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CityKid
August 6th, 2015, 11:39 PM
I'm a 15 year old boy and for a long time I have wondered if I might be gay or bi. Ever since I hit puberty I get aroused by attractive guys easily, but it takes a lot more for a girl to get my aroused even if she is really hot. I can't see myself as fully gay though since I am romantically attracted to girls, and even though I would try sexual things with a guy, I could never see myself kissing or making out with a male. So far I've only gone as far as making out, and every time its been with a girl and when I'm doing that I have gotten aroused. My friend (who is undoubtedly straight and also not a virgin) promised me that he is going to find a girl for me to have sex with by the end of the summer. I'm excited for that and I do want to try sex with a girl (and maybe eventually a guy), but I'm worried that I may not be able to get aroused because when I watch straight porn its much harder for me to get hard (if I even do) than with gay porn. Has anyone been in a similar situation? And what should I know going into my first time?

Ainsleyshea
August 7th, 2015, 03:16 AM
no never scared always confident even if you are scared

DoodleSnap
August 9th, 2015, 03:42 AM
Porn is not a good way to judge your sexuality. Don't feel pressured to find your label just yet, just keep your mind open and see where time and experience brings you. Sexuality is a wide and confusing spectrum, so give yourself some time to work it all out.

As for losing your virginity, just make sure you speak lots, and laugh and make the situation casual. It never goes smoothly the first time, so enjoy whatever happens, and speak to your partner about it. Just stay calm, be safe, and have fun.