so there are plenty of fish out there!

xGodsMinionx
April 17th, 2008, 08:48 PM
Check my list of things to do please and don't cut Relationships come and go only about 1.2% of high school couples actually get married so there are plenty of fish out there!


yeah but who wants to date a fish...


*sigh* idk

she just kicked me out of her life completely...

becuz her friends dont like me

turns out thats why she dumped me...

not becuz she didnt want a bf..

gahhhhhhhhhh

and to the person who posted the one about giving my parents a chance

haha yeah

fuck them, they wouldnt understand, my brother was a perfect child... impossible to match up to him

NextToNormal
April 17th, 2008, 09:10 PM
about the counselor...give it a chance. talking to an unbiased third party could be a good thing. they are just there for you to talk to. you just have to be comfortable knowing that the person is only there to help you.

and about your parents...they arent always going to understand whats wrong unless you talk to them and tell them whats going on. parents do want to help sometimes...you just have to let them in to help. every teenager thinks that their parents wont understand and most of the time, we are right. but the rest of the time, parents do get it. we just have to open up.