Faolan
August 5th, 2015, 11:54 AM
So I posted a month or so ago about a guy that I had been hanging out w. We're friends, but after he came out in may I realized that I'd had a crush on him for a while. I told him at the end of June and we decided just to stay friends.
The problem is, though, I can't get my head in gear--whenever I see him I'm happy, but I'm also really sad. I know this happens to everyone but it's still difficult. He leaves for college in two weeks and me a week later.
I texted him telling him my feeling's haven't changed, so my question is was this the right choice? I still want to hang out but I'm worried I'm just alienating myself
Edit: he texted back saying what I knew already, that he doesn't feel the same way. Time and distance are what it's gonna take. I've hung out w some people going to the same school as me, and already I'm feeling better
The problem is, though, I can't get my head in gear--whenever I see him I'm happy, but I'm also really sad. I know this happens to everyone but it's still difficult. He leaves for college in two weeks and me a week later.
I texted him telling him my feeling's haven't changed, so my question is was this the right choice? I still want to hang out but I'm worried I'm just alienating myself
Edit: he texted back saying what I knew already, that he doesn't feel the same way. Time and distance are what it's gonna take. I've hung out w some people going to the same school as me, and already I'm feeling better