Is this cheating?

[TSUNAMI]

If your a guy and you have a gf is jerking off with other guys (no touching each other) cheating?

Thank you

[Vermilion]

No but I wouldn't be happy with it

[lightPainting]

Yhea. It is. Because your doing something sexual with someone your not comited with. Unless the bf & gf are both comfortable with it. Its not ok

[Zachary G]

I dont know if I would say its cheating because you arent really sexually interacting with another person as much as you are being sexually active with yourself around of other people. The definition of cheating is kind of a personal preference thing when it comes to relationships -- its hard to define

[Akasuki]

If you even have to ask this question, I would consider it cheating. Ask her if she's okay with it first. If she is, then it's not cheating. If she isn't, then it would be. Everyone has different views of what is cheating and what isn't.

[Professional Russian]

I'd consider that cheating...she's dating you and she's fucking around with someone else. Whether they're touching each other or not it doesn't matter. She's doing something sexual with anither guy and that is cheating in my book.

[everlong]

Seems borderline cheating. I'd say it is.

[Babs]

I mean, I wouldn't consider it cheating per se but I wouldn't be happy about it either. It depends on your and your girlfriend's boundaries in the relationship, and the commitments you agreed upon.

[xXoblivionXx]

yes, it's just like kissing. and intimate sexual act

^^okay, that didn't make sense but you catch my drift?

[mattsmith48]

If your a guy and you have a gf is jerking off with other guys (no touching each other) cheating?

Thank you

you should talk with your gf before you do anything if you havent talked about it yet. If she alright with it go for it if shes not well your choice to either do it or not

[Eperty123]

I wouldn't consider it cheating but rather suspicious. Why would she jerk off with other guys and not you? I mean she could literally just lie to you about the no skin2skin contact. If you however think it's okay then that's your call. I would recommend you to talk to her about it though.

[TSUNAMI]

I wouldn't consider it cheating but rather suspicious. Why would she jerk off with other guys and not you? I mean she could literally just lie to you about the no skin2skin contact. If you however think it's okay then that's your call. I would recommend you to talk to her about it though.

No i mean me jerking off with other guys not her lol

[Eperty123]

No i mean me jerking off with other guys not her lol


Totally missed the key word "you're" I'm sorry. [emoji23]

[TSUNAMI]

Totally missed the key word "you're" I'm sorry. [emoji23]
Dont worry about it its the schools fault they cant teach kids to read anymore:lol:

[Eperty123]

Dont worry about it its the schools fault they cant teach kids to read anymore:lol:
No need to insult bro. Though I did miss the word. [emoji28]

[DoodleSnap]

The thing about cheating, being a pretty vague word/societal concept, is that it has no objective definition. It depends on the relationship. If you are wondering about what the boundaries of the relationship are, then you need to speak to your girlfriend about it. Communication is the key to any healthy relationship, so speak about things you're unsure of, rather than worrying about them on your own.

[matt_tgr]

Umm in my mind it is

[The Faulted]

idk, i think so. she's doing this with other guys when she could be doing it with her boyfriend. either way, i don't find it to a very healthy contribution to the relationship.

[Cognizant]

Now I personally wouldn't call it cheating and I wouldn't get upset if it was a one-time occasion, but it's something you definitely should mention to your partner that you did. Even if there's no romantic or sexual feelings for the person you're jerking off with, some people could take offense to that.

[Ratman1234]

Um...kinda. U should really confront her and talk about it. It is kinda cheating cos she is doing something sexual with another but she isn't having sex.

[Baconator]

Literally, it is not cheating. But it's the thought of other people than yourself seeing your girlfriend naked and getting off. Terrible morals.

[ClaireM]

I you are keeping secrets, then that will hurt your relationship. If you can talk to each other about it and be OK with it then no harm done.

[jaxianrhyder]

Yes that is cheating