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TheWolf
August 7th, 2015, 10:13 PM
Hello everyone, this is my first time posting something here because I really want to know other people's opinion; sorry if it becomes too long. So, while I was in a school trip, we went to a nightclub where I met a girl I really liked, the thing is I live somewhere else and she lives in that city. After some time talking, I learned that next year she is moving to another city to start university, and I told her that I was also moving there to study aswell. I really enjoyed being with her and we also kissed sometimes when we were talking (probably because we didn't have too much space so we were really close) but after an hour or so talking she had to go home with her friends; it really looked like she liked me as much as I liked her.
The problem is that I didn't have my cellphone so I couldn't register her but she registered me and called me via so that I could get her number. The thing is that when I went back to the hotel I didn't see her call in my cellphone (probably because I didn't have a very good connection there) so I couldn't talk to her.
So, if she didn't talk to me I was totally screwed... and I ended up being screwed... After four days of thinking about how I could talk to her, I found a guy that was with her friend that night, so I asked him if he had her number and he gave it to me.
Now, one week after the night we met, I'm back in my hometown and I don't know if I should talk to her or not now that I have her number because: at first I thought that she believed I wanted to just play with her for one night, but then I realized that maybe she wanted to play with me that night, she probably knew that I wouldn't get her call.
And here comes the big dilema, do I talk to her? If so, what do I say to her?
Well, sorry for writing too much, probably first time issues, but I still hope someone will read this and try to help me. If you wanna ask me anything else referred to this to understand more, just tell me.

DoodleSnap
August 9th, 2015, 03:13 AM
What is it that you want? I think that is the first thing to work out.
Do you want to speak to her again? Listen to what your heart says, that is important.

I think you should speak to her, and tell her what happened. Explain your feelings to her. Maybe it will work out, maybe it won't. What is it that you're afraid of in calling her?