Fighting over text but never in person?

[DairyFarmer]

Okay so my girlfriend and I have been doing really well, but lately it seems that we fight every single day, but when we're together I don't think either of us ever stop smiling... It's like it's the technology's fault haha. But we fight over stupid shit.... Like I don't like that she has a lot of guy friends.... I'm not clingy, I'm just not comfortable with her going to get together's and stuff and other guys being there and when we fight over text about it, it really gets heated.... but in person, it's like we meet eye to eye and we never yell or insult or hurt each other.... Any advice?

[Eperty123]

That kinda reminds of me how my relationship was a few months ago. I know how you feel when you say you feel uncomfortable about her guy friends. But what exactly is your deal there? What do you feel when she's with her guy friends?

Also remember that if something bothers you then be honest with her and talk about it face2face. Solving your issues on the phone is not the best way to get things straighten out.

[DairyFarmer]

That kinda reminds of me how my relationship was a few months ago. I know how you feel when you say you feel uncomfortable about her guy friends. But what exactly is your deal there? What do you feel when she's with her guy friends?

Also remember that if something bothers you then be honest with her and talk about it face2face. Solving your issues on the phone is not the best way to get things straighten out.

No she doesn't get cute texts from guys other than me haha. I just feel unsecure when she's with her guy friends because I've been cheated on before by girls with "guy friends". I tell her about it, and she tells me I need to accept her for who she is, and that she's not just going to not hang out with her friends because I'm not comfortable with it, which leaves me kind of offended....

[Eperty123]

No she doesn't get cute texts from guys other than me haha. I just feel unsecure when she's with her guy friends because I've been cheated on before by girls with "guy friends". I tell her about it, and she tells me I need to accept her for who she is, and that she's not just going to not hang out with her friends because I'm not comfortable with it, which leaves me kind of offended....


It leaves you no choice but to do so, huh? Have you seen her guy friends? Like talked to them? And do they know that she's in a relationship?

[Melodic]

Trust is a big key in any relationship. If you can't trust her, you shouldn't be in a relationship with her. Whether she's interested in others or not, it doesn't matter. Until you trust her 100 percent with the relationship, you two will never be happy.

[DoodleSnap]

As Melodic says, trust is a super important thing in any relationship, especially in romantic ones. Try speaking to her about some of your worries, and maybe she can help you quell them. Working through an issue face to face, with honesty and communication is hands-down the best way to get through stuff like this.