What do I do?

[TimDHart]

So my 6 year old younger brother woke me up asking what was happening I come over to his bed and he has semen all over his body he also was saying his penis was hurting he kept asking what it was also. he is too embarrassed to talk to our parents and frankly I have no idea what to do/say. What do I say/do? also Isn't he too young for them also?

[Sam-9876]

He's six years younger than you, or he's six years old?

[TimDHart]

He's six years younger than you, or he's six years old?
6 years old

[Yggdrasil]

6 years old

Umm, it is not that age to start growing up...Puberty usually starts at 13+.

[Turtl3]

yeah that does sound way too young, nonetheless just talk to him and explain it

[the darkness]

Umm, it is not that age to start growing up...Puberty usually starts at 13+.

Can be a lot younger, personally I was 11 but I know some people can be 9/10.

6 might be a bit young

[Poontang King117]

I started puberty at age 10. 6 is unheard of...

[Georgysmith]

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[Zachary G]

wow!! 6? I dont even know how to respond to that because its pretty uncommon that I know of. You could always have THE TALK with him, if you think he will understand it, other than that, Id have to talk with dad about it.

[Vermilion]

So my 6 year old younger brother woke me up asking what was happening I come over to his bed and he has semen all over his body he also was saying his penis was hurting he kept asking what it was also. he is too embarrassed to talk to our parents and frankly I have no idea what to do/say. What do I say/do? also Isn't he too young for them also?

Talk to your parents it might be a medical thing

[TimDHart]

Talk to your parents it might be a medical thing
Well I talked to my parents and they don't believe me about it

[Vermilion]

Well I talked to my parents and they don't believe me about it

It's only happened once ?

[ashdaniel]

that is something I hear for the first time. Six years old cant produce semen. The youngest I know it will like 9 or 10 years old. 6 years old shouldnt produce any semen at all.

[TimDHart]

It's only happened once ?
Yes only once

[TimDHart]

that is something I hear for the first time. Six years old cant produce semen. The youngest I know it will like 9 or 10 years old. 6 years old shouldnt produce any semen at all.
Thats what I though until now

[nklarke]

How do you know it was semen?

[Hermes]

if he is producing semen then it would be good to explain to him about puberty and all that entails including semen and various ways of ejaculating including wet dreams, masturbation etc.

if he really is six years old, not six years younger than you then it may be wise for him to see the doctor for something called precocious puberty.

[bbwolf26]

Agree with Hermes. Hopefully your parents will take your bro to the doctor. Could be hormone problems that cause puberty to start too early, which can lead to other problems in health.

[Vermilion]

Yes only once

If it happens again call your parents in to the room

[TimDHart]

If it happens again call your parents in to the room
How often do they even happen I have never had one yet since I havn't started yet

[Vermilion]

How often do they even happen I have never had one yet since I havn't started yet

It depends. Sometimes once a wee other times once a month

[Cloud_Strife]

I started puberty at age 10. 6 is unheard of...

It certainly isn't unheard of. While most people in the population experience puberty from around 12-13 onwards, it can certainly occur later or earlier. This range is just meant to be a rough guide, in terms of a bell curve to try and cover the majority of the population. There will always be outliers.

In the cases of early onset of puberty, it is also known as precocious puberty.

In fact, there are some documented cases of biological mothers, before they reached adolescence. You can find some examples here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_youngest_birth_mothers

Another recent famous case was of the boy called Sean Bedford, who became a father before 13 as well.

So my 6 year old younger brother woke me up asking what was happening I come over to his bed and he has semen all over his body he also was saying his penis was hurting he kept asking what it was also. he is too embarrassed to talk to our parents and frankly I have no idea what to do/say. What do I say/do? also Isn't he too young for them also?

So as to what should be done? If it really was semen, then you should tell your parents in the first instance and then he should probably then seen by your family doctor. The appropriate thing will then follow on from that.

Hope that helps!

[vboy]

I would go to ur folks about this one m8

[TimDHart]

Agree with Hermes. Hopefully your parents will take your bro to the doctor. Could be hormone problems that cause puberty to start too early, which can lead to other problems in health.
Yea my parents think im joking or somthing

[Vermilion]

All you can do is tell the truth like you have.

[Bluebyrd]

Six is extremely young to start puberty and honestly it might not be semen. I'd tell your dad exactly what happened because then the weight is lifted off your shoulders.

[TimDHart]

I wish I was old enough to take him my self but im not so yea

[Jaseblader]

So my 6 year old younger brother woke me up asking what was happening I come over to his bed and he has semen all over his body he also was saying his penis was hurting he kept asking what it was also. he is too embarrassed to talk to our parents and frankly I have no idea what to do/say. What do I say/do? also Isn't he too young for them also?
To me it sounds like he peed on himself

[TimDHart]

To me it sounds like he peed on himself
It was not I have seen cum alot

[TimDHart]

Well I tried showing my parents it today because it happened again and they think it is mine what do they think I havn't even started puberty yet

[TimDHart]

I have deiced to talk to my brother about puberty etc any ideas what to say?

[Second Chance]

I have deiced to talk to my brother about puberty etc any ideas what to say?

For a six year old it is going to be really tough to talk about puberty. I would keep things super simple and explain to him that penises produce two types of fluid which is normal for guys. I would not go into detail about masturbation, sex, or those kinds of things. For the time being when he makes a mess you should tell him that he can go to you to help clean him up.

I can understand why your parents think this situation is not for real, but there is definitely a problem if a six year old is producing semen. It can happen, but it is rare and is usually a sign of someone starting puberty too son. The last thing you want is someone with a child's mind having an adult sex drive which is why you have to convince your parents there is something going on. It might take waking up your parents at night to show them what happened because your brother has to see a doctor especially if he needs something to stop puberty until he is something like 11/12.

[TimDHart]

For a six year old it is going to be really tough to talk about puberty. I would keep things super simple and explain to him that penises produce two types of fluid which is normal for guys. I would not go into detail about masturbation, sex, or those kinds of things. For the time being when he makes a mess you should tell him that he can go to you to help clean him up.

I can understand why your parents think this situation is not for real, but there is definitely a problem if a six year old is producing semen. It can happen, but it is rare and is usually a sign of someone starting puberty too son. The last thing you want is someone with a child's mind having an adult sex drive which is why you have to convince your parents there is something going on. It might take waking up your parents at night to show them what happened because your brother has to see a doctor especially if he needs something to stop puberty until he is something like 11/12.

Yea as I said in a last message I said I already tried waking my parents up about it and showing them it before my brother and I cleaned it up but they got pissed off at me and said it was mine idk how it could I havn't started yet as for talking to my brother I did a little but idk he is still unnerved about it and also asking alot of questions specifically how to stop it from happening

[Vermilion]

Yea as I said in a last message I said I already tried waking my parents up about it and showing them it before my brother and I cleaned it up but they got pissed off at me and said it was mine idk how it could I havn't started yet as for talking to my brother I did a little but idk he is still unnerved about it and also asking alot of questions specifically how to stop it from happening

Did you tell your parents you haven't started ?

[TimDHart]

Did you tell your parents you haven't started ?
Yes they don't believe me what am I supposed to do to prove to them that I don't :what:

[Vermilion]

Yes they don't believe me what am I supposed to do to prove to them that I don't :what:

Well I can only think of one thing but it would be awkward as hell. Has it happened again to him ?

[TimDHart]

Well I can only think of one thing but it would be awkward as hell. Has it happened again to him ?
Yea like less then 10 mins ago or so thats why im on

[Vermilion]

Yea like less then 10 mins ago or so thats why im on

Will your brother say it's him ? If so get him to tell

[TimDHart]

Will your brother say it's him ? If so get him to tell
He already has twice and our parents are almost angry it looks at for both of us and my brother is starting to think somthing is wrong with him now (even thoe there is) but still my parents are doing nothing about it and just yelling at us which is making it worse even after I told him about wet dreams and cuming that kind of stuff

[Vermilion]

He already has twice and our parents are almost angry it looks at for both of us and my brother is starting to think somthing is wrong with him now (even thoe there is but still my parents are doing nothing about it and just yelling at us which is making it worse) even after I told him about wet dreams and cuming that kind of stuff

You back at school ? If so can you ask a school nurse ? And he's to young to understand what's happening. If he's having wet dreams I guess he can shoot. I would say get him to show but that's kinda awkward.

[TimDHart]

You back at school ? If so can you ask a school nurse ? And he's to young to understand what's happening. If he's having wet dreams I guess he can shoot. I would say get him to show but that's kinda awkward.
No we are not in school yet I feel like my parents would just yell at us more and would probably scare him thats if we even considered it plus thats kinda weird also he's already at the edge for showing my parents what has been happening.

[Vermilion]

No we are not in school yet I feel like my parents would just yell at us more and would probably scare him thats if we even considered it plus thats kinda weird also he's already at the edge for showing my parents what has been happening.

Do you have a older sibling ?

[TimDHart]

Do you have a older sibling ?
No I don't why

[Vermilion]

No I don't why


If you did I would say get them to take him to the Dr. What's your age ? Like 13

[TimDHart]

If you did I would say get them to take him to the Dr. What's your age ? Like 13
i am 13

[TimDHart]

If you did I would say get them to take him to the Dr. What's your age ? Like 13
where did you go?

[Ratman1234]

Tell your parents

[Vermilion]

where did you go?

Sorry had to pick up gcse results.

[TimDHart]

Sorry had to pick up gcse results.
I just wokeup I think I just had my first wetdream:what:

[TimDHart]

Tell your parents
I have if you read the rest of this thread

[Vermilion]

I just wokeup I think I just had my first wetdream:what:

That normal :) nothing to worry about

[TimDHart]

That normal :) nothing to worry about
I know it is just wasn't expecting it I have no other signs of puberty

[Vermilion]

I know it is just wasn't expecting it I have no other signs of puberty

I think I had them before hair

[TimDHart]

So weird that my 6 year old brother is more developed than me

[Vermilion]

So weird that my 6 year old brother is more developed than me

Just wait if he has other signs eg hair your parents will have to listen

[KingdomHearts]

I'd take him to the paediatrician and get him checked if hes producing semen at 6 years old :)

[Second Chance]

He already has twice and our parents are almost angry it looks at for both of us and my brother is starting to think somthing is wrong with him now (even thoe there is) but still my parents are doing nothing about it and just yelling at us which is making it worse even after I told him about wet dreams and cuming that kind of stuff

I'm really sorry to hear that your parents are not being helpful at all about this problem.

Are there any other responsible adults you can talk to about this issue? Do you have an uncle or aunt that can help out? Do you have an older cousin to whom your parents would listen?

I can understand your parents' feelings because it is not common at all for a 6 year old to be able to cum, and it is not as common for someone your age not to be able to cum. It is almost like you and your brother are reversed in some ways. I am really disappointed that your parents aren't hearing you out and why they would think you would be sick enough to leave semen on your brother and claim it belongs to him.

At this stage if your parents will not do anything, then you are just going to have to explain to your brother that boys produce two things out of their penises. When he asks why that happens, just tell him that is a sign of his getting older and that there's nothing wrong with him. More than anything your brother needs reassurance that he is fine and that he is not a freak of nature. Tell him that he just needs to keep what is happening to him private except to your parents and his doctor.

6 year olds are something like in 1st grade which is why I would not go into masturbation or anything about sexuality with the kid. Your brother is just going to have to live with wet dreams for a while until he is older like 10/11 when you can talk about sexuality and masturbation. For the time being when your brother makes a mess, then help him clean up and let him know that you'll be there for him and help him out.

In the end of the day the best thing you can do for your brother is to be a friend to him and make him feel safe. Just make sure that he doesn't get sexual because at his age that would be a disaster having a child's mind but an adult's sexual urges. If your brother starts to get aggressive sexually, then you have to get your parents involved. Even if that means going to a school counselor at that stage it might take that to help you brother.

I think if your brother starts showing signs of puberty, then that should be a wake up call to your parents. For example, if your brother starts getting pubes and hair, then your parents should wake up. I think there are pills that kids can take to stop puberty which might be needed in your brother's case.

I give you credit for helping out your brother, and at this point just be his friend and reassure him that he is normal which is the best thing you can do.

[TimDHart]

Just wait if he has other signs eg hair your parents will have to listen
Will do
I'd take him to the paediatrician and get him checked if hes producing semen at 6 years old :)
First off the nearest pediatrician is about 40 miles away 2nd im not old enough to take him my self I don't think
I'm really sorry to hear that your parents are not being helpful at all about this problem.

Are there any other responsible adults you can talk to about this issue? Do you have an uncle or aunt that can help out? Do you have an older cousin to whom your parents would listen?

I can understand your parents' feelings because it is not common at all for a 6 year old to be able to cum, and it is not as common for someone your age not to be able to cum. It is almost like you and your brother are reversed in some ways. I am really disappointed that your parents aren't hearing you out and why they would think you would be sick enough to leave semen on your brother and claim it belongs to him.

At this stage if your parents will not do anything, then you are just going to have to explain to your brother that boys produce two things out of their penises. When he asks why that happens, just tell him that is a sign of his getting older and that there's nothing wrong with him. More than anything your brother needs reassurance that he is fine and that he is not a freak of nature. Tell him that he just needs to keep what is happening to him private except to your parents and his doctor.

6 year olds are something like in 1st grade which is why I would not go into masturbation or anything about sexuality with the kid. Your brother is just going to have to live with wet dreams for a while until he is older like 10/11 when you can talk about sexuality and masturbation. For the time being when your brother makes a mess, then help him clean up and let him know that you'll be there for him and help him out.

In the end of the day the best thing you can do for your brother is to be a friend to him and make him feel safe. Just make sure that he doesn't get sexual because at his age that would be a disaster having a child's mind but an adult's sexual urges. If your brother starts to get aggressive sexually, then you have to get your parents involved. Even if that means going to a school counselor at that stage it might take that to help you brother.

I think if your brother starts showing signs of puberty, then that should be a wake up call to your parents. For example, if your brother starts getting pubes and hair, then your parents should wake up. I think there are pills that kids can take to stop puberty which might be needed in your brother's case.

I give you credit for helping out your brother, and at this point just be his friend and reassure him that he is normal which is the best thing you can do.
Thanks will do I have tried talking to my aunt about this and she talked to my mom and my mom just got even more angry at us

[Vermilion]

As long as your here you'll get help :) but can only do so much

[TimDHart]

As long as your here you'll get help :) but can only do so much
Thanks :)

[Vermilion]

Thanks :)

Your very welcome :)

[Second Chance]

Will do

First off the nearest pediatrician is about 40 miles away 2nd im not old enough to take him my self I don't think

Thanks will do I have tried talking to my aunt about this and she talked to my mom and my mom just got even more angry at us

I agree with the person above who said to just be there for your brother at this point. I am sure once your brother starts developing pubes and other things, then your parents will know you're telling the truth. I respect the fact that you were really mature about the situation and did everything you could to help your brother rather than making fun of him. At this point all you can do is help the kid clean up and make sure he does not develop any negative sexuality. Just be your brother's friend and someone he can count on, and you both will get through this. At least you're helping your brother out a lot right now which is great.

If this means anything, I am sure things will work out, and don't get discouraged. Your brother has to see the doctor soon or later, and when that happens your parents will have to do something.

[TimDHart]

I agree with the person above who said to just be there for your brother at this point. I am sure once your brother starts developing pubes and other things, then your parents will know you're telling the truth. I respect the fact that you were really mature about the situation and did everything you could to help your brother rather than making fun of him. At this point all you can do is help the kid clean up and make sure he does not develop any negative sexuality. Just be your brother's friend and someone he can count on, and you both will get through this. At least you're helping your brother out a lot right now which is great.

If this means anything, I am sure things will work out, and don't get discouraged. Your brother has to see the doctor soon or later, and when that happens your parents will have to do something.
Thanks dude :) I just realized that my brother and I are having our yearly checkups soon at the same time me and my brother always go in at the same time by our selves (We always do our checkups at the same time by our selfs) hopefully I can bring it up then

[TimDHart]

The only question is will the doctor take me seriously or just ignore it as if im joking

[Vermilion]

The only question is will the doctor take me seriously or just ignore it as if im joking

I looked online for you. It seems that it has happened to a lot of 6 year olds. His hormone levels may be high. i also saw that a mother had called her Dr about her son and was told it's normal.

[TimDHart]

I looked online for you. It seems that it has happened to a lot of 6 year olds. His hormone levels may be high. i also saw that a mother had called her Dr about her son and was told it's normal.
I did some looking also and found if nothing is done bad thing could happen

[Vermilion]

I did some looking also and found if nothing is done bad thing could happen

So you have a cousin or grandparents near by you can talk to ?

[Second Chance]

Thanks dude :) I just realized that my brother and I are having our yearly checkups soon at the same time me and my brother always go in at the same time by our selves (We always do our checkups at the same time by our selfs) hopefully I can bring it up then

I am not sure how your doctor is like, but assuming your doctor is not a jerk, then I would think he/she would take things seriously. Your brother is going to have to take the lead and is going to have to describe what is happening to him. Your brother might need to start out by saying he is having trouble with his penis and that weird stuff has been coming out of it. Your doctor might initially think your brother has a urinary tract infection or some sort of yeast infection, but you might need to step in and mention that you have seen your brother wet dreams. While this may sound gross, you might need to take evidence with you of what your brother is making so that folks take you seriously. Remember, its not really common that six year olds make semen, and it might take a lot of convincing that something is not right. Your doctor is going to think that you are mistaking what you are seeing as something else especially since you have not started cumming, yet. Again, your brother is going to have to take the lead and ask the doctor why he is making "goo" when he wakes up, and my hope is that the doctor get a clue and realize that this kid has precocious puberty. I think the following links might help you so that you all can have an intelligent conversation with the doctor:

1. https://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001168.htm
2. http://www.nichd.nih.gov/health/topics/puberty/conditioninfo/Pages/causes.aspx

I really hope things work out, and you might run into resistence especially from your parents. Just be patient and be a resource for your brother until someone opens their eyes.

[TimDHart]

So you have a cousin or grandparents near by you can talk to ?
No I don't I used the internet
I am not sure how your doctor is like, but assuming your doctor is not a jerk, then I would think he/she would take things seriously. Your brother is going to have to take the lead and is going to have to describe what is happening to him. Your brother might need to start out by saying he is having trouble with his penis and that weird stuff has been coming out of it. Your doctor might initially think your brother has a urinary tract infection or some sort of yeast infection, but you might need to step in and mention that you have seen your brother wet dreams. While this may sound gross, you might need to take evidence with you of what your brother is making so that folks take you seriously. Remember, its not really common that six year olds make semen, and it might take a lot of convincing that something is not right. Your doctor is going to think that you are mistaking what you are seeing as something else especially since you have not started cumming, yet. Again, your brother is going to have to take the lead and ask the doctor why he is making "goo" when he wakes up, and my hope is that the doctor get a clue and realize that this kid has precocious puberty. I think the following links might help you so that you all can have an intelligent conversation with the doctor:

1. https://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001168.htm
2. http://www.nichd.nih.gov/health/topics/puberty/conditioninfo/Pages/causes.aspx

I really hope things work out, and you might run into resistence especially from your parents. Just be patient and be a resource for your brother until someone opens their eyes.
thanks :)

[TimDHart]

Also if you guys are wondering how I know what semen/cum looks like my best friend can

[KingdomHearts]

Will do

First off the nearest pediatrician is about 40 miles away 2nd im not old enough to take him my self I don't think

Thanks will do I have tried talking to my aunt about this and she talked to my mom and my mom just got even more angry at us

When I said "you" I meant an adult, not you specifically :)

[TimDHart]

When I said "you" I meant an adult, not you specifically :)
I thought you did :)

[KingdomHearts]

I hope everything goes ok for you from this point on :)

[Vermilion]

I think you should keep asking your parents to go the Dr. Hopefully they will give In trying to make a point to you

[TimDHart]

I think you should keep asking your parents to go the Dr. Hopefully they will give In trying to make a point to you
I think the doctors appointment is in 2 weeks or so might aswell wait til then then have my brother yelled at

[Vermilion]

I think the doctors appointment is in 2 weeks or so might aswell wait til then then have my brother yelled at

That's good I guess best of luck

[Zerg]

If he is that young, then i wouldn't explain it to him, but just tell him it is normal and don't be afraid or worried that it happens.

[TimDHart]

Well we went to the doctors today and my bro and I went in together by our selves I told the doc about what has been happening recently she told us to get undressed my brother had a boner idk why but when the doc started checking him out you know the regular stuff checking the balls etc my brother suddenly started cumming I think the doctor is convinced something is up I think my brother is going to be getting some help now

[Vermilion]

Well we went to the doctors today and my bro and I went in together by our selves I told the doc about what has been happening recently she told us to get undressed my brother had a boner idk why but when the doc started checking him out you know the regular stuff checking the balls etc my brother suddenly started cumming I think the doctor is convinced something is up I think my brother is going to be getting some help now


That's good news :)

[Gokingsgo12345]

Just treat him nicely and explain why to him

[Second Chance]

Well we went to the doctors today and my bro and I went in together by our selves I told the doc about what has been happening recently she told us to get undressed my brother had a boner idk why but when the doc started checking him out you know the regular stuff checking the balls etc my brother suddenly started cumming I think the doctor is convinced something is up I think my brother is going to be getting some help now

I'm glad that the doctor saw what was going on, and I hope your brother gets the help he needs. Let us know what happens because your brother's situation definitely sounds unique.