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messipt
August 9th, 2015, 06:51 PM
ok i have mixed feelings about 3 girls its getting really hard to focus on one cause i dont know what to do
The situation with them 3 is this:
1-Lives close to my house, is my age, last year she told me she only saw me as a friend but now we talk and act as boyfriend/girlfriend, easy to get to her, and i see her as the main one im attracted to
2-Lives in a place only accessible by bus, is a bit shy, is 3 years younger, not sure if she is interested or not but my close friend tells me not to give up on her and she´s her childhood friend and they are together a lot (thats how i met her).
3- A foreign girl i met online i´ve been talking to her a lot lately, we had a talk and decided that being on a relationship would be hard (but agreed on not classifying our relationship as dating only as mutual interest) because of the distance though its only a 3 hour flight away we are under age, btw she is 3 years younger, if i could i would definetly date her, she is nice and is a good online buddy, as the first one we talk like boyfriend/girlfriend, she told me she loved me and she would have a relationship with me

What should i do ?? i want some advice regarding them all pls help !!!!

fidder
August 9th, 2015, 09:25 PM
I say you go with the girl your age because it most likely and hopefully does mean that you both will be at the same maturity level and it is more convenient to you because you live so close to each other which means you can see each other more often

messipt
August 10th, 2015, 07:17 PM
Prolly but i have still really big doubts... she rejected me once... but not in the same circumstances

Hudor
August 16th, 2015, 02:19 AM
i think the first one must be your priority for now seeing as you're already close.

mikielikesit
August 16th, 2015, 12:32 PM
I would start with number 1 since she is close by